First experiences of a gay couple (cont.)

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    It has been wisely suggested that I continue this post in this forum. It has turned into something of a journal! (Part one of the blog is here)

    So yesterday was day 34 without release. It really has turned the corner in the sense that even though I desperately want to cum, I want even more not to throw in the towel after going now for more than a month

    Strange really. I've started to tell my BF how proud I am to have made it this far, which is probably just encouraging him to leave things as they are

    Yesterday that meant that the cage stayed on even though he fucked me... twice... all after a good beating and milking. He's now really quite adept at emptying me: I could see the cum as it dropped below and was at least as much I would have seen from an orgasm... that elusive orgasm

    Today now a week has gone by since I reached 28 days, an important number, because for a while I was counting down to a number of my imagination and telling him. Completely the wrong thing to do, to be so presumptive that I knew when release was coming. And I was also hoping that at the end he would tell me how many extra days there would be. That didn't happen either. I must learn simply to be patient... and to devote myself to him :)

    Today my smaller ring arrived. Two sizes down (I had also ordered the intermediate, but that isn't here yet). It seems a snug fit. I can just about get my little finger in to the first joint (somewhere I read that this is the ideal size). Anyway we'll see how it goes...

    And this is my caged cock that hasn't seen action for 35 days

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    Good luck
     
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    Thank you. Quite a journey so far :)
     
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    It’s sounds like you and yours are enjoying the ride. May it continue to be a wonderful journey and be better than you ever imagined.
     
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    I like your cage! it looks simple and "comfy" would you mind telling me where you get it from? single reserve I have based on your lovely pic is that the angle seems high ie case relatively horizontal and not 45 degrees or more down, isn't it?
    Thanks and regards
     
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    Obtained through a seller on Etsy

    Some good points and not so good:
    - the shape of the ring with the extension and shaping towards the body at the bottom means that scrotum skin doesn't bunch so much and reduces chafing
    - after getting out graph paper I've worked out that for the same sized ring the area is about 15% more because of the extension at the bottom. Then I remembered back to school and all that, and worked out that, if you currently fit a 45mm ring comfortably, then (for the same area) you only need a 42mm ring with the extension
    - the cage is comfortable and in my case is about 1cm shorter than my shortest flaccid length. Others would say it should be even shorter but I'm not into that yet
    - there is quite a gap between the cage and the ring so you're relying on the ring itself to keep your balls from pulling back and out (maybe a negative point). I guess it would be possible to modify the point where the cage locks to the ring, but you'd need to do some heavy metalwork here (the seller does according to the site offer to make modifications), but I've not tried
    - yes, maybe the cage is a little high, but with the shorter one it's not been a problem for me
     
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    This pic gives you some idea of the angle of dangle ;)

    Because it's hot here (38°c in the shade)y balls are hanging much more than usual so that the ring is at least 1cm below the base of my cock: hence my cock only just touches the end of the cage

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    Is it rattly? That locking mechanism looks rattly…
     
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    Oddly, no. Better than it looks though with a proper brass padlock it can sound like I'm a wondering cow in the Swiss Alps, if I don't take dampening action :cool:

    I've added two washers because the thickness of the arm on a plastic numbered seal is much smaller than that of a brass padlock. Otherwise the cage would rattle
     
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    IB-Chaste Chastity Superman.

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    I don’t know why you’re wasting your time with padlocks and seals. It’s time for the solder iron. You know it’s true :rolleyes:
     
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    Yes, Sir, on this day 37 I'm starting to think it will never come off anyway :D
     
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    Maybe it won’t lol

    All kidding aside I think your doing great,
     
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    Kind of like it when others revel in my desperation to cum :cool:
     
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    In my experience, if you are desperate to cum, are doing it right! Don't change a thing!! ; )
     
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    Right you are, Sir. Yesterday was a particularly hard day and I am still dripping on this day 38. Will it ever end?
     
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    Pretty sure you will continue to drip. Your partner is very wise to be fucking while you are chaste. This will definately cause more dripping than usual. i always drip more when getting fucked by our Bull, pegged, fisted, or even just plugged (i use much larger plugs than most people).
     
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    Thanks for sharing, and keep to it!
     
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    Well day 38 turned out to be the day. Quite a surprise really

    We were on the road here travelling towards the hills when my BF directed me to turn off onto a dirt track away from habitation. Yes, he wanted sex, and, of course, I did too :cool:

    We found a secluded place to stop and sat in the back of the car with more room and slightly darkened windows. Unusually my cage was removed, but I wasn't sure what to expect. It quickly became apparent though when I sat on his cock. He started to stroke. I wondered whether this was just a game, because he smiled and asked how I was enjoying it

    I warned him after not very long that I was about to cum, but he didn't stop and soon his stomach was covered with my cum. He didn't waste it. He wiped his fingers in it and held them in my mouth as he started to fuck me. It was heavenly and not very long before he came too

    Just a quickie, but needed by us both. I won't forget that smile as he stroked me :cool:

    So this is now day 3 (of my third round of chastity). I've been told to rest my cock and balls before the cage is refitted so it's now on trust that I don't cum

    An odd feeling being without the cage. I know that I can cope in the early days, but also that, as the days pass, it will become more of a challenge. I am now wanting him to instruct me to refit the cage. I can feel the horniness building in me

    I tell him that I feel secure and safe with the cage on, but he insists on a good break for the moment. I suspect that the moment he feels my horniness gets back to higher levels, I will be instructed to lock up

    This really is a way of life now :)
     
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    Congrats and thank you

    Congrats on what sounds like both an amazing relationship and some great sex.

    And thank you for sharing the account.

    May your journey continue to keep being as great as this or even better!

    And please keep sharing. Yes as said before some of us enjoy your posts!
     
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    Sometimes a strange feeling to share intimate moments (the very, very intimate bits I leave out), but it does remind me of my struggles and joys :cool:
     
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    I get it. I’ve been here basically from the beginning of the site. In that time I’ve done so much and had so many things happen in my life. I’ve shared some. But the details I share on a level that I think is appropriate and also at a level that I’m comfortable.

    For instance, I’ve posted about being at a party and being made to fuck my former Domme’s sissy as the sissy was strapped to a spanking bench and everyone at the party watched. Or how my ex and that same Domme arranged for the Domme’s subby hubby to take my anal virginity while the ex, Domme and sissy watched. Lately I’ve been sharing about how my new partner and I went and got my nipples pierced as well as a PA.

    After all these years, I still struggle on how much to share and how much detail to include. But it gets easier, but never easy. That said, I think you’re doing great. And all I can offer is share what you like and are comfortable with. Well that and what your partner is OK with too.

    Otherwise have fun, do things most people are too scared to do, and enjoy your life. What you have is special and most people only wish they could have it.
     
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    Lovely, wise words. Thank you :)
     
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    Day 4 (round 3) and the 38 days looks a long, long way off. Probably be much more this time

    Going on self-control at the moment with my BF just instructing me not to touch my dick. Missing the safety of the cage and willing him to tell me to put it on

    He knows I'm already hornier than at the start, but not yet at the level that's needed. He thinks I can run on self-control for a while (I wouldn't want to upset him anyway). I think I'll be really struggling come day 7

    Never thought I'd want so desperately to be caged. In some ways it makes life easier

    He's about to go travelling on business so (unless he surprises me before departure) I'm not expecting any sex until after day 10, by which time I will have refitted and sealed the cage for him, I expect

    That's at least a quarter of the way to my previous record. By then I'll be desperate for him to fuck me, I'm sure :p
     
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    Don't be too eager to lock up again ;P
     
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    Yup, it just feels strange and I know things will become progressively harder. Even so this time it might be for months. Who knows?

    I can be so weak-willed when touching my cock seems such a great thing. I don't want to disappoint my BF... nor myself

    We will see. Today is day 5. Another 5 days and I will be gagging for it :p
     
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