Non-Sexual Activities in a FLR

I also act as chauffeur, always drive when we go out and also drive her wherever she wants to go.

 

I’m the only coffee drinker

 

My list when I am with her (we are living apart because we have our own children but I visit her regular):

- Every morning make her coffee
- Every day make her breakfast, lunch and diner
- Every day do all the dishes
- Every day give her drinks on her order
- Regular hang up the washed clothes and fold them up (on her order)
- Regular do vacuum cleaning and clean her bathroom (on her order)
- Clean up kitchen and clean gas stove when I arrive at her
- Take out the garbage
- Regular get her shoes when we leave home
- Sometimes help her in her shoes
- Regular put away her shoes and jacket on arriving home (on het order)
- Regular get her phone on her order
- Do shopping for dinner (and pay for it)
- Carry her bag on her order
- Loading and unloading of all holiday luggage
- Take care of the food for her adolescent daughter; also clean it up
- Make virgin Mojito for her daughter when her daughter wants
- Buy (and pay) candy for her daughter when daughter wants (I ask her if I can also have one from her)
- Download movies for her and her daughter on their order (from my own home)
- Bring thee to the room of her daugther

My woman always decides what we have for diner, were we go, when I visit her. Every time she orders me to cook something different from jer cookbooks.

 

When her best girlfriend visits her when I am with her, her girlfriend is very open-eyed. My women always gives me orders kindly when others are with us. Visitors don't know anything but are always but still surprised.

Her girlfriend makes comments about it but I never respond to that, I leave it in the middle.

Also her daughter is never asking any questions about it and is used to it. I don't know what she thinks.

 

While I am driving and she sits next to me, she put my hand on her leg in a very dominant way. In bed during the night when we are sleeping, she resolutely pull me towards her in a spooning position, resolutely turns me around if she wants to lie differently or pushes me resolutely away when she is tired of me. She does let herself be petted in bed but won't let me touch her sexually.

When we are on the cough she resolutely pulls me against her (take me by the head and lays it on her shoulder for example), put her legs over my legs or uses me to sit with her back to me.

 

When I'm with her I always feel submissive because of the subtle way she treats me, it gives a kind of peace, I don't have to stand up for myself and she is never angry or irritated for long, although she sometimes feels immense can annoy me and make that look quite bitchy, but this is always short-lived; she is very forgiving. I am constantly in a kind of resignation.

 

I see this enormous list of things you guys do for the missus, I come nowhere close to this.

We share our household together, and I tend to do a little bit more around the house, but I have more energie than she has.

My respect to you gentleman!

 

A little off-topic, but here is a dynamic we have.

I have to make the bed every day, it's one of my chores. At night, I have to kneel beside the bed and recite my Pledge to my Mistress Wife, and ask her permission to sleep in her bed.

While it's not a hard rule, she prefers me naked in her bed, waxed and shaved. Once I'm in bed, when she is ready to go to sleep she has me lay on my tummy and get comfortable. Then she throws her leg, and her head and shoulders, over the top of me, using me as a body pillow. I feel her like a weighted blanket as she climbs on top of me. She puts her hand in my long hair and twirls it, like a fork in spaghetti, until she has a big handful. Then she pulls my hair very tightly until my head is tilted back firmly. She falls to sleep this way, with her sub man naked and caged underneath her, with his hair being pulled *hard* until he falls asleep also. Of course I don't move a muscle but I'm restrained anyway. It's hard not to feel submissive as hell with this routine every night.

 

Treat your wife like the beautiful woman she is .

 

I give her a foot massage every evening. Makes me throb and drip.

 

The primary dynamic in our relationship -- and we are explicit about this -- is that I am supposed to
think about her needs all the time. What that means is that if something needs to be done I am supposed to think of it first and take care of it before she even notices. I am not supposed to need an explicit list, just my constant awareness. If my KH ever has to ask me to do anything that is understood to be at least a small failure on my end, which means that I understand that doing whatever it was is not going to earn me any "points" (not that I really have any idea what that means, but I don't like the sound of it). If she thinks the task that needed to be done was really obvious I might get a punishment after (or before) I do it.

 

I think the list of non-sexual activities while in chastity probably far outweigh the actual sexual activities…
That said. My wife has sprung on me some new ones I wasn’t aware of. I know it’s something she now requires as I will be punished for doing/not doing them:

1) I must not take a break from chores whilst im ill. It may appear that this is ok but a punishment will follow when I return to a healthy state.
2) I must not pass on germs to her and cause her to also become ill. ​

Not going to lie. The punishment may never come, but not sneezing on my wife is something she holds in high regard.

 

I have a 300 gallon fuel storage tank at our home and an additional 1000 gallon fuel dump at the business She let's me run, just in case......lol

 

I make her breakfast in the morning
I always do the dishes
I do the laundry and put her clothes away
She drinks huge amounts of water so I always see that her glass is always filled.
I always open car doors for her
On cold mornings, I warm her towels while she takes a shower
She throws her dirty clothes on the floor, I pick them up for her
I always do what she tells me to do

 

help her dry off after a shower, put bra on etc.
Massage feet, calves. when permitted.

 

Very interesting thread.
In addition to all the above that many of you have mentioned, I would like to add.

Brushing and polishing her shoes.

I used to warm her bed and toilet seat before she used it in the winter.

On cold winter nights, because she didn't like to wear socks at bed, she would place her soles on my chest to warm them up from my body temperature which is always higher than the emperature in rooms and at the same time I would rub her toes under my clothes to warm them .
My chest was cold by the time her feet were warm but it was worth it.

On the very hot days we have in my country, when she was having her coffee or drink on the porch of the house, instead of waving a fan herself to cool herself she would hand it to me to cool her down.

Some mornings when I served breakfast in her bed, I would kneel down, lift up and hold the tray, she would sit on the bed, step on my thighs and take her breakfast.

 

Know her needs well enough to anticipate and fulfill them as often as you can.. leaving her with nothing that she NEEDS to do for herself

 

Lately she's been having me get her boots and shoes shined up and put them on for her. All she does is put her foot on the bottom step of the stairs and point, that's my que to get to it.

 

Apparently I have been living a FLR for the last 33 years, I already do most everything in this thread.

 

I am locked daily, collared permanently, allocated knickers and sometimes suspenders or stockings and always female tight jeans. However i am the dominant one here away from our kink and as i am now retired...at 55, i do most of the housework. However this has nothing to do with my status as a cuck husband, more that as i am at home and am here to do these tasks i do them.

 

I think all men lead the life that they choose for us, even if we dont realise it at the time

 

The Wife and I had a funny conversation this morning. She said life will be a lot harder for me once the kids move out. I said as long as it doesn't involve holding a vacuum cleaner. (We have our home cleaned by others, so outside of picking up and wiping down counters, neither of us actually clean).

She said that vacuuming would absolutely be something I would be doing. I said that was a 'Hard Limit' (laughing). She said She could give a damn about my limits with regard to cleaning. I said Dominants were supposed to stay clear of breaking their owned submissives limits. She said that Dominants were free to ignore limits if the limit is nonsense. We broke up laughing.