Morning glory causing pain

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    When I get the early morning erections, I try to urinate, or reach down and squeeze/pinch from top to bottom of the shaft behind the cage. I believe it interrupts the blood flow enough to start the softening. Help when Mistress is got a hold of you and you shouldn’t break that hold..
     
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    I got the same, so I now use a liquid paraffin moisturiser cream at night and first thing each morning, and have no problems since.
     
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    You might also consider distracting your thoughts from caged wood.
    I have to do that myself because if you focus on it, the wood will never go away.

    Read the depressing news or something work related or whatever.
    Works for me.
     
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    It really isn't. Of course, if it's too stiff you can't do the full 180 degrees, maybe just 90 degrees, but either way, give it 1-2 minutes and the erection will subside.
     
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    Anyone having this problem should avoid Trazadone which is often used for insomnia.
     
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    Thanks for this tip, I have bought some and it does appear to work very well.

    I bought it for $5.47 on Amazon
    https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00CGIC5IE
     
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    I'm increasingly thinking that if you have testicular varicocoeles (varcose veins in your balls) which 1/4 men have, then that increases the chance of burning pain during nocturnal erections.
     
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    Contractions of large muscle groups rob erections of blood supply. If ignoring it, then thinking pure thoughts fails, I get up, and squat so my knees are bent at right angles. Doesn't take long.
     
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    Hey, good deal.
    Try applying some in the shower after warming it up a little with the warm water.
    I've enjoyed this stuff for years.
    Also available directly on Ebay to side-step Amazon's fingers.
     
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    So many great suggestions here that this should almost be pinned for anyone new to chastity. Just from my own experience in the beginning, finding the right base ring shape and diameter is a great start. Some shapes don't work for all folks but once I found the one that fit me perfectly, that cleared up any discomfort day or night. I know that if the base ring doesn't sit right, it can cause pulling or unnecessary pressure that can become very painful over time. But finding the right fit paired with coconut oil did the trick for me. I'll use the coconut oil at various times but most definitely before bed. Also, you may find your body changing/adjusting over time to chastity and you may find yourself needing to go to a smaller base ring to keep from having these issues due to a ring being too big.
     
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    The best decision I made was to get a main ring that's big enough that with morning wood, it doesn't hurt.
    Might feel a bit tight but that's manageable.

    52mm works best for me.
    Don't feel you need to punish your junk to enjoy the chastity experience.
     
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    Personally I've found it difficult to find the right ring size and shape. I've found 40mm to be comfortable but hopelessy insecure. When my ballsack is cold it's nice and tight but when it gets warm the ring can just fall down my loose sack skin. 38mm is very snug and doesn't move but burns with nighttime erections even with oil. Wider rings work best for me and it has taken a lot of trial and error to find the right fit.
     
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    Exactly like me.
    Now my body has adjusted (I started in 45mm and that felt snug) I find a 40mm round ring too loose. 38mm round would be too tight.
    That’s why I have a curved 40mm ring. It’s 38mm in one direction and 42mm in the other. Just enough room. As close to maximum security as a ball trap can give.
     
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    My keyholder explained it to me like "The cage is really just a token of your chastity" since you can escape from most devices anyhow.

    We honor the intention because of our care for our mistress and the thrill of the fun it provides.
     
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    I'm newish...done just under a week locked up straight a few times. I played with lotion on my balls to help the ring move around a little easier. For me...that seemed to make the problem worse.
    Instead, I've started making sure the base ring is tight up against my body and also pull as much ball skin forward thru the ring. I do this before bed and if I get up in the middle of the night. Seems to be helping with my 4am wood.
     
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    Same experience as me...

    As you stay in longer and progress and let things settle down (physically and emotionally), it should get better and less of an issue.

    At the start, excitement can get the better of you. After a while it just become a part of you, and don't notice it much anymore.
     
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