Does anyone else struggle with their submissive feelings? It doesn't help I can't always distract myself with jobs and housework. Which can't be helped. I don't want to be pestering my wife asking for her to be more dominant when my emotions are all over the place. As she's doing it on levels she feels comfortable with. I get strong submissive feelings on my bad health days when I can't distract myself.
It takes time to come to terms with this. What you are experiencing is not so different from feelings and frustrations that I have experienced. One of the things that helped me was to talk to my wife about how I needed her attention. Not sex. Not even "sexy" attention. It could be as simple as just letting me put my head in her lap, or (when kids are around) just sitting together holding hands. But I was going crazy without something. It's fair to call this "the puppy stage". You being the puppy, of course.
Thanks. She handled it well when she got home. I had her tea ready. After tea I was told to get the nipple clamps and give her a little makeover. My wife seems to think I need someone to take control on my bad days as this is when I'm most submissive.
I think most of us have been there, and it can be overwhelming. Have you thought about getting her to make a list of every day tasks you can complete for her when she is being Dom? Then when you feel the need you could go do one without being told, but in the knowledge that it is under her instructions?
I let my feelings motivate me, before I was caged I would use them for masturbation but now I love on my wife with small acts of service and romantic pursuits. The feelings don't go away, I don't want them too, why would any man want them satisfied? I love being smitten! Its all worth it when I see my wife wanting to be with me more, smiling more, and showing confidence. I hope this stage never ends!