Hi all…. It’s been a while but thanks to WFH, I am back in the saddle so to speak… my wife is in a much better place regarding my chastity and has really (rather too well!) got on board with me ending my bad habit! Been in for 3 weeks now and she has suggested giving me a release BEFORE Locktober but I’m not sure that will happen. She has a much firmer attitude at the moment and is enjoying all the benefits that many women appreciate!! To my question, the other night I used my strapon simply as a dildo for her pleasure and she was more than a little vocal - it’s about 8inches which is 3 more than me and certainly wider. But she absolutely seemed to love it and was more vocal about NEEDING to come than I’ve ever heard before…She did!!. Needless to say, I stayed locked throughout but also gave her another noisy cum thanks to my, ahem, talented tongue..but I digress… I would very much like to use a strapon that isn’t quite so big but give her pleasure using it in the traditional method and not just as a dildo… I understand from many postings on here the Vixskin is a very good option - the Johnny Vixskin seems good, and is bigger than me but not enormous - Question is, is the harness that one can use with this particular Vixskin ok to use while I remain in a metal cage style cage. Does the cage get in the way or is there any other awkwardness going on at all ? Am sure my wife would prefer me to stay caged during the act (as would I!). I have used our current strapon which is hollow but I had to come out of the cage with this and my cock stayed inside the strapon without any feeling of course - still a total mindfuck though! Anyone with any experience of this ?? Thanks!
I do not have any experience with this, but am curious to hear responses, will be following and look forward to hearing your updates once you've made a decision
We have the Maverick (8x2) and the RangerX (7×1 3/4). My Queen prefers the later as being more realistic and tolerable. I havent used a tape measure but they sure seem larger, maybe because you really can use the full length. My harness is an off brand but has 2 bottom straps that go on either side of the cage, so I can strap it on pretty low and she says my cage feels like rock solid balls which excites her. Unfortunately, she will not let me mount her this way anymore, but she will occassionally climb on me while I am wearing it (says she wants to deny me ANY alpha feeling). Usually she has me work the vixskin by hand...
Tom Allen nd his wife use Vixskin and a harness. He is in "permanent" chastity and she only as sex with the vixskin and he is locked. https://denial-permanente.tumblr.com/
Thanks for the info! And great to hear that in your experience, there is no issue related to wearing such an item whilst caged!! Sorry to hear that she no longer lets you mount her - that is something I personally cannot wait to try in order to feel as one with her!! Thanks again & good luck!!!
We use the Johnny vixskin my wife loves it so much I rarely get out anymore .We also use a harness that has no middle to allow the chastity cage to hang freely. This position is awkward because the dildo is high but you will get use to it. We bought ours from etsy leather store. Worth the buy she will love it. They are high quality.