How long have you been married or together?

We have been together since 1998 and got married in 2000. In chastity devices since 2005/6 (a CB6000), eventually becoming more serious about the need for chastity, culminating in a PA secured Rigid Chastity device in 2019.
Our current locking started on September 30th, 2021. I thought today was going to be my 6 month release date, but alas, I miscalculated and it’s only been 5 months. I have another month to go.

 

Knew each other for 19yrs.. maried for 15… last 10yrs in chastity… on n off for few yrs… then we got serious in flr once financial roles cause a pwr chg betwen us.. i bcom d submisive n agreable partner.. chastity has been on me n sexual pleasure on her.. our early years where i can swing my mood for lack of sex or sex acts are over.. looking bk.. im been a dick.. i hope to grant her sexual freedom for d years to com..

 

We met in 1999. Started dating in 2001. Married 2006. Chastity for about a month. She's amazing!

 

40 years

 

Wow it’s been another two years

 

Dated 3 years. Married 50 years. 3 children -5 grandchildren - 3 great-grandchildren- had a wonderful life. Chastity- fun & play for 20 years….a wonderful life.

 

My wife and I are together for 13y and married 9 this year. I chose chastity because of medical, sexual and behavioural reasons.

I want to be a better man for her and not think about sex or masturbation all the time. I want to give her all the pleasure she deserves on every level that she wants. We have just started this journey but i am so proud and i love her so much for trying this with me. Shes amazing

 

My new partner and I have been together almost 3 months now.

 

My wife and I have been married for 28 years. I have been in 24/7 chastity for a little over a year and half. It took about three years before my wife fully embraced chastity. I introduced it to her and she wanted nothing to do with it. She allowed at home use first then weekends only and eventually full time. She won't wear the key but hides it from me. It took a while before she finally realized what it could do for her. She will let me out only for workouts twice a week and PIV about every 4 weeks.
She still surprises me every week and now enjoys rubbing up against the cage and holding it at night. We are happier now then we have ever been in our marriage.

 

In September we will be together for 8 years

 

We’ve been married for over 30 years. Only got into chastity last year. I have been caged off and on since then. When caged my wife won’t wear the key on her, but hides it from me. Most I managed without cumming was 3 months. Currently been over a month without cumming and I’ve been allowed to be uncaged. We still have sex several times a week, with my wife having her cock inside her before using her toy to climax. We go to sleep with my hard, but unfulfilled cock and balls pressed against her ass. I love the constant sexual high.
The only hands to be used to stimulate my cock are those of my wife- a massive change from our relationship until last year, where masturbating had become an addiction. Our marriage is stronger than ever.

 

This is great news for me! At what point did you gain control over the urge to masturbate so that it's safe for you to be uncaged? Are most of your orgasms accidental or intentional on the part of your wife?

I've been caged 24x7 since mid February with only one short break in March because of a sore that developed. 3 orgasms within 5 weeks had me craving orgasms and I acted out and gave myself a ruined orgasm with a vibrator in late April. Our goal is now 90 days without an O to try and curb the masturbation addiction. I'm at day 67 now.

 

Married since 1988. 34 years this October. Together a couple of years before that.
Chastity seemed like a natural progression and the proper thing for us once i was cuckolded around 15 years of marrage.

 

6 months or so. After that I found I had managed to kick the habit.

 

Together 18 years and married for 11. Only recently introduced chastity and it feels transformative.

 

Agreed. It sure does!

 

We just passed 20 years married and 25 together.

We've been in a 'formal' FLR relationship since she collared me almost 6 years ago. She practices enforced chastity and domestic discipline as part of our lifestyle.

 

20 years married this September.
Chastity off and on starting about 2009.

 

45 years this year, been in chastity since late 1990's and still loving it

 

27 years this August, but our relationship began more than a decade before, during which time her cheating tested our bond. Cuckolding energy has informed our intimacy for some time, and though we probably skirt putting that label on it, we both know what’s what! Cage play is pretty new for us, but it’s a fit.

 

Dated for ten years, married for 22. I introduced chastity into our relationship several years ago as an attempt to spice up our love life. After three kids and life in general, things in the bedroom were becoming vanilla and very infrequent. Being locked up is fun, but the longest I've gone is a week. Typically, there is something that comes up which requires me to be unlocked such as a business function and my wife thinks the cage is noticeable under my clothing.

 

That's easily solved.... get a smaller cage!

 

Married 34 years. Chastity was my interest several years ago. My wife didn’t really get it but was fine with me self-locking. I gave it up for a couple years and started back about three months ago. This time she quickly took charge in the bedroom and it has renewed our passion and intimacy!

 

I’d sampled chastity around 13 years ago. Back when a plastic CB-100 or something cost over £100… an expensive mistake.

I’ve been with my wife for 5 years. Married 3. Chastity started about 1 year ago.
As with most thing sexual chastity started out as my idea. I bought a cage, she didn’t enjoy. It progressed more when she started working full time and didn’t have the energy for the amount of sexual activity i required, but I still wanted to do kinky shit.
Basically I earned points for doing chores etc to help her out… in exchange I could trade these points for cards with specific activities when she was in the mood. No limit to how many points I could trade in so I could really make a night of it!
eg wearing lingerie = 5 points
Strapon = 20 points
Tied up = 15 points.
Handjob = 10 points
Etc etc. one of the cards was chastity and we sort of started properly there. She couldn’t keep up with the points I accrued. But we found out when locked up I was super productive and frankly I enjoyed doing stuff for her more.
I mean I can’t actually remember every rule but even writing about the game now sounds silly to me. If we hadn’t had played though I doubt I’d be as productive as I am now in general, as in tune to her needs out of the bedroom and we probably wouldn’t have embarked on 24/7.
There were a few false starts. But we’re pretty much both happy where we are with it now. We basically play the game all the time except I get zero rewards and sometimes I’m punished. Who wouldn’t want that??

 

We’ll done!