Hello! I have been a long time lurker here and finally made an account! I have been married to my wife for 3 years and with her for over 10. She is very vanilla but has decided to give chastity a try! For life reasons we can't until October but in October she said she will lock me up for a week and go from there. In the meantime she has taken to her role of being the "boss" at night time. She has put me on the honor system and controls my orgasms! She also loves demanding her nightly footrubs. Would you guys have any suggestions on anything on the vanilla side I can do to treat her like the queen she is?
Welcome to CM!!! This thread might help you.... https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/non-sexual-activities-in-a-flr.46844/
Coming from someone who claims to live a vanilla lifestyle… We aren’t new to chastity, but we are currently in my husbands longest lockup without a release, ever. I will say that if your wife doesn’t want to go “all in”, just move into it slowly! She seems like she is okay with the dominant side of things (which is where I fail) which shows she does have *some* desire to move into a chastity lifestyle. Start taking over some of her daily tasks/chores without her asking— wash the dishes, vacuum the rugs, clean the bathrooms… believe me, she’ll notice and then your expectations will fall into line! feel free to reach out if you ever need any thoughts from a women’s perspective!
Awesome thread @King Hippo. I am excited to start doing these things for her daily. Her expectations are going to be very high after a few weeks of this!
I am definitely going to start to take on more of the chores around the house. She works long hours so it will help her be able to just relax when she clocks out for the day. She's not crazy dominant but does love demanding her foot rubs! I am into her feet so I love to obey lol.