little bit about our lifestyle

Discussion in 'Female led relationships' started by kh of lockedtresure, Nov 15, 2010.

Top Posters
Random Thread
  1. kh of lockedtresure
    Offline

    kh of lockedtresure New member

    Joined:
    Oct 5, 2010
    Messages:
    6
    Likes Received:
    0
    Trophy Points:
    1
    Local Time:
    8:31 AM
    #1 kh of lockedtresure, Nov 15, 2010
    I thought I would share a little bit about our lifestyle. My bf and I have been playing around with chastity for about a year now. It started out with him being locked up a day or two and then he was let out to cum. He was also required to wear my panties daily even to work. We have grown alot since the beginning. I have become for comfortable being his kh and have become more dominant. He currently his being punished with a month of no cumming(which will be the longest he has gone without cumming) and locked daily in some kind of lingerie. When he is work ing he is locked in a bodystocking and of course required to wear panties and at home he is dressed more feminine. For example he could be forced to wear a tutu over his bodystocking or a teddy and then he also is required to wear high heels. He looks so pretty when he is all dressed up. We are still learning but I am loving this lifestyle and where it is heading. I love controlling when he cums and what he wears. I love teasing him and then denying him an orgasim.

    I hope you enjoyed getting to know our lifestyle better and if you have any ideas to share I would love to hear them.

    Thanks,

    Kh of lockedtresure
     
  2. Rita
    Offline

    Rita Long term member

    Joined:
    Sep 23, 2010
    Messages:
    462
    Likes Received:
    453
    Trophy Points:
    63
    Gender:
    Female
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    England
    Local Time:
    3:31 PM
    #2 Rita, Nov 15, 2010
    While he's 'enjoying' his month keep up the tease and denial, you might even wish to increase the teasing the longer he's been denied to really remind him just what he's missing! Washing him is an excellent way to tease and deny him, nice warm water and soft soapy fingers gently caressing him should guarantee a throbbing erection. The more his penis strains inside his device the more he will want relief and the more power that little key will give you.

    Rita
     
  3. humbleboy
    Offline

    humbleboy Junior Member

    Joined:
    Aug 19, 2008
    Messages:
    13
    Likes Received:
    0
    Trophy Points:
    1
    Local Time:
    3:31 PM
    #3 humbleboy, Nov 15, 2010
    Your boyfriend is a very lucky guy. Being locked in chastity can be frustrating when being teased but it's infinitely better than being ignored. I've spent the week in chastity and my girlfriend, who asked me to put it on in the first place, hasn't even mentioned it since then. She likes how much more obedient I become but does nothing to fuel my submissiveness. If I'm a slave then why does she have to do anything for me. I'd argue that I need to be turned on and my kinks used against me to turn drudgery into delight but I don't want to top from the bottom.

    Basically I'm mega jealous there are dominant women, like you, who get it :D
     
  4. PT109
    Offline

    PT109 Senior Member

    Joined:
    Jun 5, 2008
    Messages:
    249
    Likes Received:
    32
    Trophy Points:
    18
    Local Time:
    3:31 PM
    #4 PT109, Nov 16, 2010
    I have to agree. You must be a terrific woman and I'm sure you will grow in your dominance. Keep having fun and sharing with us.
     
  5. Mistress's_slave
    Offline

    Mistress's_slave Member

    Joined:
    Nov 13, 2010
    Messages:
    17
    Likes Received:
    5
    Trophy Points:
    3
    Gender:
    Male
    Occupation:
    Support Worker/ Psychotherapist
    Location: (Country, Region - and perhaps even City?):
    Kent
    Local Time:
    2:31 PM
    #5 Mistress's_slave, Nov 17, 2010
    i agree with the above posts-
    You truly are a great Mistress from the sounds of it, and Your b/f is lucky to have You in his life to serve.
    You sound quite similar to my Mistress. She has kept me horny but not allowed me to cum for the past....5 days (day 6 today) and although i am frustratred, She seems to love this, and has had me bring Her to orgasm each night with my fingers before falling asleep, lightly holding 'Her' (my) cock.
    Things are going slowly and easily, but She too is beginning to realise the power and joy of being dominant in our relationship.
     
  6. kh of lockedtresure
    Offline

    kh of lockedtresure New member

    Joined:
    Oct 5, 2010
    Messages:
    6
    Likes Received:
    0
    Trophy Points:
    1
    Local Time:
    8:31 AM
    #6 kh of lockedtresure, Nov 19, 2010

    Thanks for the advice. I am always looking for new ideas to tease my bf!
     
  7. kh of lockedtresure
    Offline

    kh of lockedtresure New member

    Joined:
    Oct 5, 2010
    Messages:
    6
    Likes Received:
    0
    Trophy Points:
    1
    Local Time:
    8:31 AM
    #7 kh of lockedtresure, Nov 19, 2010
    [quote name='Mistress's_slave' timestamp='1289988096' post='56208']
    i agree with the above posts-
    You truly are a great Mistress from the sounds of it, and Your b/f is lucky to have You in his life to serve.
    You sound quite similar to my Mistress. She has kept me horny but not allowed me to cum for the past....5 days (day 6 today) and although i am frustratred, She seems to love this, and has had me bring Her to orgasm each night with my fingers before falling asleep, lightly holding 'Her' (my) cock.
    Things are going slowly and easily, but She too is beginning to realise the power and joy of being dominant in our relationship.


    [/quote]

    I also took things slowly and my bf was very patient, which helped me out alot. This was all new to me and took some time to learn and get use to. So I think it is great you are allowing her to do this at her own paces and I am sure in no time at all she will be loving controlling you just like I love controlling my bf!!
     
(You must log in or sign up to post here.)
  1. This site uses cookies to help personalise content, tailor your experience and to keep you logged in if you register.
    By continuing to use this site, you are consenting to our use of cookies.
    Accept Learn More...
    Dismiss Notice