Lowering libido, elimination / reduction of erection

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    Anyone of you know / tried an effective way to reduce libido or weaken / eliminate erections? I mean the non-pharmaceutical way .. herbs / tinctures of herbs, etc. I have heard about water lily (dried rhizome flooded with alcohol in the form of syrup) ..
     
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    A big problem with the herbal/natural route is that you have to rake so much that you risk liver damage. An herb may have 1,000s of different organic compounds where a pharmaceutical has one. Don’t fall for the ‘’natural fallacy”,as the most toxic things on the planet are natural and organic.

    You will probably get better answers if you join the forums at www.eunuch.org .
     
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    Bilateral orchiectomy wouldn't be pharmaceutical...
     
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    I was just gonna suggest the same thing.
     
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    yes, it is one of the options .. we talked about it - the problem is that we do not want to / can do it "officially" and serious complications could arise in home conditions ..
     
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    Orchiectomy is not the answer to your question. The "side effects" are severe and not what you are looking for.
    Here is a user, i dont know his name. Something with 88. He is into neuropsychological and behavioral things.
    In my opinion just taking a pillto achieve something is only for weak minded people. (Except people who are changing their sex)
    It can be mentally trained off and on, if both partners are willing.
     
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    Why do it at home? I paid $1800 for a urologist to do it in a proper surgical operating room at a hospital.
     
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    In my country it is unlikely to be legal for non-medical reasons
     
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    I had it done with two letters of endorsement from qualified psychological professionals. If you have a reason for doing it, such as gender dysphoria, it's not a difficult obstacle to overcome.
     
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    I could do it. I am surgically trained, work in ER and do surgical things every day.
    Once I sutured a ballsack of a guy from the netherlands who hadnt this done the first time in his life. There were many scars on his sack. Well. His wife he said was still sleeping. He told a story, that he fell on the couchtable.

    If you really want your balls taken off, it can easily be done even by a non professional.

    You just need some stuff like sterile swabs, local desinfectant, scalpel for the first cuts, scissors for the last ones and some sutures for ligatures and the closure of the wound.
    Easy! There also are video instuctions of this procedure available.
     
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    This is very true. Anyone with surgical experience can easily perform a castration which is a relatively simple surgical procedure. This includes veterinarians who perform it on a regular basis.

    My wife/Mistress is strongly considering gelding me. She is a registered nurse (with surgery and ER experience) and says she could perform the procedure herself here at home with the help of her close GF who is also a nurse. Only a local anesthesia would be required and recovery time should be fairly short.
     
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    I've been taking saw palmetto and a menopause supplement containing chasteberry and black cohosh along with Rae brand vitamin for women called rebalance. I've also been applying progesterone cream, all per the label dose and except the SP, which is double. Libido is definitely lower and erections are really only happening "on demand" after a bit of effort now, about 2½ months to get to this point.
     
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    You can take 1,000mg/day of cimetidine which is an over the counter stomach acid reducer. It will lower libido and ability to get erect.
     
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    Fairly permanent though, that isn't what I was going for...
     
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    Not sure why you don't want to try pharmaceuticals, they are easy to get without prescription and reversible.

    When I was married I used Finasteride and Cyproterone acetate combination. Sex was a major issue when I was married and I THOUGHT it might be an answer to reduce the stress in the marriage. I was wrong. It wasn't the sex as much as the lack of simple closeness and affection. We are no longer married because of this and for a host of other reasons.

    The combination certainly worked. First of all I could only have dry orgasms ie I was able to get erect with difficulty, when I orgasmed while the muscles contracted nothing came out. Later the feeling of orgasm diminished to the point it was barely a whimper and not worth the effort. My finger nails became weak and broke easily and I began to have dark feelings as well as feeling old.

    Once I ceased the tablets it took about 6 months to return to normal and in fact my body overshot and for a time i was crazy horny.

    These days I am in chastity 24/7 with my current partner and I periodically take a low dose of Cyproterone acetate because it eliminates my night time erections, basically with no other side effects (I can get hard on demand and orgasms after chastity are fucking fantastic)

    Before you try something as drastic a castration you should try the chemical route, then you will know if you want to go the permanent route. I still have castration fantasies, they are a favorite read, but they are just that (my partner even bands me sometimes). But it is only just that, I know I would not really like to be castrated :)
     
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    Ainterol brand Pueraria Mirifica, and Red Reishi worked for my husband. He started freaking out a little when his breasts started budding, though. I don't think they would have become noticeable, but you need to give it a month or two to begin working.
     
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    I have many advantages, but unfortunately when it comes to precision tools, I suck :)
     
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    Unfortunately, I have no reason that would be "recognized", it is not some fantasy of a teenager .. I have been in a femdom relationship for 15 years - I am a father, a husband .. supposedly good .. I do not complain about professional matters .. generally in social life I am dominant type .. but with my wife we create a specific relationship that is constantly developing and this idea has been appearing in my mind for over 7-8 years .. but I do not want to explain to some doctor about it ..
     
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    Skąd jestesz?
     
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    When my wife pegs me i lose any erection i had beforehand
     
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    Okay. Never been there. Usually i visit Slansk.
     
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    And if she decides to go ahead with this, would you be OK with that?
     
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    OP hasn't posted in close to a year. Probably just a fantasy.
     
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