Hi all. A long time i have fantasies about chastity. And first I kept it for myself. Little bit ashamed of my fantasie I think. a few weeks ago I started the conversation about it with my wife. At first she was a little bit shocked but after a wile she was willing to go further and she wants to be my key holder. Lucky me!! But she has no idea what to do and she asked me to find some help for her I have explained what I chastity means for me and what a great feeling it is for me to have your wife as key holder. But sometimes she is feeling guilty about that I’m caged and sometimes she is a little bit scared that the cage wil hurt me. We hope we find some help and inspiration here. pleas dm us if you want to help us . We have also kik messenger: Blubby04 thanks for reading and sorry fore my bad English(Dutch)
You can have her create a profile and have her massage me on here. I felt the same apprehensions, but worked through them quickly when I saw how much he enjoyed it. I may be able to help her in some way.
Her reaction is pretty common. Given some time, and your good behavior, her concerns will moderate. As time goes by, she will feel less guilty, and will observe that you are not being hurt. She may learn that being locked and denied actually works in her favor and enjoyment, and you are able to remain locked for long periods of time with no physical issues. That is a bit of a turning point for you. This process can take months, even years. It sounds like she is willing, so you have a great start. Behave and good things will come your way. Well not THAT come, but you know what I mean. Your English is very good, far better than my Dutch. I will be visiting in January to see my new granddaughter!
Congrats on opening up with your wife, you won't regret it. Took me 5 years to confess my desire to be locked. KH had same concerns about injury as well as some guilt. 3 months on it really has transformed our relationship. Also having 3-4 times as much sex, with me staying locked most of the time.
Let her read this. (My ideas not my words, but I can't find who it belonged to anymore) ... ..... So why do so many men find sexually dominant women attractive? They find them attractive because they really love this woman and seek submission as a way to better satisfy her. While this may seem flawed, the path of submission is not one easily chosen by many men. By submitting to you, they acknowledge that they trust you and love you. They acknowledge their trust in the deepest way.