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    I've closed myself off and on for 2 years. Princess said she wasn't interested and that it was kinky. I sent her important pages like https://happy-marriage.neocities.org/index.html, which didn't help. But now: We are on vacation with a mobile home. We talked about chastity twice, but got no result. But she said on the second day that she doesn't like sex in the mobile home because of the children. I locked myself and left the key. Since today the key is gone, we haven't talked about it yet. I don't know what will happen, my last O was on Wednesday last week.
     
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    Good luck. Sounds like you need to talk things through though
     
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    At the very least tell her what works. Don't over do it of course, but help her feel in control or appreciated. "I just can't stop thinking about you, babe!" never hurts, etc.
    Good Luck!
     
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    Definitely get her involved. Even in the slightest way of holding onto your key for you or setting a few expectations for you— even though you locked yourself. She may push back and say no, but even the most uninterested of us are still interested.. ya know?
     
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    Keep locked until the next sex.. does she initiate? When it is timed, do all the gentleman’s work.. foreplay, cuddling, caressing, oralling.. only with her permission uncage it. She will feel the power and authority.. ask her if you could cum.. and no means no. Make her feel that male chastity = everything her.
     
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    Today she put out the key, but I asked her to take it back and hide it from me. She did so immediately. I think we can talk tonight when the kids are asleep. The second day she has the key ends tomorrow at 8 am. I'm hornier than ever.
     
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    On Friday, after 4 days, I asked for the key. she gave it to me. I skipped him for 9 hours because of swollen foreskin. At 5 p.m. I put it back on and left the key on the board. At 5:10 p.m. hit was gone. When we were home today I asked for the key and sex on the weekend. She said: I should keep hiding the key - with a grin. I said it's your decision.
     
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    Keep it up. Sorry, keep it down...
     
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    She isn‘t in at the moment, I do self locking. She said, I could do it whenever I want.
    She told me today, that no release is better for my behave. I said that I could not do it without cage, because I'm not strong enough. I said allso, that I don't want to persuade her. But I think she slowly sees the benefits.
    So I will go on with self locking and put the key we’re she can get. Last release (great PIV after vacation) was on August 28th. Last week I was locked for nearly 6 days. This week only 24 hours and off today for work.
    Will see what happens
     
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    Bite the bullet and wear it to work is my advice.
     
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    Had business meeting this evening and wear the ck. No problems
     
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    Break in the morning for madams fun (she came naked. I asked her, do you have the key, she said no. Later she ordered me to bring the key and put it off.) and showering. Now locked in the office, it’s amazing
     
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    I've been locked for 100 hours since Monday. The key was always at hand. I told her she can decide what happens. I send her a caption with ‘My key, my rules’

    She went to bed 20 minutes ago. The key probably too, or wherever it is gone now.

    My penis is trying to burst the cage.

    During the last conversation she said that she likes my behavior when I haven't come for several days. 3 days without, next time? I have no idea, her decision.

    I just love her…
     
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    This morning I asked for the key, I wanted to take a shower. She said: oh no.
    I said just for the shower, you'll get it right back. Ii got him .
    When I went to shower, she came into the bathroom and did her nails. She quipped: Look how your poor cock must unfold. I replied: That's because you're here.
    After showering I gave her the key immediately, she took it and put it away.
     
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    It's like a roller coaster. Now she says I don't play with you but you can lock yourself up whenever you want. I'll do that now and make sure she can get the key whenever she wants
     
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    Yesterday were further out. When we got home, I locked myself and gave her the key. I said then you have the power and you can decide what happens. This morning I wanted to cuddle and see what happens. She said: Stop it, I don't want it now, I have the power. Later I asked if I could open the shower. She didn't answer, I asked again and she said: I don't like the cage but you can go to shower without. So I took a shower and put the key in the bathroom for her. I changed from CK to Bon4m small.

    Now she keeps touching me and snuggling up to me.
     
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    Today she said, when I see the key, it will go aeay. What shall I say, she saw the key. I do not know, where it is gone. Think I have to wait a few days to do „the talk“
     
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    Asked for the key, her answer was: You don’t get it now. o_O
    I have no idea, what’s coming next. I love her :love:
     
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    And so, true chastity begins.
     
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    Now.... slow down.

    She's got the idea, and understands that denying you orgasms improves your behaviour for her.
    Now give her the space to find her own way and set the dynamic. She will, but remember you've been thinking about this for a lot longer than she has, so she needs time to process it and come up with her own way of doing it, then she'll own it, your chastity will be hers.

    Not only that, if you want her to make the decisions, let her. If you want her to change to be a little more dominant, you need to become a little more submissive first. However frustrating it might be, just go along with everything she wants to do or not do. Sometimes she'll ignore your plight and be thinking about other things. Treat it as a test of your devotion and love for her.
    She will pleasantly surprise you if you give her the space and time to grow into it.
     
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    Yesterday she took away the key again and hid it.
    This morning she grabbed my crotch and said, "Now you must suffer."

    Then she went to work.
     
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    Please post an update, a year from now, when she unlocks you again to let us know how the last year was for you !!! o_O
     
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    Had a short talk. At the end she said: „I don’t like that lock.”
    Me: “But I don’t know where the key is.”
    She with a smile: “I know!”

    What have I done
     
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    Given up control, BCWYWF, good luck.
     
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