So i wanted to ask the members here for some input. I am looking for a way to present my wife with a new chastity cage without it appearing too self serving. You can read my journal posts to see our background but basically ive been in our HT Nano for the last 10 months. This August 25th will have been one full year in chastity. I want to present her with the HT Nub ive recently purchased in a Romantic way to celibrate one year of chastity and my commitment to stay locked. The more practicle reson for the new cage is my penis has continued to shrink during its full time confinment. Been steadily downsizing over the years and diffrent cages. Last three cages have been the HT Small then into the Nano. All of which started off snug. Only fill half the Nano now so its into the Nub. Any ideas of how i can make this new cage presentation special to Her are appreciated. Thanks
Yes No. Seriously my chastity is something we both enjoy and participate in. We are a seasoned FLR/Femdom couple i just want the event to be special.
Wrap it up, don't mention chastity, take her for a weekend away, pampering at a spa or something, really nice dinner, expensive wine...and then say you bought something that you hopes she will like...and give her something you know she would like that isn't a chastity cage. Then, tell her you also bought a new smaller chastity cage which she can open and apply at her leisure.
Yes.. wrap your new chastity device (thats for yourself) along with a new lingerie or a nightie for her.. it shows sexual emancipation for a very feminine of her and submissiveness of you.. I gifted my wife the cage on her birthday and promise to be a chaste husband..
Ok......let me try to clarify. Im trying to do this with a vibe similar to a Collaring Ceremony. One would think the taking a slave was a very self centered act but they are actually very romantic. At least the ones ive attended. This is the same scene i am hoping to replicate. Good thing i have until end of August to prepare.