My wife wants this to be surgically permanent

i for one do not think of this as unhealthy OR toxic--simply atruly submissive male who wishs to please his Wife/Mistress/ Owner--if u are truly a submissive to u'r Owner u would or should never even think of these options DO or Submit to Her wishes that is AS A SUBMISSIVE SLAVE-U HAVE NO RIGHTS OR THE RIGHT TO EVEN QUESTION HER ABOUT ELIMINATION OF OF U'R VULGAR SEXUAL ORGANS=IF shE CHOOSES TO MAKE SEXLESS THAT IS her RIGHT ANDS HOULD NEVER BE QUESTIONED--IT IS EASY FOR ME BECAUSE I AM NEVER ALLOWED TO SPEAK OTHER THAN TO SAY YES OWNER---my days are long for i must maintain the house an dungeon plus am often provided to Owners guest in Her dungeon--these use me as they want my mount and boipussi are open to them and they can beat or torture me as they want oftrn after a severe flogging they will put hundreds pf pins in my ass as well as the soles of my feet so i can not sit or stand i must crawl to my cage often they are not removed for several day then i am beat again

 

For me, comparing wearing a chastity device to slicing off perfectly health body parts in the name of "kink" is not the same thing. Good luck.

 

Keep in mind that most of the comments are driven by the fact that putting your dick in a cage is very easily reversed if either partner discovers that it's not what they expected. There is no "safe word" with permanent irreversible surgery.

 

Keep your wank-fodder to yourself.

 

Very well said

 

your partner wanting to chop off your balls is very different than you wanting to have done it your whole life. If it was a "kink" then you'd have personally taken the steps she did behind your back. Will you jump off a bridge to "please" her too?

 

You do not have to have known things for your whole life for it to be correct. If you figure out that later in your life you're trans, or don't want to have genitals that doesn't invalidate it. Nor does discovering it through kink.

Yes, there is a difference between just a kink and something you actually want. But your first exposure to the idea can be through kink and it doesn't take away from it.

 

Remove your testicles and you remove your desire. Not to mention the hormones change and medication you need. I have been in almost constant chastity for now 6 years. What makes it when you see your partner all dressed up the curves and the feelings of desire so strong I takes over yet you can not do anything about it. Seeing her eyes she knows it and loves how it makes her feel. She wants sex. Oral toys and knowing your desire and that you will never get it fulfilled. Sitting in a coffeehouse and seeing women in leggings that feeling is so great. Even if your dick has shrunk. And you you would sit in a coffeehouse no dick no balls no desire. Scheduling appointments to have a prescription for hormonal medication.

 

Not entirely true. Sex drive might drop, but not always as much as some people think. What will be bigger problem, if your partner desires penetration, is decreased function. Some castrated men can still achieve an erection, while others can't.

 

Hi he was talking about testicles an penis removal. And some is an open term. Not to mention needing medication to get testosterone into the body.

 

Ok.. many brushed off tis topic as mere fantasy.. n bordering on absurdity.. as no wife would hv thought to nulify her husband.. no mater how dominating she is… however.. nulification is prevalent in same sex couples.. but as rarely as male-female relationship resulting in d male nulification.. who am i to judge for any distant posibility..? I mean… if chastity n flr could result in deprivation of sex for d male as wel as even his instinct of erection.. wat if.. his members are further disabled by means of penectomy and/or castration…? Theres a huge difrence betwen d two… As a form of xtreme dominion by her in aserting his sub status by removing his penis..? Or his ultimate sacrifice of total devotion to her in denying his malenes n sealing his future with her.. n her alone… asuming she has made up her mind with proper counseling n medical specialist.. n u r fuly aware of d consequences n future of relationship... who r u to disobey..? Btw.. im not a genital mutilation advocate..

 

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Brilliant post of sanity from someone who knows a bit about it, having no testicles!
The real world.
Being nulled? For me NO way!! For someone very diffetent from me? Why not if its truly what they want. Being permanently locked, my penile function is zero but my sexual function isn't. As many here have pointed out, that's not the same as being nulled to remove that function.

 

This is a difficult subject and it is good to see folks adding on...
keep the conversation going,

don't cut it short.

 

I have been into male chastity for the past year, though currently operating under the honour system with my wife enjoying having her cock to play with and pleasure her when she wants- as long as I don’t play with it myself or cum.
I understand the fantasy of having your balls removed, particularly when I look at caged males who strive to get into ever shorter cages. As the penis becomes that much smaller, the balls tend to dominate and look like an odd bump on an otherwise smooth genital area. They spoil the look for a sissy. However, in my sober moments i realise that the testicles are there to produce my sex drive. Furthermore, without a nice pair of balls how would one fit a cage to constrain the penis?

 

I just think of one word
RUN

 

Everybody hopes that their marriage is forever and it wont end. But, that is not a guarantee. Problems that can not be resolved could arise and end the marriage or she could pass prematurely. That would leave you in a permanent state that you might not want to be in if you don't have a domme anymore. What you are talking about is permanent and once done would be the same tomorrow and everyday after. Being in a relationship could change tomorrow, but you couldn't.

 

Nicely done Sir, well played.

 

Doubt a penectomised/castrated man can find another new keeper once the current one insisted to perform such.. if the relationship doesnt last… Or any woman would say aha?.. since there is already so much caging, cbt, numbing, collar shock, piercing and not to mention denial and no piv sex at all for the poor penis that is merely existing.. a little step further is snipping..

 

run away leave now while you still have your parts and she is FUCKING NUTS !!!!!! and so are you if you stay ......

 

ah men and their balls. We rip out overies everyday

 

I will not lie. I also want this to happen to me.

And they can say what they want, but we still have a thing called free will, and everyone does what they want with themselves. I don't judge who thinks it's too crazy, but for some people that's cool.

My biggest fear is losing the lust I normally feel, but reading the answers here, I saw some interesting options. I'll even put some images here that can bring more solutions for those who think about something like this.

 

All but one of these present surgical and anatomical difficulties such that they would not be very feasible. I'm not here to kink shame or rain on anyone's parade. However, as a transgender woman who has put a lot of effort into learning about the various vaginoplasty surgical techniques, I have a fairly decent grasp on what works and doesn't work, and why. The only one that would be feasible would be the top one, the "shaftectomy". Everything else presents urological or anatomical problems that would make life miserable and painful.

As for losing the "lust", I honestly doubt it. I have been without any sex hormones at all for a period and still felt desire. And I have also been on HRT with normal female levels of estrogen and progesterone, but with undetectable levels of testosterone, and still have feelings of desire. If you retain the testicles and their functions, as I think the illustrations indicate, sex drive and libido shouldn't change much. However, I can say that as my erectile function went away, I began to find other things very stimulating.

The biggest and most important sexual organ we have is our brain. And for most people, the brain is hard wired for intimate contact. Your brain can adapt in amazing ways, as evidenced by spinal cord injury survivors who still enjoy sex even if they have lost sensation in their genitals. If you have some surgery to reconfigure your genitals, you will find new ways to enjoy sex. Your abilities may change (i.e. not having erections anymore), but so will what you find stimulating.

 

It's not really the part he's thinking with right now.

 

It is? What do you mean by "prevalent"?