she works away I work from home, we need someone to help us or me with me being kept locked and only unlocked when she wants out, has any one here got any oppurtunitys?
Erm.. she is away working, you are home,.. both of you need a 3rd party to keep your key?? Let her keep the key with her.
She keeps the key with her. You can have an emergency key available to you at home but keep it in a tamper evident package so she will know if you use it. There are numerous options for this, but the plastic ties with the unique serial numbers work pretty well. Don't overcomplicate things. ~subrick
You can lock the key in a Metal tube that will be locked by a plastic key that can be broken in emergency cases.
I’m really confused by this. But if you want to send me the key I’ll give you my address… I want both sets… and you’ll never know whether it’s my actual address or not. Keep it kinky and all that. I’ll send it back when i find the house of the made up address I made…
Ok...we're trying to help here, but you didn't give us that information in your first post. We have a lot of "beginners" who come to CM and many are unaware of some of these simpler options. Now (after reading your profile) I see that you do have some experience with chastity, but still it's hard to know what you've already tried unless you tell us. Adding another person into the "chastity game" to be an additional keyholder is usually a level of complexity many of us are either uncomfortable/unwilling to do, or just not able to find the right person to do so. Or, in cases such as ours, unnecessary to do because my wife and I are usually together every day. During the few times we have to be apart, we use a spare key locked with the plastic coded security locks I keep in my wallet. If you don't mind me asking, can you tell us what it is about keeping a spare key available for your emergency use only that isn't appealing for you? The plastic locks are pretty cheap, so even if you had to go through a couple a week, it shouldn't break the bank. Good Luck, ~Rick
have you considered a polyamorous relationship. our puck is almost never alone and then not for long so an emergency key is not required. we find it very rewarding but it comes with it's own set of challenges.