Do you wear your chastity cage through the night?

Bore yourself. Think about stuff unrelated to chastity, and it may divert your thoughts away from the pain, which should cause it to go flacid again. Be sure to use the loo right before bedtime too.

 

Initialy it was off for d nite.. bcoz wife is sleping nx to me n i dun think shaking my dick off on a spring bed is a good idea.. eventualy as we move deeper into flr.. erection n ejaculation is slowly prohibited. Yes.. its 24/7 with every 2-3days removal for washing.. prblm for d nite is usualy pain on d bals when d dick trying to stretch itsef.. i learn to tolerate it.. just som pain on d litle felows as compared to childbirth my wife would say.. Penile nerve damage isue? D dick wil retreat when he is going nowhere.. ok, my dick is not tat hard to start with.. for young guys with raging hormone? Just need to start somwhere if chastity n submisivenes is your cup of t or if being nforced..

 

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I think you’re on the right path with the strap or whatever you’ve got there, but don’t give up without first trying to secure the ring even closer to your body, at least at night. The design of that cage is much like mine, the way the ring lips in over the tube makes it trickier; you can’t really get it flush…not in a uniform way. But you should play with getting it as snug as possible/nestled into your pubic area without discomfort. That will probably change the way the ring lies slightly and orient your whole package more upward but that will align your penis and actually may help you manage your erections better.

 

I'm getting increasingly frustrated with being woken up with burning skin at night. I thought I had solved the issue when my cherry keeper short came in and I went a few nights without issue.But that cage proved to be too cramped, and I am now wearing the "wide" variant of the short cage. Burning sensation is back.

I would love to be able to wear 24/7 but I can't sacrifice my sleep/comfort to that degree. Suppose I'll give lubing the ring before bed another try.

 

This is the truth! I found I was happier when up and productive earlier than Miss A. I get all my crap sorted and then I'm free to be attentive when she finally awakens.

 

Don’t give up!

 

I forced myself to wear my new jailbird all night. But as I have drinks at night, I woke up every 2 hours to pee. I bought B12 and several other picker uppers. Turns out that lack of sleep was my problem. Put it on after work and take it off before I go to sleep. Feel like a wimp for not being able to wear 24/7 but I can not function without sleep. Started a fight with my wife last week. Not good.

 

I've worn a PA custom fit cage 90% of the time since 2017 and I have no issues whatsoever, I personally attribute this to long term wearing. My penis is smaller now, but after sometime has passed it goes back to normal, but now I don't have my PA ring to wear when out of the cage its never off for long ( a day when flying )
If anything, I had more issues wearing my PA ring at night and being woken by erections than my cage. Before my PA custom fit I always had issues.

 

We are on vaca now and I am self imposed nighttime only. Caribbean island pools and kids everywhere lead me to not want any unwarranted discovery. Wife is still not fully on board, or semi/ partially for that matter so it's up to me. But those Rock of Gibraltar nocturnal erections are impossible to resist if I'm not wearing. So it goes on at bedtime and off right away when my wife wakes up (10-10:30ish, UGH).

I will say this is 10x harder when you know you are doing the right thing but your love thinks you aren't...

 

There is porn and there is real life
generally it is best not to confuse the two

 

Getting used to wearing a cage at first is dealing with the combination of the physical and mental sensations.
Physically at first I found it often uncomfortable and in the night at sometime or times it would be painful. Accepting that until you become physically accustomed to wearing it 24/7 it will always be the case is the first step. Really it does not take more than a few weeks. Which does seem like a very long time whilst you are going through it. But as your body gets used to it then it becomes more about the mental side of it, your attitude and mindset and the support you get from your lady will get you through it.

Takes a while to become a 24/7 wearer over long periods or indefinite periods like myself but so worth it for you both. The longer I have been in one the more I want to continue to be in one and all that goes with that. Our cage has bars that are close together no touching and yet all the access needed to keep clean. We really don't need for me to take it off and both my lady and I really like it that way.

 

sure remember those

It always felt like someone was trying to pull my kidneys out by pulling on my balls
took forever to subside too

NOT FUN... but as my then wife used to ... sticking through it shows commitment I should have been more careful about what I'd wished for.. (odd that .. as it was her idea) don't worry she used to say its when you really get used to it you'll learn to really regret it

I never did regret it then or now... but never imagined that I'd grow to love it and the effects it has on us both

 

there's always a 'break-in period' that each of us goes through either initially or after a break from chastity device wear... there are write-ups about how to get into your cage, it doesn't happen immediately, it takes going from playing to going through a whole day and eventually through the nights and then going for days at a time and then longer. It's best to tackle the overnight part after a couple nights of good rest, then on a Thursday jump into it, and see if you can last through the weekend, and if so, you're well on your way. You may have to sleep in a different room from your mate for a night or two, but after you've gotten through the night a couple of nights in a row, it'll be easier to keep up with it. Now, then, to get to the point you are trying for the full nights, start in the morning caged, then just keep it on, go to bed, then if it's something with the cage that's either keeping you up or waking you up, take it off, go to bed, then start 'fresh' in the morning.. Get it in your head to keep going and not use the excuse of waking up needing to pee to take it off. At some point, you'll just have to soldier on and actually get through the night... Hopefully without going too long without sleep!

 

I find it interesting what, making the Ring even smaller is suppose to help.
I trie to wear it all night, but its pretty random, and I hope my Skin is getting used to it eventually.
Currently im eighter unlooked at night, or the morning periots, when my skin recovers.

 

Recently moved to more of a 24/7 situation so I sleep in mine now. Going on 2 weeks working up to full time. Started with 24 hour period. Then went to 2 nights which ended up closer to 60 hours locked up. Currently in my longest stretch, being 3 nights. I’ll unlock for cleaning tomorrow night and lock back up after the shower. I’ll do the same for another 3 night period. Then it’ll be for the full week.

After that, it is completely controlled by her. She will have the key and I will do my best to not ask for it again.

 

Ring too large = bad (can pull on your balls weird in the middle of the night, or pop a ball out randomly which is super embarrassing when the cage drops out of your pants at work)

Ring too small = bad (can do actual physical damage to you)

Cage too narrow = bad (physical damage is possible)

Cage too long = bad (will wake you up after your penis thinks it has room to grow)

Cage too short = not a problem (weird, I know)

Cage too wide = not a problem (weird, I know)

 

All night every night here. Honestly never had any issues with it at night and love sleeping nude with my cage on. Waking up with it tight makes me feel so submissive

 

I would comment that a cage too wide could increase the pressure on the testicles and cause swelling. I thought that a narrow gap was the only source of issues for my right testicle but I am now enclined to consider the cage width too.