Why do you do Locktober? Why is this a thing these days? I was skeptical at first but I'm really liking it, mostly because I have an awesomely sweet Cyber Keyholder I found on the QIUI app and she remotely controls my devices (And thus orgasms) from a few states away. We talk daily and she's into it because she says it arouses her to be the controlling authority on my sex activity. I'm between spouses ATM and you have ever transition from married to single, it is NOT easy as a man b/c you're suddenly without female companionship and related sex but masturbating doesn't quite check the box on that requirement. Being locked relieves me of this constant male hormone-driven sex drive. I find it a blessing as it lets me focus on more important matters. Enjoy the month! It's better than you may think.
For my wife it is not a thing. I do it because my wife keeps my key. My wife keeps my key at all times. My successful Locktober is a by-product of her exceptional key holding skills.
Because my keyholder says so. I'm normally pretty much locked 24/7 anyway, but I think she really enjoys reminding me all this month its not coming off, enjoy locktober bitch.
I'm locked constantly, but occasionally through the year, the wife will unlock me or at least allow a caged orgasm. Locktober is extra fun because it's the only month out of the year that all of those things are off the table.
TBH, besides my wife wanting it too, as we did play with chastity regularly, I also wanted it as a break from self-pleasuring. It had become a bit of a daily habit, so why not cut back on it at least for 1 month. And considering i’m usully locked also during her period and how the calendars alligned, I’ll be locked also in the first week of November for sure ♂️
It’s our first year of chastity so we figured we’d give it a try. Plus, she’s already seen how intense my orgasms are after not having them for a while so she’s curious if an erection will be just as intense after a month of none.
Imagine if you’re body become so accustomed to refraining from erection that your swinging a semi limp dick around come Nov. 1st
I once went about three weeks before without issue so fingers crossed; I did unlock for cleaning but no erections. This time there’s no cleaning unlocks and she’s aware he could be “sleepy” after a month but has made it very clear that she’ll put in the effort needed to wake him up.
Are you not worried that the effort she’ll put in to wake him up will cause climax before you’ve even got hard? Im only messing but, over time I’ve found that my guy doesn’t jump to full attention straight away as soon as the cage is removed. When we first started just pulling the tube off would get the blood pumping. It worries me one day it just isn’t react at all. After the longest time I went without an erection (and the first time we had sex again) I felt so sore afterwards. The erection was powerful, the penis was not accustomed to it anymore! I moisturise regularly now to keep the skin supple.
Wife is still figuring it all out and locktober eliminated all the ambiguity. I will remain locked with no releases for at least this month if not next... Lets figure out what that means for her.. and for us
Not too worried, if it started I’d just have to let her know to stop. Although she’d get a kick out of that so she’d probably ruin it soft just to see it happen.
The major differences for me between regular months and Loctober are: 1. Definitely no releases during the month. 2. Nearly constant teasing and denial during the month. 3. Absolutely no orgasms (by me), even ruined ones (even more severely punished than usual).
Honestly we just do it for fun. We don't take our BDSM or chastity too seriously. We do chastity because it builds sexual tension. If I make it this month, that will be the longest I've ever been locked up. I'm 46 years old and still learning new things about my sexuality. It's good to keep pushing boundaries.
We go through phases of taking it seriously and just being vanilla. When locked we don't have a set lock up time, she unlocks me when she feels like it (usually very two or three weeks). I told her about the locktober posts and we both thought it would fun to try a set lockup sentence, something different for us. She seems to be enjoying it, teasing me about it being such a shame she can't fuck me.
What a great question! As a mod in several other groups, I wish I had thought to ask this a few weeks ago. Or rather, what I'd like to ask is "Why do so many guys wait until September 29th and then post questions like 'This is my first LOctober, what is the best cage?' or similar dumb things?"