My journey to FLR marriage with husband locked in chastity

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    I agree; if anything, you’ve improved him and continue to ensure that he doesn’t slip back to his previous state. I can tell you care a lot about him and sometimes tough love is exactly what is needed.
     
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    Fun story to enjoy, but probably all fake, yes.
     
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    I'm glad for you, that you have someone to confide in. Sharing your unique lifestyle with a confidant you trust, your daughter, has to be very satisfying for you. I'd love to hear what you have shared. I hope you are encouraging her to be a little Mean Bitch in her own relationships. We need more powerful dominant women in the world. You are a true treasure to be worshiped and respected.
     
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    When you first put your husband in chastity you didn't peg him. What made you start?
    Did you ever think of doing that with any other partner?
    You said that you were starting to enjoy it more and sometimes becoming more aggressive with it. Are you able to orgasm from pegging alone? Im sure your husband has started getting some sexual stirrings from the activity, has he been able to achieve an orgasm from your domination alone? Do you ever make him fellate you?
    Have you increased the size of your strapon since you started? If you don't mind me asking, I'm sure all your fans want to know, how big is your dick?
     
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    Thanks
     
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    She knows me and my husband well enough to understand and accept how our marriage has evolved, and she is completely supportive.

    She has a different personality and life so she doesn't have interest in FLR or chastity.

    In case anything were to happen to me she would release my husband from his chastity and handle things as my executor. My husband knows that she is aware of our FLR. It causes him some embarrassment but it's one of many things he is forced to accept.
     
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    I don't encourage her to be anything other than herself. She is her own person and a mature adult. We all need to be ourselves. She's not a dominant personality but she isn't going to be dominated by any man either.
     
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    I'm not sure what led directly to it but once I started pegging him it felt natural and extremely satisfying, and it's only become more satisfying over time for me in every way.

    At this point I'm happy with my husband and don't desire relations with other men as I did in the past. So while being pegged is a burden that he has to endure it's restored monogamy to our relationship.

    I usually start by standing tall with him on his knees fellating me before turning him over and penetrating him. I have gradually increased the size of the phallus over time, there's no way he could have handled what I use now at first. I don't know the exact size but at this point the phallus that I use on him is quite long and thick, believe me he feels every inch.
     
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    Nice to see you back here and good to see things are going well for you
     
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    How often and for how long do you peg him?
     
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    Does he still get released out of his belt for good behavior? Or has he now learned to get it from feeling every inch of your dildo while getting pegged?
    You’re not looking for other men, does it mean you can get pleasure from him when you need one (strapon of course).
     
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    Thanks!
     
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    He continues to receive regular releases which he is grateful for and which are important to his overall health. Pleasing me is a demanding job so I am glad to allow him the pleasure that he earns.

    I no longer seek other men because my husband provides me with all the pleasure I need, sexual and otherwise. He recognizes that his primary sexual organ now is his tongue, and he has become very proficient and pleasuring me orally. And he has accepted that when I am in the mood his ass is going to get a hard workout.

    Our relationship is better than ever, and the sexual part is really just a small part of it. He appreciates the security and stability that I provide, just as I appreciate the service that he provides. Our relationship is seamless and fulfilling to both of us. Our marriage wasn't working at all, and the period after I first imposed FLR wasn't easy for either of us. He was understandably frustrated at the loss of his manhood and his freedom and I struggled with the responsibility of micromanaging him and dealing with some defiance on his part. But he adjusted and adopted a new mindset and now neither of us can imagine a different relationship. Once the man finally submits fully (to the point that he is completely dependent on you) then it's smooth sailing, and having reached that point we have the ideal relationship in my view.
     
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    In terms of him getting regular releases are they still weekly or when you feel he has earned only?

    What is very interesting is that you both have changed over time which is always good to change to make things work better.
    So many are stuck in ways simply because they have always done it a certain way and from my own experiences this lifestyle is no different it needs adapting all the time to stay practical and enjoyable.

    Like wit( yourself you talked in the past about having lovers etc and that was good at the time but now you don’t need that as you have adapted well. I can fully relate to that when my lady had a gf and she hadn’t had now for a good time and says it dosent fit her life now.
     
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    Glad you have now satisfying relationship. Do you allow your husband to get release watching pornography and if so, does that create any issues for you or your relationship? Meaning, does he get lost in the fantasy, and wishes he had more other women, intercourse etc.?
     
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    They are weekly as long as he has earned them. He has domestic responsibility and he has to weigh under the body weight that I have mandated, which is sometimes a struggle for him. But he's motivated and I am consistent and fair.
     
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    He can arouse himself however he wishes. We don't really discuss it and I certainly don't monitor this. It seems like it would be painful and frustrating for him to fantasize too much during the week but that's his business.
     
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    Is he allowed internet access? Any chance that he could come on here and talk to us?
     
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    sounds like it’s working out better than ever
     
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    The relationship has gotten better each year. Mental conditioning takes patience and constant reinforcement, but the effort is worth it. My experience has been that it's an ongoing process whereby evolving my husband's mindset never ends. The belt is a tool, and an effective one, but it's only one piece in focusing his mind entirely on my needs and on my direction. At this point the belt is part of the equation but the invisible mental leash around his neck is the most important.

    I'm actually quite confident that I could removed the belt and he would continue to be completely obedient and dependent on me. It's something my husband has himself said. But keeping him in chastity still serves several purposes: it brings me satisfaction to have him locked, it is a constant reminder that he's under my control, and it's a safety net that keeps him from negative temptations.
     
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    Certainly, a secure belt is critical. I would love to hear more about everything that makes that 'mental leash' so important for him (and for you) in your relationship as well.
     
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    The common theme I hear among all enthusiastic and natural female dominants is control. They love to control their sub and thrive on the power they have over them. It comes across on MeanBitch's posts so that's why I believe she's the real deal.
     
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    No doubt he’d remain obedient for the most part, however, it doesn’t surprise me that he’d advocate for removal of the belt. I’m sure he’d love to masturbate freely, but that would almost certainly dampen his motivation to serve enthusiastically. You’re a wise woman in keeping him locked.
     
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    Hi Miss Mean Bitch..
    Love your blog. I'd love to know something. You use that "At your beck and call phrase" a lot. Can you describe what that looks like in some detail? So hubby is scubbing the floors on hands and knees. You are on the couch watching tv or busy in the den. Is it something like, "Bitch! Get your ass in here and fetch Me, whatever?".. Or is it more like, "Honey would you mind fetching Me My whatever?"
    Just curious
     
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