First experiences of a gay couple

Kind of, but the urges are still there

 

Today is day 30. The countdown to my imagined day 28 has been and gone. The cage is now part of my life

Yesterday there was sex. We had agreed that he would look for the key, because I needed a spacer adjustment. I had promised it would only take a minute and the cage would hardly be off. To this he had said that the cage would be off for the whole time of our intimacy together. Oh, how I was looking forward to it

But come the moment he simply forgot. Forgot! I didn't dare remind him as he fondled my arse, then fisted and milked me (I could feel and see a huge amount of cum), and finally fucked me. It didn't seem the right thing to do to interrupt him. He seems quite happy to see my cock in its cage all the while. The closest it gets to any action is when he teases me by fondling my balls, but my cock itself is not even touched

Afterwards he did let me unlock for what must have been less than a minute. The key was quickly handed back and I was there where I should be

I think he now enjoys my perpetual horniness. Even after he had milked me of my cum I was still all over him hoping against hope for a real orgasm and I felt sure I had a good reserve of cum to fire off

He understands that my desire to cum is offset by an underlying want to be denied ... and that he has much more loving attention while I'm denied and horny. So I guess he now sees no reason to let me out. Is this going to turn into perpetual denial?

In a couple of weeks he goes away on work for a week. One part of me is hoping that he gives me a huge orgasm before he goes and even gives me a week off. But another part, probably the more realistic part, says that I will remained without release and locked up throughout. I daren't even mention my thoughts to him. What will happen?

So it's day 30, my first full month being denied. I feel proud too, but wonder how much longer this will go on. No numbers from my BF just encouragement to be patient. I feel now that I should be counting in months not days...

 

... counting while my cock is straining to break through the cage

 

Thanks

It's turning into a lifestyle. I love feeling horny nearly all the time and my BF seems to be learning what's in it for him. The more he learns, the less chance I have of release methinks

 

Bought on Etsy. The design is by FeiFeiDesignStudio

Still not as expensive as a custom sized one and not as perfect either. What I like about it:

- the bars are lengthways making it easy to pull my foreskin back and clean
- the cage effectively has two halves, left and right with nothing between the two halves top and bottom, and at the head of my penis. After alignment this makes pissing easy with no need to sit down. On another cage I have there is a hole at the end of the cage which is impossible to align perfectly with so the the result can be piss flying everywhere
- the ring has a small extension at the bottom which bends in towards the body. This reduces the tendancy of my scrotum to bunch, sweat and rub there, which reduces chafing. Be careful with the sizing: I ordered one with the same diameter as a normal ring, but realised that this is a little too big so have ordered one size down which is 3mm less (have 46mm and have ordered 43mm)
- it's metal! Won't break under strain and easier to clean

Hope that helps

 

In this pic you can see the extension at the bottom of the ring, which in my experience is more comfortable. My cage is the shorter one on the right (learnt from experience that too long is actually uncomfortable)

 

Maybe ... or maybe I should just stop now ...

 

Without the lock you could simply weld it shut

 

Just joking Not a good idea at all

 

Do you really want to know? I'm a little shy of going into details in public. 10 years ago something I would never imagined I would do

Always PM if you want your number one to talk more...

 

Always one to take advice I've decided to continue the journal started here in its proper forum

Posted new picture there too