Wives/partners aware of CM?

My wife knows about CM. She has a neglected account. She knows my account name. To my knowledge she doesn't ever visit.

 

Does not know, and would not approve. She dislikes my being in chastity, but tolerates it since she is completely disinterested in sex for several years now. She holds the key but worries I will somehow be discovered d and she will be embarrassed throughout the city….

I am locked pretty much indefinitely now for masturbation control. She acknowledges that I have chemical imbalances so that post masturbating I drop and am hard to be with for multiple days, so she agrees for me to stay in chastity.

 

I have told her about it and have asked if she would like a account but she declined

 

My Partner is a verified female here but has never logged on since she verified. The pictures of her hair are real

A few years ago during a spat she told me that she was sick of talking and doing stuff just so I could put things on CM about our relationship.

We are in a different place now. Sometimes I share with her some postings I put on here or read. Since we really don't do much kinky stuff any more other than me being locked up ...that other stuff doesn't really come up.

That said she really does embrace me being locked up...even if it is just for me being kept for her and being more productive because I don't waste time masturbating because I cant. I do get paddled every now and then and get threatened with other things but while I still live in hope that we may get back to some orgasm denial and other activities its pretty vanilla otherwise, I cant complain she is pretty regular, given she is 3 or 4 years into menopause extremely fortunate she entertains me at all.

But yes she knows I am still active on here but she never bothers to look, I doubt she even knows her password. I cant see that changing.

 

KH knows I follow a forum, though she has no interest in reading along herself.

 

My wife kh doesn’t know about cm she just thinks I’m a wired bloke who loves her been in controlled of my Cock

 

Wife knows but has zero interest...

 

I've always been able to be both open and honest with my partners

Of course they have all known, but do not wish it to be known by others that they do

 

My wife, BKwife knows and in the passed participated but she had lost interest in the site since Covid started.

 

My wife of 32 years knows and supports all Tanya's quirks. But doesn't do anything internet related. Medical reasons. I do inform her about certain stuff I find and things I have posted. I've even told her about KH I have been locked up before by.
Early on she would enjoy a good story I found or wote and I would read them to her at bedtime. Made for some fantastic forplay back then.

This and other sites are an outlet for my dealing with our day-to-day crap.

 

My wife has looked on here with me a bit a few years ago, but she was completely turned off by the sissy, crossdressing, pegging talk, and all other emasculating topics. Honestly, this site nearly turned her off of the whole chastity idea entirely. It was no help in our journey and I had to do damage control after trying to show her the positives of the site.
What turns her on about chastity is being able to have some control over a strong, cigar smoking, sports loving, entrepreneurial, beard having, father to her kids, masculine man, and a way to have the sex she wants on her terms. Plus she enjoys the teasing and the desperation and the lustful hunger that I show. It brings back the chase and feeling of being desired that she craves.

 

My wife knows but isn't interested in viewing the site. She does occasionally enjoy hearing about a post or thread topic.

 

My wife doesn't know about CM and I would not want her to either, because she'd likely be so turned off by the sissy/cuck/emasculating topics that I'd - like Staylocked - have to do a lot of damage control to keep her interested in chastity.

Other topics might interest her, and she might get some good ideas. Too bad it's not like ordering a hamburger - you can have them leave off the tomatoes and onions and still get everything else. But for some reason with chastity, it's either plain vanilla or The Works And Then Some.

 

Yes! Not just for the wife. I'm personally put off by several things discussed here. You can ignore posts individually, but there are entire forums that I'd like to ignore.

 

She knows CM since we started chastity play three years ago. She was not very curious about it. But two weeks ago to my surprise she asked me to create an account for her. Now she is a member…

 

My Goddess Wife @Ms.Shauna has been a member on CM for years. She comes of every now and then. Sometimes she will be active for awhile, until she gets bored of it.
Mostly she’ll just ask me if there’s any interesting forums going on, then she might check it out and post.
Sometimes she’ll start a discussion, to see what kind of feedback there is.
I’m the one usually checking things out daily.

 

The biggest problem is that each thread can have comments that drop those things into an unrelated topic, so you can't avoid them. It's funny because all of those things have their own forums, yet we can't have one that doesn't have those. Unless it's the vanilla forum, which we are definitely not.

 

Same here. my Wife says CM is my thing and not Her thing. She just wants me to do what i need to in order to be in, and stay in chastity as comfortably as possible. Including emotional/social support (like this site).

 

my wife/KH knows i’m on, and that i contribute, and she’s fine with it. she had an account at one point, but to be honest, she finds a lot of the topics/posts depressing. i’ve told her about and she’s seen the female only stuff, but it just hasn’t piqued her interest. she does seem to do her own reading or research (i’m not sure where or what, i’m just happy she’s doing it) because continues to up both her interest and Domme game.

 

My wife knows about it and I've shown her my main journal thread, but she's not a member and would not have any interest. I do sometimes retell her stories from here but I have to be very selective as most would turn her off, way off. I give her some hints at what others are up to and she winces. So yeah, I too fall into the non-sissy, non-cuck, non-feminized group.

 

My lovely vanilla wife knows that I am on the site a lot and I guess she reluctantly accepts that CM is just another manifestation of my inexplicable desires.

 

I am in a male male relationship and my Dom/ KH does know and actually told me about the site .

 

As a verified female here my situation is opposite. While I am on here to communicate with the community he is not. It’s definitely a way of teasing him. I talk to other men and he gets to watch me do it but isn’t allowed to participate.

 

Now that's hot

 

That’s the idea!