I am curious on what kind of sex life users of this site have. I am probably not covering all cases. Some ay overlap
Once embark on d male chastity..orgasm is as good as gone.. hers is unlimited though.. there r more ways to pleasure her than wat d submale dick can do..
We have fantastic sex whenever she wants it which is often. She just uses chastity as another form of control.
We have sex all the time (read: once a week). She decides whather I can cum or not at the end after she's had hers. Most of the time she allows it. So chastity is mostly to prevent me masturbating behind her back or pestering her for sex/handjobs when she's not in the mood.
For us we have been in cuckold/chastity lifestyle so long that now we are in situation that only penetrative sex she got comes from her bf.
We made love for a couple of hours this morning. All in the mind, I was locked and she has her TofM. As we spooned I air fucked her like a demon possessed. I had multiple-micro ruined orgasms. I feel like I've had sex, have the rush from sort of coming, but my frustratisfying feelings are really high.
We have a good sex life. No PIV for me in many years. She gets oral, and her favorite go to vibrator, the Wand. She allows and controls my releases as she sees fit. Consuming my load is very common as she enjoys watching that. It works for us
I orally service her once a week or so with the belt on and vibrating plug in place. Sometimes I orgasm without ejaculating. Since the behind barz belt came 5 weeks ago it’s been 24/7 and per the way she is talking that is not going to change. In the becareful what u ask for stage of chastity now….
Twice this weekend. And I'm not used to this much attention now! (It's whenever and however she wants it. I am always glad to -- of course!)
No PIV or orgasm for me now, since my new cage arrived in February. My wife demands oral attention or my fingers, and has her multiple orgasm 2-3 times a week, while I stay locked. Occasionally (less than once a week) she will tie my hands to the bed, unlock me and tease me to the edge 2-3 times before locking me back up. She stops at 2-3 so she doesn’t risk me orgasming without warning. I’m not allowed to touch myself at all. Each time she asks me if I want to cum or do I want to keep making her the happiest she has ever been. It’s a no brainer really but very hard to say no to an orgasm at the time - I always do say no. Then smiling, and very horny from the power trip, she locks me back up and I’m allowed to use her favourite Cock dildo to fuck her, while I am locked out of the way. She says it’s for the best as she feels much more now and her Cock gives her more pleasure. She comes constantly until I stop. She says my little thing is good to play with but no good for fucking. She wishes she had locked me up years ago as often she has not known I am inside her. It’s taken us years to find the right cage for me as I am so small. But now I don’t think it will ever come off except for her teasing sessions. I am happier than I have ever been concentrating on her pleasure. She is the happiest she has ever been enjoying much more pleasure and the control of me which has increased her libido. It all sounds fantasy I know, but I am living the dream with the woman of my dreams. Married 42 years. I have not told anyone else what I have said here. Thank god it’s anonymous! My wife’s privacy is important. So I write this now purely to show it is possible to have this lifestyle. I am very lucky. What comes next? My wife is blooming and wanting to explore and try new things but within our marriage. The only ‘cuckolding’ (for now) will be with her ‘Cock’, and I use it. She wants to learn how to milk me so that may be added in the next few months. Also to dominate me more. We shall see I guess.
Exactly the same here. My sub-hubby stays locked 24/7, no erections or orgasms allowed. But he still provides oral service whenever I desire it.
How are you handling 24/7 in your Behind Barz belt? I’ve got the Hannibal 3 cage and have yet to experience a lock up that long, how are you handling submitting to that extreme level of lock up? Any tips?
Frequency =once a week on the weekend and this is at her discretion so it's not guaranteed. Chastity doesn't effect her decisions (on or off) For her, Oral, Dildo, Fingers. To Orgasm. Lots of oral for her which I really enjoy anyway and the same with using a dildo on her is definitely a favorite. At her discretion For me, Edging Handjob, supervised Fleshlight use, Prostate massager inserted for most activities., Caged with stimulation of her vulva etc. Rarely full penetrative sex but when it does its to orgasm for both of us.
Once per week we generally have pretty normal love making, I am similar to another poster here, chastity is to mainly make sure i don't masturbate or have an erection without her permission. Its been a long time since Mistress actually denied me having a orgasm, she keeps threatening every time that it might be a LONG time before I am allowed out again...lol...We do have strap on for me and for her, so she doesnt have to let me and she tells me that strap on feels just like me. (sometimes she likes to humiliate me by saying is it in yet? where by I threaten her with one of the larger implements we have but never used on her......yet....lol) My new enclosed steelworx device customised to work with the tether device finally arrives next week (just got tracking), I am sure that will lead to more time in the cage, although I am 24/7 now except for the weekly bliss
I’m a cuck that’s kept 24/7 locked, but I did get a 100% genuine “enjoy it how you want it to orgasm” PIV experience this weekend. That being said, while I get PIV about twice a month, freedom to cum as I want is exceptionally rare. The last time would have been sometime last year.
Sex with some rules.. I must wear make up(cushion or compact powder),bodystocking, corset...and still in chastity... If i wear that i will have 50% unlocked and piv sex...if i dont do that...it will not be unlocked..
This is us. She loves cock, and takes me out to use me as her toy. Most often she wants me to pull out and ruin my O. She often just cums and hops off and tells me to put on my cage. Every once in a while she tells me to just cum inside her. She wants me ejaculation free unless she causes it. She loves to watch me spurt, so she ruins my orgasms very often. It is so hot and frustrating. I'm always in a state of longing to complete the climax.
Yes, We make Love Regularly. Male Chastity isn't simply about denial for me but rather giving her control over intimacy in the bedroom. Her preference is PIV Sex and I cannot deny her that.
Im still like so inexperienced, so who knows if I wanna take a break from abstinence? My goal is definitly unlimited denial. For now I forbid myselfe from having any penetrative Sex, and using a Strap-on wouldnt feel right eighter. That said, its like only for penetration, if I find some sweethearth who manage to make me cum via Anal ect. Its totaly fine whit me. Make me purr plz. ;-) I am single, so how I planed things out might be like less interesting, but sex is sex. So in short, penis stimulation is like gone for good, but sex is totaly on the table.
You are right.. sex is always there.. just in another form and manner.. for her, not yours. A woman need her juices flowing, a man only needs his being recycled again and again.