I underestimated my wife

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    #26 Chaz69, May 18, 2022
    @Maitresse Sabrina, you may just have scared him off, let's see. But he was here as recently as Today at 7:58 AM, so he's here.
     
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    #27 Linjx014, May 18, 2022
    Haha nah didn't scare me off. We're taking a break for a bit. I got covid and I took the device off and there was some nasty stuff inside of the hollow pa pin. It freaked me out thought maybe I had got sepsis at first but it was just the Rona. Im trying to find a solution to use a different pin. I've prototyped a 3d printed part that will attach one half of a tribal ring. Just haven't tested it out. And think I have some irritability issue that came after covid. It really didn't even hit me hard. Just finding my self getting super mad about some of the tiniest things lately. I was mad it ended 20 day streak for basically nothing. It was disappointing.
     
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    #28 Chaz69, May 19, 2022
    Sorry you got the Rona dude, did u get bad symptoms? By the time I got it I had already had 3 jabs so I got pretty mild symptoms. And in fact I got my 4th jab while I had it because I didn't know I had it yet.
     
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    #29 HusbandX, May 19, 2022
    I'm home after 42 days on the road. I have five days at home, one of which is my anniversary. I am wearing a nylon cobra cage, put in place as soon as I arrived home. My wife took the keys. For our anniversary, I am giving my wife an "agreement," like a contract, printed on parchament. She's taking control of all finances, marital property, etc. She will provide an allowance account for me. My paychecks will be deposited into our former joint-account, now her account. Similar arrangements are formally addressed about authority, discipline, sex, chores, etc. It's a big step, and very much about being careful what one asks for. There will be one copy, and she keeps it. We shall see.
     
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    #30 Maitresse Sabrina, May 19, 2022
    Oh no! Sorry to hear that Linjx014! I hope you get better soon. I still wanna talk to your wife once you get better, though! ;)
     
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    #31 Linjx014, May 19, 2022
    Nah wasn't bad. I was at work and then all of a sudden just got body aches and just felt like I got hit by a truck. Chills and body aches lasted till the next day so like 24hrs. Then I was fine.

    And idk if that'll happen Sabrina lol
     
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    #32 tecolote, May 19, 2022
    I would love for an experienced keyholder to talk to my wife. She was once interested, but has cooled off. I may have gone too weird on her in my excitement. Maybe she never really wanted it at all. She says she is afraid of causing me injury, but it's possible that is just the excuse for not doing it. I don't know what to think.
     
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    #33 JohnDoe, May 19, 2022
    I would be equal parts terrified and excited for an experienced KH to offer to talk to my OH. I think it might scare HER off TBH so it'll probably never happen!
     
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    #34 Maitresse Sabrina, May 23, 2022
    :rolleyes: I think the idea is scaring the both of you off! You still are trying to remain in control. tecolote is more in the right when he surmises that nothing but good things-for both Keyholder and "encaged"-can come out of an experienced KH talking to a beginning KH.
     
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    #35 Maitresse Sabrina, May 23, 2022
    I'll do it! :D
     
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    #36 PinkCB2000Boy, May 23, 2022
    So would I. My wife loves to hear other ideas. Not sure I can get my wife on the chat boards.
     
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    #37 tecolote, May 23, 2022
    Wow, thanks! I'll see if she is open to it and get back to you, if that sounds good to you?
     
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    #38 Maitresse Sabrina, May 23, 2022
    :+1:
     
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    #39 Lizzy 72, May 29, 2022
    Hi I'm teocoltes wife and I'm interested in getting back to this whole chastity lock that my hubby is into. Thx for assisting us with this
     
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    #40 Chaz69, May 29, 2022
    Hi Lizzy, you should be able to get plenty of good advice here on CM, from both the men and their keyholders, so you can get points of view from both sides. Please feel free to ask any questions that you like.
     
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    #41 bondinchas, May 29, 2022
    Nail varnish works well... It comes in an impossible number of colours and sparkly mixtures so very difficult to copy if you don't know exactly what was used.
     
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    #42 Jessica Alexander, May 29, 2022
    That's why you should have a rule that you have x amount of time to relock unless she tells you otherwise. It's a good way to help a new keyholder get her confidence if you really want to keep chastity play going.
     
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    #43 cshorts, May 29, 2022
    That's a shame, @tecolote. I've worried about this with my wife from time to time -- she has never been very excited about chastity, but engages at a modest level, then sometimes seems to drift away for a bit. I hope your wife comes back and re-engages.
     
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    #44 tecolote, May 30, 2022
    She just joined the forum, so all good.
     
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    #45 cshorts, May 30, 2022
    Terrific! I did notice that after I wrote. Welcome @Lizzy 72 ! We're a supportive bunch, hope being here is a good experience for you. I'd love for my wife to join in. Best wishes to you both.
     
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    #46 LockedBoi23, Jun 12, 2022
    I found once I realised when I'm the cock is locked it's truly hers and you have no say you have to enjoy the ride. I now tend to find when I'm not in the cage I just want to be locked and horny and touching it whenever I want just makes me feel guilty. Enjoy it!
     
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    #47 Linjx014, Jul 2, 2022
    Well an update. I've been kinda inactive lurker for a month or so since my covid bs that ruined a 3 week stint. She's been getting more into it. But we had sex and she didnt enforce me back in after. I'm still free think she wants a good long pounding. Lol. But the messages got extremely intense. Per screen shot. We need to get more into her taking control but I won't force it since she's the boss
     

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    #48 Andy88, Jul 2, 2022
    You dont need chastity mr linjx, she wants your cock! In her pussy and in her mouth.! Now do as she said! Fuck her like a teenager..
     
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    #49 Maitresse Sabrina, Jul 4, 2022
    It's because she didn't talk to me…
     
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    #50 Lali's slave boy, Jul 4, 2022
    Hello Ma'am Sabrina. My wife and me are new to chastity and her being dominant. Can you please talk to my wife and guide her as to how to better control her husband. It will be an honour for me if you agree to teach a thing or two to my wife. Please let me know thanks.
     
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