Does your KH love or hate T&D?

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    So my wife and I love chastity mostly for the T&D aspect of it. She gets off on knowing that I'm not, so when I lock up she loves to send me nude photos or various porn clips. When we're playing around she loves to lick my cage and vibe me to cumming in the cage. She seems to enjoy this almost more than classic sex which is fine by me because the build-up is amazing!

    How much has T&D played into your chastity lifestyle? Does your KH love to tease, or love to keep you in suspense? My KH is crazy excited to start p-spot play and milking even though I'm a little apprehensive but I love how into the whole kink she is.
     
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    My wife is vanilla. So not a lot of T&D.

    Some of the kinky stuff scares me, quite frankly. So I guess I'm thankful? :rolleyes:

    But she does know how to use tease and denial if she wants to ...
     
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    I can understand that, but I also think that T&D can be so amazing for both parties involved!
     
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    My Wife(KH) loves T&D. She will tease me to the edge and leave me tied up and wait until I come down and then start all over. She enjoys seeing me horny all the time and thinks it's funny when she gets me to leak by just teasing me. When she tells me she thinks it's time for me to get tied up, I know I'm going to be teased until she has had her fun.
     
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    Wife is totally uninterested in T&D. She just likes me locked and desiring her as a baseline.
     
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    She likes to tease and deny me. She loves control, and keeping me desperate and frustrated. She is quite good at it, well at least from my point of view.
     
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    My t and d is in the form of nipple play and vib plug. My key holder loves making me get off on it. Not that I am complaining.
     
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    Mine too. While she definitely enjoys many other aspects of chastity, and T&D is by no means constant because of everything else going on around us (work, kids, etc.), there is no question that she gets pleasure, including sexual pleasure, from knowing that I am not and cannot. She is a sadist, and I am a masochist, and it’s quite nice for both of us.
     
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    My wife really isn't into t&d and doesn't even really acknowledge that I'm caged, but every once in a while will throw a curve ball and tease me for hours at a time for a few days, then back to nothing at all.
     
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    That sounds great!!
     
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    My madam loves it! She loves teasing and teasing me till I’m completely worked up, and then just stops! She also loves just ignoring it completely!
     
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    My wife doesn't love it or hate it, she just doesn't do it. All she wants is that it's locked so I can't use it. So she locks and just forgets about it.
     
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    I believe the term she uses is that edging is her "bread & butter."
    She enjoys it tremendously, and if she's edging me it typically lasts, well, I have no clue but it's like forever x6
     
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    Like a few others who posted, I am in the camp where tease is just my hope for a release one day and denial is the fact that day rarely arrives.
     
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    Naw.. wife is a busy woman and no-nonsense person. She doesnt have time for any nipple nor anal play.. penis? Oh, is it still there..? Only when im washing up the dick and its cage will she pop in and say “hows the lilel guy doing..?”
     
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    Yes, but first some background.

    How I got a Femdom Roommate

    I had a girlfriend years ago that was a switch like me. On weekends we would flip a coin as to who was in charge of the weekends’ sexual scenarios. She started liking more and more intense femdom scenarios when she would win. Sometimes she would invite some of her like-minded girlfriends to join in the fun too. The relationship ended friendly but after she moved out, I told her I planned to rent out one of my bedrooms since we shared the cost of the apartment. She said one of her friends that I had met and was looking for a place to share rent. I remembered her from just one of those scenarios as a tall sexy big tit blond and said sure. Two months of great sex later she was my femdom roommate and I was her blackmailed sub. (She has a lot of pics and videos that I would not want seen in my alpha professional life).
    She discovered that I was playing a kinky version of Truth or Dare online. I let her watch while I was online. She took over my account and began posting Dares that players could request. She used these dares as a source of weekend entertainment for her and her likeminded girlfriends.
    After most every Dare she has me write a detail report on how the dare went.

    On the list of dares players can pick there are 18 that are chastity related. The dares she has posted are categorized as follows:

    Dares in Cyan are chastity related.

    Dares in Lime are sissy dares.

    Dark Orchid are humiliation dares.

    Dares in Yellow are masturbation dares.

    Dares in Orange are bondage related.

    Dares in Red are truth dares.
     
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    I dunno after seeing those pictures you posted and the other scenario... I am having my doubts.
     
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    #18 PawEee, Jul 1, 2022
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    That sounds similiar to my situation. What you refer to saying that „she doesn’t even really aknowkedge that you’re caged”. Does your wife know when you are in a cage? Does she accept it? My wife had learned three yrs ago that I’m willing to share chastity with her, but she doesn’t want to participate at all. Refuses to read, discuss it, barely tolerates sporadic self-locking, absolutely doesn’t allow to sleep with her in it, refuses any participation, key in purse etc. She pretends that she recognizes when I wear it from my behaviour, the way I touch her etc, which is not true, obviously. Opposite to her opinion chastity doesn’t change my behaviour, it’s sporadic, so couldn’t create any impact on me. Especially when she refuses to play.
     
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    ...this sounds like a book from Amazon and nowhere near real life. I'm not saying it's fake, I'm just saying it sounds fake.
     
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    Grab your KH and go to getdare.com and you too can play.
     
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    I mean look at the rubber band ring... It just doesn't look legit...
     
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    I lived with a lady who pretended to like to dominate me at first. Soon it became apparent she was forcing herself to put on the act.. She liked breakfasts in bed and the massages I gave her ,but as for dominating me , she wasn't into it .
     
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    Use of simple past time is significnt in this respect ;).
     
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    I guess what I should have said was that she doesn't go out of her way to point it out. She prefers me to be locked up, and on the rare occasion when she does unlock me, immediately after playing she'll tell me to be sure and lock back up and give her the key. Its just part of every day life now and needs no extra emphasis that it's locked up.
     
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    My life enjoys T&D a little bit. A couple years ago she started to really say how much she likes my reaction when she teases and denies me ... but it doesn't happen very often. So ... a little bit?
     
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