My wife told me my cage isn't comming off for a week

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    #1 Coolhandluke, May 13, 2022
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    I was a bit rude to her, I won't go into the details but her reaction was swift
    " when we get in, you're locking your thing on and it's not comming off for a week"
    I just accepted her demand and did in fact lock myself up in my 2" Jailbird.

    Now, we've dabbled in chastity since 2016 and I'm usually locked from when I came in after work until when I get dressed for work, most weekends I'm locked too. My wife doesn't like me being locked at work basically.

    We have chastity gaps top, usually after she allows me an orgasm, then like a few weeks later, either I'll suggest it or she will request that locking restarts. Usually, it's just a bit stricter.

    I relocked in May, my suggestion. She took my key. She likes me being locked but doesn't like the cage. I take part in all the locking and cleaning elements, that's my bit, she doesn't like to see it but likes what it does to me. It makes me calmer, more considerate, nicer, a better listener, I do chores without having to be asked, I'm more loving.

    Recently she's been saying that I'm not nice enough too. Then the stepped up the chastity to 24-7 as a punishment for my behaviour, I'm not sure it is a punishment., to me anyway. I know it's what I need but I've gone from being unlocked for 12 hours a day to just 15 minutes a day ( for my shower)

    So I'm nicer, doing more chores, kinder, calmer etc, , I hope she notices. I'm not sure what's going to happen on Sunday evening / Monday morning if I'll be allowed to unlock for work, I kind of hope not. It's a bit more awkward, using the loo, walking, sitting, can be a bit pinchy but it's not been that bad. Hope she wants me nicer still and extends it. She needs to be comfortable with my being locked at work, that's all.

    I'll be sure to let her know my feelings and how my first week of 24-7 chastity has been.
     
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    #2 LesterBallard, May 13, 2022
    Good luck with it
     
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    #3 JaySaysYes, May 13, 2022
    Sounds like she might have found a way to correct your behaviour. Careful what you wish for...
     
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    #4 Jail Bird, May 13, 2022
    Wearing a chastity device 24/7 makes a huge difference in me and how I act.
    I hope your wife sees the benefit for her keeping you locked up
     
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    #5 MsCynsSlaveBoy, May 13, 2022
    Good luck. It’s essential to find a device that is both comfortable to wear and as secure as possible. It sometimes takes some trial and error. I went through 1/2 a dozen b4 I found something that works. Once you go 24/7 you won’t want to go back. Hopefully your wife will agree.
     
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    #6 StubHub, May 13, 2022
    My CK micro only comes of for cleaning and then I use my very roomy small cage.

    It's not punishment to be caged! I feel naked and exposed without being properly dressed.

    Good luck.
     
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    #7 Shaznste, May 13, 2022
    Good luck hope it’s goes well for you both
     
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    #8 mcfeely, May 13, 2022
    Good luck to you. Remember its what you both make of it. If she becomes a raging $%#&@ and your not happy, talk about it. You can always take of the cage and restart or not. They are our wives, not some flawless devine deity. The "sub" is always the one in controll inspite of the crap you read on the internet. Anything else is abuse and possible a crime depending on what country you live in.
     
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    #9 madams-sissysub, May 13, 2022
    Good luck to you! I’m sure it will all work out for the best!
     
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    #10 Fisherman, May 14, 2022
    Usually my wife will tell me the number of days of lockdown to expect as the lock is clicked shut. After giving her a nice O with oral, she told me I will be on lockdown until she gets 23 more O's. My mind pondered her new terms. She usually only wants about 4 orgasms a week, sometimes less. Now I'm looking at 5 weeks minimum til I can experience an erection. Probably longer yet for an O.
     
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    #11 true42, May 16, 2022
    It's kind of weird but I almost never do anything deserving of a punishment now.

    It's almost disappointing :D
     
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    #12 mommyishome, May 16, 2022
    Only a week? She's being nice :)
     
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    #13 handcuffedboy, May 16, 2022
    one week is nothing, i've been locked 43 days out of the last 44, 29 in a row and counting
     
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    #14 JaySaysYes, May 16, 2022
    It starts with a day, then a week, then a month, then 3 months, 6 months,12 months...and then... Let us know haha.
     
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