I just need a place I can write my story, what ticks me and what new things happen in my marriage. Today we had nice sex (PIV). My wife let me edge two times. After sex I wore sexy panties. Couple years ago my wife asked me to wear panties twice a week, and honestly after a while I stopped wearing them, except special occasions. I told her today at lunch I was wearing them. She wanted to see them. Then she asked me where I got them from. I told her I have a huge collection from over the years. Than she said, literally: "Than you better wear them every day. I mean it, you BETTER wear them every day." I said: "yes, boss" (she likes that) One of those happy moments in my life
Congrats Now I hope you get rid of yiur male underwear and never look back. And I’m befuddled why you didn’t obey her initially but we all make mistakes so don’t do it again!
Because of resentments and power struggle. The story I wrote and shared in another post gives you an idea Thanks for the encouragement. Not sure I am ready for full time wear of panties. Even my son looked kind of funny at me yesterday when he was with me in the bathroom and I pulled up WHITE panties. Now what about pink or red? What about gym. OK. lets see how this goes. haha. I should have listened to the twice a week. I guess I get what I wish for. Boom.
I am on a honor system. I it is so far the best system for us. Ball trapped devices don't work for me, because one of my testicles gets very painful after few days, and dull pain continues for weeks after removing the device. I have varicocelle, which is like a varicose vein inside the scrotum. Anyways, honor system works quite well, I have good self control, and my wife is horny as fuck, so when I want to sex, I often get it My problem used to be masturbation to porn, where I lost lots of sex energy.
well thats very good then if you can do that cos lots and lots of men cant do it cos they wanting to make mess ever such a lot.
Today I told my wife that I was wearing panties, like she asked me, and showed them to her. She answered "well, at least you get to use them, when you have so many". I was just checking if she was serious about her request, and yep
I wanna share great session during valentines this year couple weeks ago. We had a weekend for ourselves at home, kid being at friends. We had really sweet and connected PIV sex the night before. She had couple orgasms and I got to edge about eight times. Than she made me watch a chick flick with her, which I am very resistant to do. She put me in chastity and said that this is the only way she can make me watch a chick flick with her ;-) Next morning, she wanted to play kinky game with me. She tied my legs, ordered to put a gag harness and blindfold. She instructed me to bend over sofa edge, with my naked ass up, my penis still in chastity. Than she put a lube in my ass, and slowly entered it with one finger, than followed with a dildo. She moved the dildo with her hand, in and out, slowly with twisting motion. I was moaning using my throat. Than she started fucking me really fast and I started to scream into my gag. Funnily the foam gag was muffling more sound than when I was moaning using my throat. It was really intense. The faster she went, the more intense and orgasmic I was feeling. Than she shouted "Who is the boss? Who is the boss" I tried to shouted into the gag "you are", but only heard muffled sounds came out. Hmmmffmmmff. She kept going at fast speed and I had to let go, because it was so intense. I couldn't control it, and than she shouted in wonder: "Something white is coming out of your dick, did you orgasm?" She also shouted "oh, no!" I couldn't talk, just smiled and muffled lightly into the gag. She unstrapped me and ordered to remove my gag, chastity and blindfold. I noticed and cleaned bit of water that came out of my ass after the douche I did earlier in the morning (not sure how to prevent this). She asked me to lay on my back on the mattress, and started to fuck me on top. I was so horny, but not very erected but enjoyed just touching her clitoris with my dick, and her as with my hands. I was building up to orgasm, and she told me I could come. Than she said "but your are not even inside" and started to move away, but I was already almost coming, told her not to move anywhere, and got inside her and had amazing orgasm, after three weeks of teasing, edging and no orgasms. That was pretty hot weekend.
I’m happy you decided to share with us, sounds like a wonderful relationship with some give and take. Keep us posted
Glad you appreciate it. So wearing panties and going to a gym is not a problem. I can always wear ones that look like a mans underwear, but tighter, like boy shorts, but for women. The much bigger issue now, is that some panties are pain the but to wear for a guy, My balls and dick is coming out, some are getting in my crack. I hope my wife doesn't force me wearing g-strings. haha! Also some panties get kind of sweaty. I am used to wearing loose underwear these days. So this is becoming for me a sort of thing like a chastity. Not exactly comfortable, but can live with it, a small reminder who is the boss.
Last week my wife was giving me a hand job, while fucking my ass with dildo in another hand, me laying on my back, legs up on edge of a bed. She said she doesn't want me to come like this now. She said to tell her when I am close. Minutes later I am screaming "I am close!", and she keeps going. I assumed that was a signal I can come, so I started shouting "I am coming!". Boy was I wrong. She wanted me to say "stop", when I am close. She had plans to have me clean house next day before I get orgasm later. She was very upset, and spanked me with a big wooden spoon, which she broke. Than she said that I really pissed her off coming without permission, and she is not gonna fuck me in the as "for a long time". Now that is real punishment for me, if she follows through. I see this as a progress in our FLR relationship. I have been asking her to control my orgasms for several years. She is now realizing how it is beneficial for her, and she is assuming this control, something I love. Though I would post this, because I find it as a great milestone for our relationship, from my perspective. I will ask her what she thinks.
Nice!!!! Bet when you put them on this morning you never dreamed you would be wearing them from now on did ya?? Gotta love it when these moments come out of the blue.
That is right! Totally out of blue. I am still wearing them ...and I started to have favorites. I mostly wear white panties, boy shorts of sorts, so I don't have to explain things to my son or in the gym.
My wife just few minutes after good PIV sex with edging for me: "Well, now that we cannot have kids anyways, what is the point of you coming inside me from now on". I just told her it her choice. Not sure what it will actually mean! I sure like to cum inside her... so hope that can still happen sometimes.