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    Past member from many years ago returning to see what’s up. I originally heard about the Mansion from Sarah J’s Male Chastity Blog. I am an older guy in a happy vanilla marriage but I’m a little bit of a kinkster and my wife is pretty open minded. We keep all our experimentation in our marriage bed…it’s how we roll. There’s never been another woman, and there never will be. The Mansion’s Charter is still valid…it’s hard to find a safe place to explore chastity without all the commercialism and extreme porn. All that stuff is attractive when you first start out in your fantasy, but there are practical matters for most of us to figure out who have families and careers and mortgages and kids to protect. So, I’m here to see what’s new and help answer questions if I can for people like me who are just starting out!
     
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    Anthony lee Seeking impowerment through chastity

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    Hi LcKdnpnk,
    I agree. Mistress Lucy keeps a great site here. I'm in the same situation, mostly, except my wife I think has gone completely asexual. But I'm using chastity to control my own urges. I have only recently ordered my first cage, awaiting its arrival with enthusiasm. I also have family matters and other normal everyday consideration. Welcome and perhaps we'll speak again.
     
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    Welcome back
     
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    Welcome back to CM!
    Our marriage is similar, my husband in chastity and I’m the key holder. Every experiment is between us and us only. If you ever need a females point of view, just ask!
     
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    Welcome back!
     
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    Hi, great to hear from you! I’m happy to see the verified female feature so we can hear your perspectives! In the past my wife has had me manage my own key but I think she is starting to understand my need to have her take possession of it. I’m trying to gently explain to her that I want to see it around her neck whenever we’re together…to play with it in public to remind me that I’m hers and that it is our little kinky secret. Unfortunately, the Holy Trainer v5 key is a barrel key and is ugly on a necklace and she doesn’t want to wear it. She is considering a symbolic one. Any ideas on this?
     
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    Thanks for the reply, I look forward to it.
     
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    Thanks!
     
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    Sounds like Tiffany is calling for you to make a present to your wife!
     
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    Hi there and welcome back to the mansion!
     
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    Indeed!
     
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    Welcome back to the Mansion :)
     
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    @L-u-c-y runs a very nice site that is free of the typical B.S. and technically very well managed. Collectively, we can’t offer enough thanks for her work keeping the site running smoothly and her effort to keep the content adhering to the charter. Her efforts allow this site to continue offering the best information from really great people.

    Welcome back!
     
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    When we first started out, my husband wanted me to wear his key around my neck. It’s a simple key & you would only recognize it as a chastity key if you were involved in chastity. Most of the time when I wore it, I tucked it into my shirt, only having it out and visible when my husband was around. I also purchased an o-ring that unclasps to hook the key to around my bra strap for days when I didn’t want to wear the necklace. We’ve moved past the necklace stage to me leaving his key at home when we travel or taking it with us to leave at our destination for when we return home— meaning we come back keyless. I think he enjoyed that the few times we did it. Gave him a sense of “I’m truly not getting released any time soon” dear since we didn’t have a key at home for him.
    So, your wife could use a symbolic key, but I don’t think it’ll have the same tease effect for you. She could think about different places she could put it on her body other than around her neck. Maybe in her bra or hook it to her purse? Hopefully this’ll give you so new thoughts!
     
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    Hadn’t thought about, thanks!
     
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    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it helpful and entertaining.
     
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    This is a great idea…..love the fact that you wore it on your bra strap when you didnt want to wear the necklace. That would actually drive me crazy if my wife did that. The necklace is a great symbol and I would still like that to whenI would take her on dates, etc. However, it would still be highly erotic if she still wore it in her bra or around bra…not only because I find bra/lingerie super sexy, but its nice to have her keep the key to my manhood in an intimate place like that.
     
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    hello @Lckdnpnk and welcome to here again. theres a man that will make your key look nice and pretty and as well he can make a little pretty tubeylike thing that the key can go into and then it look like a pretty necklace.
     
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