Birthday Arrangements

Discussion in 'Chastity and orgasm denial' started by King Hippo, Aug 22, 2022.

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What "Birthday Arrangements" are made for you by your partner?

  1. Orgasm and Allowed out of Chastity for the Day

    20.0%
  2. Orgasm but NOT Allowed out of Chastity for the Day

    17.5%
  3. NO Orgasm but Allowed out of Chastity for the Day

    6.3%
  4. NO Orgasm and NOT Allowed out of Chastity for the Day

    56.3%
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    My birthday has arrived recently!!! My wife thought it would be a good time to let me have an orgasm but not give me the day off from wearing my chastity cage.

    After replying to the poll you can be a little more exact with your own birthday arrangements with your partner or Mistress.

    My wife gave me an orgasm using the Fleshlight - Quickshot Stamina Builder while blindfolded. She did it extra slow and I had more of a pulsing orgasm. After the orgasm, she told me to take the blindfold off. I saw she was grinning at me & turned the fleshlight upside down and let the cum drip out onto my stomach. Then I was told to go get cleaned up and I come back to give her her nightly massage before we go to sleep.
     
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    Though it might've been the day after, and we had a pre-birthday end of April that was special
     
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    Last years s I was 51, I was let out, numbed with lashings of creme and had three condoms over the top. She timed me with the fleshlight and, after I couldn't feel myself, let alone finish, she wiped me down and put me away again.
     
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    My Queen told me on my very first multi day locking that I would never again get an orgasm on my birthday, Christmas, or any other "special" day that might increase my expectations. Any orgasm will be timed for when I least expect it (and her pleasure of course). She loves sex but apparently always abhorred "expected" or "obligatory" sex.

    Last year I DID get a full, PIV, orgasm on the day after my birthday. When I thanked her I asked if it was a birthday present? "No" she replied, "I wanted to see if it would help with your Afib, and since it didnt you can scratch that excuse off your list, too!"
     
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    Birthday in 2021 I was allowed to be cage free and given 3 orgasms that day! This year my bday was a different story, my Wife is taking my chastity much more serious! I was allowed piv in the morning for her to orgasm, back in the cage, and that night I was allowed piv again and to cum.
    I have no idea what next January will bring, I will hit the big 5 0, and we’ve been cutting down my orgasms quite a bit this year. So I’m hoping I’ll still be allowed a treat for it, but I don’t make those decisions any more
     
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    The day of my actual birthday? I'm usually locked and teased without orgasm. But on a weekend near my birthday we'll actually "celebrate" with a long bondage, tease and denial session. This could be me tied up and locked up and teased or tied and unlocked and teased ... but either way it ends with me locked up again... whether I get to orgasm or not seems to run around 50/50. :D
     
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    I used to get PIV on the 1st of each month and on my birthday, but nowadays i dont get PIV, and orgasms are a bit random....she's away for a few days now and left me some instructions which i will copy and post on here, and she's allowing me to masturbate :)
     
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    I appreciate everyone's feedback on this so far! It was very short-sighted of me to think it couldn't be different from year to year though.
     
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    No relation between it being my birthday and anything to do with chastity.

    And to be honest, chastity is itself a gift.
     
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    Neither of us can tell when she will desire my cock.

    So for the moment there are no expected days of release.

    I am always surprised when she releases me for Piv and so is she. She has wanted it twice this year so far.

    You're a lucky guy Hippo for her to pleasure you. Must have felt embarassing seeing her pour the goo onto your tummy.

    I have agreed to come only when pleasuring her.( Ofcourse that works out that I will be coming 100x less than before when I masturbated daily.)
     
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    You said it perfectly... There's no connection. I discovered that in our anniversary!
     
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    Four years ago, my wife was thinking about letting me come for my birthday - I had been locked for several months at that point. My birthday was in the middle of the week, so she was planning on something for the weekend.

    I, of course, had no idea. So on my actual day, she had me worship her after a shower, and that was it. A couple of days later I told her that it was really hot that she kept me locked for my birthday. She thought about it and decided to keep me locked over the weekend and we had some nice sex (me wearing a strapon). Then she thought maybe for our anniversary the next month. Same situation, and I told her that it was pretty hot being denied when I expected she would relent.

    And that's how we got into "permanent" lock up for me.
     
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    My birthday is treated the same as any other day! I only get something for pleasing my madam.
     
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    I did not see my arrangement. Which is there is no arrangement.
     
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    Where is the "Dislike" button for a post???? LOL :D
     
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    Don't be a hater.
     
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    In different years, I've been granted each of these 4 "Birthday Arrangements." However, for the past few years it has been Option #4: No orgasm & not allowed out of the chastity cage for the day. I expect that to be the new norm.
     
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    Guess i'll find out in February. Option 1 & 3 would be a punishment. Option 2 would be great but I'd be happy with Option 4 if i got penetrated.
     
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    Ill usually get some kind of treat for my birthday, while I am kept in chastity 24/7 I l most always get to have a orgasm every week. If I get to lick her wet swollen pussy for my birthday ill be happy. its been a long time between licks.
     
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    I NEVER get released on my birthday, but she ALWAYS gives me birthday ball kicks equalling my age... with the cage ON!

    IMG_0061 edit copy.jpg
     
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    Afib?
     
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    Atrial Fibrulation, i.e. irregular, often fast, heartbeat. According to the Dr. (and also my Queen who is an RN) completely unrelated to anything sexual or chastity related. Sure did enjoy her research, however.
     
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    ...I know about that one too...
     
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    Very funny then. Should go in the "hot things your wife said" thread
     
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    Did they both give you a physical examination?
     
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