Just curious about chastity lifestyle. 21 years old here. Looking forward to meeting some people on here. I attached a few photos of myself and my new chastity device. (Cheap one from Amazon) Don’t mind the precum… I leak a copious amount — all of the time, even when soft.
Welcome Justin, so what's your story? Did you self-lock or do you have a girlfriend who did it? What do you think attracted you (or her) to chastity?
I did it myself.. just curious. Right now I’m just locked during the day. Can’t seem to make it a whole night, I get too many erections and I’m up all night with the cage on pulling. just trying to get used to it on during the day. I’ve been doing well during the day. I have it on from 7am - 11:00pm
I'm really curious how a 21 even discovers chastity, let alone buys a cage and tries it on. Conventional wisdom says you should be out there sowing your wild oats, lol. If you're struggling with it overnight, it's possible that the one you got is too big. Most guys tend to round their size up, coz we're guys, right? But with chastity, you soon discover that smaller is better, the reasoning being, nocturnal erections! The thing with nocturnals is, if you give them an inch, they'll take a mile, so if you have any room to grow in your cage, the nocturnals are more uncomfortable, whereas if you're pretty compressed down there, they are much easier to deal with. So maybe try getting a smaller cage? The HT designs are pretty good and you can get Chinese knock-offs pretty cheap. https://www.ebay.com/itm/353581105451
So, some tips for the night time. I find that laying on your front, or at least having your crotch be face down, helps, just use your hand to help position your device so that it's pointing down and then use your body weight to help keep it in position, that should help prevent your erection from causing the device to drag on your balls. And when you get a difficult one, it's good to get up and pee because that tends to deflate the erection.