penis reduction in chastity

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    I also noticed that I was a bit smaller after release from a 7 day lockup. However, after a few days unlocked, I had returned to normal size. I am locked up in the 6000s. So, my thought is that the reduction no matter how long the lockup will be temporary.
     
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    I can also tell you that College and Medical School almost certainly does NOT cover the "effects of long-term enforced chastity on penis size". Your urologist is giving an off-the-cuff opinion, which may very well be colored by his personal views on the matter.

    There is no reason why the penis should atrophy. As I pointed out earlier, the *fear* of penis shinkage is very common in many cultures, but has never been documented. If it is a bit smaller the first few times after coming out, it will get back to its usual size with continued use.


    if that has been your experience, you need to get a new doctor. Most doctors I know would LOVE to be able to cure every problem they treat. Treating patients is like working on a car engine that you have to keep running while you work on it, and your understanding of how it works is very limited. Most of the treatments in current use were completely unknown 100 years ago, and a lot of medicine is still based on misinformation that has been handed down from the pre-scientific era.

    The reason that men who have had prostate surgery get ED is because the surgery disrupts the autonomic nerve supply to the blood vessels that feed the penis. Also, such men are frequently on estrogen therapy as part of the treatment for prostate cancer.
     
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    I just visited my urologist week or two ago to discuss about my very mild paraphimosis and the different size of my ball sacs.

    I was somewhat surprised that the urologist had no idea of chastity & corresponding devices. I gave him advice to check keywords "male chastity" with google. I hope he finds something useful. Anyway, I was slightly disappointed as he had nothing to give me regarding long term chastity device usage.

    One of my main concerns was about urethral wands (espesially related to chastity devices) but I did not want to ask his opinion, as he probably had no fact based information :I

    So please, fellow chaste males, share what you know, here :)
     
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    You guys should just come to Canada, free health care here!

    Also so that I put SOMETHING productive, I'm thinking about going to a Dr about my device, as I am getting some erectile pain, probably just caused my chaffing, but I can't be too sure...
     
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    The Canadian system is good, but it isn't as good as the UK system. I mean, what is it with those stupid little rectangles of plastic? I'm sure the cost of administering the system far outstrips any abuse that it is trying the prevent. Plus I don't have the choice of private system like I do in the UK. It ain't free aither, I pay 53% tax on any bonuses I get, and that supports approximately 50% of the population who rely directly on government jobs. something wrong when over half of a reward I get for hard work is stolen by the Government.

    Anyway, the US has joined the civilised countries of the world and will start offering universal health care, Go OBAMA!
     
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    ji have to be honest here an my wife says that i seem thicker and wider she has not mention about longer
    i kno wi have not shrunk
    the few times that she does unlock me that is
     
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    I (cough) have some experience with this. The men on Estrogen therapy rarely have had surgery because they are on some for of castration (Surgical or chemical) and are terminally ill with prostate cancer.

    For the men who have had surgery to remove the prostate they indeed do loose the ability to get erections and many end up having to have a penile prosthesis inserted to allow them to get erections again. The typical advise given prior to surgery is to use a Penile Vacuum pump several times a day to "rehab" the penis (Which does atrophy when not gotten erect on a regular basis)

    I hate to be the wet blanket on this but someone asked if long term chastity "can" cause atrophy and I really do think it can. That said. Does this really matter? For those that are seeking to be locked up and not allowed to have intercourse does it matter if their penis goes from 6 to 5 inches? If its not held in long term lock up then the problem does not happen. Maybe I'm being too simple on this.
     
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    I have once or twice, lol
     
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    This is a very interesting thread. I don't really care about shrinkage, or atrophy but issues on penis anatomy and general health problems related to chastity and long term lock up are very useful.
    I remain sceptical to the whole concept of chastity. Long term might be not my thing, while tease and denial seems more fun. In any case, whatever make someone happy isn't it ok? If we see health from an holistic point of view then being happy with what you have and what you are is the most important. This is my opinion.
    And yes, in many (but not all) cases doctors who are narrowly focused on their speciality can't help much. Human body is not a factory with various departments that need a director, but something like a symphonic orchestra in need of a conductor to create its unique music, i.e. happiness and body-mind peace (=health)! And the conductor can not be anyone else but the individual. I do believe that any individual should be able to listen carefully to Her/his body whispers, understand it and love it. If we don't love our body for what it is, then cancer is not far. If we don't love our life for what it is then no doctor can help us in any way.
     
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    true if you are lock an your mistress wife kh does not plan on letting you cum why worry about shrinkage
    besides the 1 or 2 times a year that you are allowed to get unlock and pentrate her does it matter much if you are good man sixe to please her.

    if you like me one of reasons im lock is wife does not like my small penis she said it took to long to have the 2 girls that we have she does not want it it does not please her.

    we all lock up for one reason or another do you really think size matters to them or if you shirnk inch
     
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    Hi JS,

    regarding the Bend in your penis, has that improved over time, or is it the same?
    I have the same, also (probably) from too tight (either cage or Aring). At first there was some hard plaque which has now disappeared, but the bend is still there (when erect). Googling a bit I found out it may be called Peyronie's, which is something that cannot be treated. So at first I was quite upset, but well what can I do about it? I have been taking some Vitamin E and PABA tablets, as I was reading this may reduce the bend a bit. But really not much has improved after a couple months now.

    Curious to hear how yours is going..

    Cheers,
    kinky6666
     
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    I think its important to add that at least some people who are into this are not in it for long term denial. What about the tease and denial folks? Or the vanilla married couple that just want to improve the whole male "attitude" about sex?
     
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    who measures it... lol... my college girlfriends used to measure my naughty bits which fascinated me! but back on-topic: Mistress will unlock me my very small chastity fromfor cleaning and inspection soon and She'll take a measure. Her plan is to reduce my size and capability to have intercourse so it should be interesting...
     
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    Well I have measured mine lol and so far I have not noticed any size reduction from wearing my cage. I have just come off of a month long lockup and denial and I sprang to life right away after being released from my cage!
     
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    No change. I can still feel (when erect) the area where it was injured. I notice it but it does not cause any pain or other effects.

    js
     
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    Thanks for that update, js. That makes several of us here that have had problems... I've been out of my CB6000 for about 6 weeks now, and I haven't noticed any improvement. Often when I am becoming erect, and occasionally when I am losing an erection, my penis is smaller in the middle (hour glass shaped). The smaller area is about where the A ring of my CB6000 pulls out to during erections. I think I wore too tight of a ring, and it has damaged engorgement in that area.

    It also seems like it's been harder to get and keep erections now, but that may just be my imagination. There are certainly dangers to this!
     
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    Hi,
    I agree with delayed...... Shrinkage is inevitable with long term chastity. You get so you cannot be aroused by anything other than the keyholder. Then when the keyholder exposes you to a continual series of tease and denial or just plain denial, then you do not respond to anything. Other than that elusive moment when the key is put in the lock and you are about to be freed. The erection is intense but as you will know the erect penis has shrunk due to not being 'exercised'. And also the elasticity of the skin is reduced and so you experience discomfort from the unfamiliar stretching with the erection. Rest assured if you are allowed out of the chastity for a week or so then things should return to 'normal' in terms of size and elasticity. But if you are quickly returned to chastity then the progressive shrinkage will continue. One final comment, please ensure that you receive regular (say monthly) milkings of your prostrate whilst in long term chastity. That is ESSENTIAL for health and there are no alternatives other than regular ejaculations.
    in chastity and needing it, roberta
     
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    Wouldn´t it be great if there was a chastity device on the market that would allow making the tube tighter? Maybe also shorter.

    That would really be an innovation.

    Maybe this could be done with a barrette like design (Example: http://images.manufactum.de/manufactum/grossbild/82362_1.jpg ). So with a screw mechanism the tube could be tightened.

    I bet a "penis reduction cage" would be a sales hit. Entrepreneurs and manufacturers, this is your chance ...

    If anyone makes this I would buy one and try to shrink like mad ...
     
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    i agree with roberta, viz: "I agree with delayed...... Shrinkage is inevitable with long term chastity. You get so you cannot be aroused by anything other than the keyholder." though i'd like to add to that by saying you might only be aroused by the fetish items your keyholder trained you with, which is one of my strongest fantasies.
     
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    bump, for impotence. err- i mean importance
     
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    It's hard to get a photo showing the extreme "pinched" states because they don't last long, but this shows a typical pre-erection. It doesn't seem like this is going away. If you have a phobia of your penis becoming misshapen, chastity is probably not for you!
     

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    This worries me...we only play with chastity for like, three weeks max, but my wife is quite proud of the size of my penis...
     
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    The max I've been in is for 3 days, so it doesn't seem like my problem is caused by extended periods; I think my mistake was going down to the second-largest ring with my CB6000. It was clearly too tight, but I went ahead and did some teases anyway, and here I am...
     
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    I know for a fact that the penis can shrink from being trapped in a chastity device. My wife keeps me locked up between 2-6 weeks and I have experienced a smaller (shorter and thinner) erect penis. When flaccid the penis is the same size.

    If your KH allows you to be unlocked for about a week, you will find that your penis slowly 'grows' back to the original erect size, but this takes some stretching exercise/regular erections.

    So in the case where you are locked up 24/7 with only a release every couple weeks, and directly after a release you are locked up again, then you will have a smaller erect penis at those few moments when you are free.

    Also, be careful to not trap your penis in a cage that is too small (thin). This may cause 'peyronie's disease' which is a bend in your (erect) penis due to damaged vessels (they don't fill up with blood properly when getting erect). There is no cure for this.

    Personally I have a slightly bend penis now (erect) which at first really scared me, but now, well it is what it is. I know that when I am free for a while (which my wife does not allow any more) I grow back to decent size erect penis. The bend is there, but all works properly. My wife was a bit sad about it at first (she liked my straight penis) but now we dont really care anymore.

    She is determined to keep me chaste 24/7/365, with only irregular release a few times a year. She will never allow me free again or allow me to masturbate freely. She feels much better knowing I don't masturbate/look at porn all the time. Besides she loves my attitude towards her (improved heaps) and she loves being in control.

    Be careful....
     
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    A couple stumbles into longer-term chastity, usually out of a desire that the woman experiences sexual fulfillment and the man experiences sexual frustration. In this situation it’s oftentimes logical that the woman prefers receiving oral sex, dildos, or alternative partners to being penetrated by her husband. Otherwise the man’s sexual frustration minimal--because he still "gets plenty" while avoiding his own orgasm during penetration …until eventually he has one.

    It’s been noted that longer-term chastity results in skinnier, shorter willies, and willies that are no longer straight when erection is allowed. However, if it’s a truly committed relationship and if the woman truly prefers oral sex and a doting and compliant or submissive husband, and if her intention is that he has fewer and fewer orgasms, eventually perhaps none, …then changes to the willy may not make any difference at all! As long as the man is committed to truly serving his wife in a chastised fashion, and the woman truly wants such focus, the virtues of the willy have little bearing on the action. The issue is clarification of what the man an woman really want.

    ...So we've encountered the willy issues, too. At first it was of issue and then got to thinking, for the above reasons, that it really wasn't an issue! I mean my wife/Mistress prefers all the focus her on her. She does not like semen--both because it's "messy" and the resulting lack of attention from me that follows. She enjoys seeing my frustration and attempted erections, particularly when the willy is restrained by a tube. She enjoys an occasional penetration--but enjoys my frustration and focus more. As to the eventual changes to the willy--she's accepting of it to achieve what I've just described.
     
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