Looking for a keyholder - married couple

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    #1 expsubcpl, Jan 27, 2022
    Hello all - married couple here looking for a keyholder for him. Been playing with chastity for a while and we both enjoy many of the aspects, but she admits to not being the best keyholder. We’re looking either for a keyholder for him to extend the lock-up times and to give away ownership. Happy to chat as well.
     
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    #2 Chaz69, Jan 27, 2022
    How would that would work? If you are currently locked by your external KH and your wife wants PIV sex, what are you supposed to do? If you are looking for longer lock-up times than your wife is comfortable enforcing, but she's willing to go along with, you could just get a kitchen container with a timed lock. Most are only able to be locked for 10 days, but the one below can be locked for 999 hours (41 days).

    https://www.amazon.com/Multi-Purpose-Kitchen-Containers-Addiction-Excessive/dp/B07XP2ZP6P/
     
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    #3 expsubcpl, Jan 27, 2022
    We already have a digital lock box and play with a couple of the more well known apps (ChastiKey and Chaster). To answer a couple of your questions - there’s other ways to please her - and she really likes the effects of chastity - so I imagine we’d still have PIV but maybe less than today - but I guess that would be up to the KH. There is also a powerful dynamic with the power exchange with having a real KH
     
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    #4 M PowerYou, Jan 29, 2022
    Interesting, so a new KH would be able to deny both you and your wife from having PIV. How often on average do you have PIV now?
    Is your profile name because you were both submissive before?
    This could be a very interesting dynamic.
     
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    #5 expsubcpl, Jan 29, 2022
    So a few things wrapped up in that - yes both sub, maybe make more or maybe male just more kinky - hard to say - PIV - she likes that often but the key is having PIV without him having an orgasm- which is what we spend some time practicing (abut currently locked so less of an issue) - it’s a fun dynamic transcended by a very loving relationship
     
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    #6 M PowerYou, Jan 29, 2022
    I also love that, used to be very into the Tantra holding off for a long time or retaining altogether.
    And of course fun practicing - didn't Woody Allen have a line about it, something like "just think about baseball" :)
     
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    #7 NaughtiNatali, Mar 17, 2022
    This sounds really fun. The times I've been lucky enough to hold keys for couples has been a truly unique experience :)
     
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    #8 justswitchin, Apr 11, 2022
    Hi there!

    If you're still looking for a keyholder, take a look at my profile!

    This sounds like a very interesting dynamic and I'd love to take control of his keys. Being in complete control of the frequency of PIV would give me a huge thrill. You'd both need to (separately) convince me that it has been earned / is deserved. :)

    Hope to hear from you!

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    #9 tomf_22033, Apr 11, 2022
    Where are you located?
    It’s difficult when someone is far away. So giving a general direction might make it easier to meet someone a reasonable distance from you
     
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    #10 Guest 6019, Apr 11, 2022
    My wife could, and probably should, lock me longer. She is too soft on me with release, but that's her choice, I'm not sure giving up that choice would help...well help us anyway.

    Might be interesting if it turned her on, and was happy without PIV on her terms. Perhaps permanent chastity is the best option. No keyholder. He'll have to come in his cage or not at all.
     
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    #11 expsubcpl, Sep 8, 2022
    just bumping this - would be interested into talking to a dom couple as well as an option
     
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    #12 Madam Darling, Sep 22, 2022
    This does sound very interesting. Still searching?

    Does she have a profile here, or is this play facilitated by you, alone at this point?
     
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    #13 neddenk, Oct 21, 2022
    Well I would love to be the one to secure your keys. I would need to learn far more of your BOTH, as the wife may be a participant in any keyholding. I would not though have her hide the keys, but moreso be my hands. I have several ideas where you would be locked and the only way for your release would be from me to facilitate your freedom. Perhaps there would be times that you BOTH be in chastity, but that is something else to be thought of.

    Gordon
     
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    #14 MrKeyholder, Oct 27, 2022
    I would love to keep the keys as well if you are still looking for someone. You mentioned your wife is submissive too. I'm willing to keep your keys only when your wife will wear a belt too... We of course need to discuss your wishes.
    Let me know if you're interested
     
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