Blue-Ball Syndrome - Ideas to ease the symptoms?

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    Once I get to about 2.5-weeks of denial, I often find that I get a dose of Blue-Ball Syndrome.

    For those reading this that don't know what this is..... I'm currently suffering from it now and I feel as if I've had a few swift kicks in the balls. I understand that it's caused by a build-up of seminal fluid resulting from a couple of weeks of sexual activity that has not ended in an orgasm for me. At best it's uncomfortable and, at worst, it can be extremely painful to a point where I can hardly walk.

    I know that I could simply have a wank and relieve the symptoms, however, to me, that seems to be an object-defeating exercise, as does a ruined orgasm.

    The point is that the average period that I am kept without orgasm is about 3-weeks, so just as I'm approaching the weekend when I'm likely to be given a nice full release (maybe 3 or 4 days short), I sometimes get blue-balls. Along with that comes the temptation to have a wank to get some relief, but that risks me being below par when my moment comes. I'm in my late 60s, so 3 or 4 days is not long enough for me to recover to peak desperation, which is where I want to be for the main event. {As much as I hate to be the bringer of bad tidings to any younger guys......... old age is coming soon to a body near you !! }

    I have found that turning the shower to cold and spraying my genital area for 5-10 minutes provides temporary relief for a few hours, as does using a pack of frozen peas. I assume this simply eases the inflammation caused by the congestion.

    Is there a better solution? What do my fellow blue-ball sufferers do to alleviate their symptoms?

    Any help or advice will be gratefully received?
     
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    I believe you are overthinking this one and it might all be in your head here. There might be another problem here, but I don't think it has anything to do with you needing to ejaculate. Just my opinion, I am not a doctor... just a very beatable character from Mike Tyson's Punch-Out.
     
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    #3 Mojoman, Jul 12, 2022
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    OK.....can you explain your opinion?
     
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    I don’t think your pain has anything to do with you not ejaculating.
     
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    Sorry for the multiple post but I think your idea of what blue balls is different then the medical opinion… blue ball pain is only after being aroused, not all the time.. you might want to get this checked out if this pain is as constant as you claim.
     
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    OK, but wanking one out cures it completely, so I don't feel that it's anything more serious.
     
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    Hey thanks...... but I never said it was constant?
     
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    must admit, i've never suffered from it and i'm in my mid 60's
     
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    Chastity in and of itself can be arousing enough to produce “blue balls” for some. In many respects, that’s part of the point. My wife loves that I’m in a constant state of a delicious ache in my balls and that’s what she strives for. It’s a constant reminder of who really owns them and controls them.

    All that aside, most of us have experienced “blue balls” before so I’d say to the OP, is this ache the same as that or something different/worse? As others have said it could be something else but maybe not. Take the cage off, but don’t wank and see if it’s still there.

    My experience is that once the “pressure” builds enough, the body will expel it one way or another. Not to be indelicate here but it often happens when I have a bowel movement, the grazing pressure across the prostate causes fluid to be released at time and I end up squirting what always appears to be a little cum, usually happens to me about once a week. Others might have wet dreams etc.
     
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    Caging is an occasional thing for me, not permanent. We use the honour system in the main, so it is not caused by caging.
     
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    Yeah but here is what you did say...

    " it can be extremely painful to a point where I can hardly walk."

    "I have found that turning the shower to cold and spraying my genital area for 5-10 minutes provides temporary relief for a few hours, "

    I mean if you are getting relief for a few hours... I'd assume you are talking about something that is pretty constant... it sounds like you have a bigger problem then needing relief from wanking one out.
     
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    I do sometimes have mystery emissions of cum, for no reason at all, so I understand what you are referring to.

    In the absence of those mystery emissions, I can get blue-balls.
     
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    Wanking one out cures it completely, so I don't think so.

    Have you ever suffered from blue-balls yourself @King Hippo?
     
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    Following. Actually quite enjoy ball busting, but blue balls are above my tolerance. Very annoying and it indeed happens more with chastity and teasing.
     
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    Just trying to help mate, sounds like you have a serious issue on your hands that you should see a doctor about.
     
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    Hey Hippo, please don't get me wrong. I really appreciate your concern, but I don't feel that it's a serious issue if a simple wank cures it.

    Great to get your input....thanks.
     
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    But denial doesnt really result in such pain as though being kicked and could hardly walk.. i dont think you mean by actual discolouration..? Hope you are ok by now…
     
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    Maybe you need a good prostate massager?
     
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