The frequency of attention

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How often do you get physical attention from your partner?

  1. Daily

  2. Every two or three days

  3. Couple of times a week

  4. Most weekends but not usually during the week

  5. Every weekend

  6. Once a month

  7. Rarely

  8. Only in special occasions

  9. Never

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  1. Guest 6019
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    How often does your partner give you some kind of physical attention. Whether it be a short, fairly vanilla, in cage or out of cage edging or a full session.
     
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    It just depends on what’s going on in our lives. Prior to our new baby it was pretty much every weekend sometimes it would be two weeks in between. Since the baby was born, I’ve only been out of my belt twice since Jan 3rd. Probably didn’t total more than 30 min of out time.
     
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    My Wife will use the penis once or twice a week, mostly Fri-Sun sometime. And I’m allowed to ask for an oil rub once or twice a week, just depends if she feels like it. If she doesn’t feel like stroking it, she may allow me to edge by rubbing it on her bottom for a while.
    As far as just physical affection that’s not penis focused, that’s daily, tons of cuddling, kissing, etc. Of course she gets pussy worship nightly, and on days off it may be multiple times, and occasionally Friday morning before she gets up for work. I always ask if I may wake her up with my tongue early Friday morning, it’s about 50/50 that she allows it lol
     
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    I'm happy to report that my vote was "daily". I usually get to give my wife at least a neck rub every day, and sometimes a full back rub and foot rub, and she usually follows that up with a little ball tickling and maybe a light penis massage. Oral action for her is probably averaging about once a week at this point, but we were going once every second day for a while there. I do get a handjob or blowjob once in a while too (without cumming). We're aiming for 90 days between full orgasms though.
     
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    I also voted daily, but it's not necessarily "sexual" attention daily. Physical, yes. I'd love sexual attention every day, but I can make due with physical attention.
     
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    I get stroked, fondled, squeezed, or teased every day - never get to come.
     
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    I voted daily and monthly, lol. When we are together my Queen loves to at least grab the cage and/or play with me. Im so lucky that it genuinely turns her on.

    Unfortunately she is living in FL now and I am up north so I get a daily text or call, teasingly asking how "her property" is, but weeks between any physical contact. I dont like it, but she loves that it softens my hard shell like butter in the sun.
     
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    Full seasons are rare unless she is letting me out for a deliberate sex session. I get some deliberate nipple teases (for just a few minutes) right before going to sleep on some to most nights. This morning she left for work and grabbed my nipple during our kiss goodbye.

    That's probably why I've logged into CM twice today already.
     
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    Presently we have sex about once per week but thats not every week, and I dont always get to cum (but most of the time I do) I get paddled as well at least once per week or more.

    We are going shortly allocate one night for her pleasure (most of the time I wont cum) and another night for her to have fun with me but with her fully clothed that may involve anything in our toy box which is substantive and may or may not involve ruined or full or no orgasm.
     
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    She likes to remind me with small teases and comments almost daily. Nipple play, fondling, discipline, orgasms for her, and sex, every few days. I am not often allowed to finish.
     
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    I get teased and denied between 2 and 5 times every day, we're retired so we have a lot of time.
     
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