Why does my girlfriend still send me nudes even though I'm in chastity?

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    #1 AnonJohn97, Jul 18, 2022
    I know the obvious answer most of you will be thinking is that she's trying to tease me, but we have a truly very vanilla relationship aside from her chastity fetish and she usually doesn't mess with me or torture me in any way, hell, I'm still dominant most of the time in the relationship, her one dealbreaker is just that she needs me locked up with the exception of sex with her.

    But when she sends me nudes at work or while we're apart, she knows I can't act on them. She literally has the key. She told me before we started chastity that she liked sending nudes because of how it turned me on and knowing I'd masturbate to them, yet since she locked me up she's been sending lots of nudes regularly, even ones of her masturbating. She asks my opinions on them too so I have to look/watch and she is INCREDIBLY attractive so it makes me hurt with my dick trying so hard to get hard. Do you really think she's doing this just to tease me, or that maybe she would miss sending me nudes if she stopped?
     
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    #2 Rita, Jul 18, 2022
    I would hope she is a prick teaser and is really enjoying making you squirm.
     
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    #3 AnonJohn97, Jul 18, 2022
    It is hard to tell sometimes. She says she isn't trying to do that.
     
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    #4 Alceste, Jul 19, 2022
    I don't think that her teasing you implies an FLR. You can have teasing without it.
     
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    #5 Andy88, Jul 19, 2022
    She is squirting juices all over the place.. You are not the problem. She is. She needs to be satisfied big time. But then you are not her solution either.
     
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    #6 starflyer, Jul 19, 2022
    She needs a Bull then ??
     
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    #7 SubPeter, Jul 19, 2022
    Maybe both. She likes to tease you and also would miss to send you nudes. But why dont you ask her?
     
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    #8 okbobbi, Jul 19, 2022
    She's enjoying her control.
     
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    #9 slave_m, Jul 19, 2022
    Because she CAN and WANTS !!
    :):)
     
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    #10 Lali's slave boy, Jul 20, 2022
    She is a hot beautiful young woman. She can do whatever she wants and men like you should learn to kneel and obey and think of themselves as lower beings in front of her. Start giving her control in all aspects of life. Make her a queen and you a mere worthless slave.
     
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    #11 gingers_sub, Jul 20, 2022
    I agree its not fair that she is sending you nudes of herself.
    She should be sending them to all of us!
    Why should we miss out?

    Just kidding Karen.

    :D
     
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    #12 AnonJohn97, Jul 20, 2022
    It's just difficult because she knows how attracted I am to her and that I can't do anything with her nudes.
     
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    #13 IB-Chaste, Jul 20, 2022
    show us her nudes…
     
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    #14 JaySaysYes, Jul 20, 2022
    Better yet; get her to join, get verified, and for her to post them here.
     
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    #15 Xileh, Jul 21, 2022
    You have a beautiful partner, and she likes to remind you. Lucky guy.

    Enjoy then attention and let her know she is the cause of some serious arousal. She might like to hear that. Then, see if anything changes. Positive feedback can work wonders. She might not be as vanilla as you think. Let that genie out of the bottle and she may never go back in.
     
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    #16 starflyer, Jul 21, 2022
    She's keeping you on the edge by teasing you
     
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    #17 raprisa, Jul 21, 2022
    Lucky you. Mine only sends me clothed ones with her middle finger or an L-sign.
     
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    #18 King Hippo, Jul 27, 2022
    And just like that…. The online fantasy was over quicker then the time it took to write it down…
     
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    #19 Giles_English, Jul 27, 2022
    I think a lot of kink is just ramped up vanilla.
     
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    #20 true42, Jul 28, 2022
    Maybe he can't get to the computer to type, because he has been locked up permanently in a dungeon?
     
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    #21 Andy88, Jul 29, 2022
    Ah come on guys.. give him a break… how is he going to update us with his hands chained to his back, a lock on his penis, a peg up where the sun aint shining and a soiled lacey panties in his mouth.. give him some solace and he will be briefing us once he gets back behind his screen with a hand on his dick. He will have plenty of time since the gf just dumped him for her 5th conquest…
     
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    #22 madams-sissysub, Aug 3, 2022
    I think this sums it up!
     
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    #23 anomalous1, Aug 6, 2022
    Because she's awesome.

    There are two people in this relationship, and while you have your own perspective on chastity, she's entitled to hers. Maybe her favorite kink is sending nudes, or she loves teasing you. One of the key tenets of chastity, is ceding control of your sex life to your keyholder. They get to decide how things play out, it seems like she's working out the parameters of your sex life. If it makes you super uncomfortable (emotionally), talk to her, though I doubt you'll get the response you'd like. Just roll with dude.
     
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    #24 NowIveDoneIt, Aug 6, 2022
    This was a fantasy story from a poster who has long since disappeared.
     
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    #25 King Hippo, Aug 7, 2022
    This post has been on the forums longer then he was active, lol.
     
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