Her Rule

I wish! Lol. Immune does this occasionally, but she’s become pretty strict while I’m in lock up and keeping me fairly free from PIV…we have a new dual density dildo that’s pretty close to my cock size so she has the “same thing” basically from a feel perspective without having to take me out of the cage - strap it on and do her and she’s happy.

 

i am train to do oral. but my cage dont come off me.

 

What kind of dual density? I'm shopping for a new one.

 

The one we settled on and she likes (although she does like some that are more realistic) is the Straponme line… we have this one https://strap-on-me.us/collections/dildos-suction-cup/products/dildo-double-density-caramel
In the “L” size…it’s pretty close to my normal erect dimensions and she likes it. We also have the same style in the “squirting” version and use a cum lube for when she wants it to look like I was allowed to cum (mind fuck the first time when you see it running out but know it’s not you).

we have a cock sleeve as well she likes but it’s pretty big once it’s on me so we don’t use it as much.

I think there are other good “realistic” ones out there too if that’s her thing.

 

And my “Immune” above was supposed to be “My wife”. No idea how that corrected to that! Lol

 

I rarely am permitted PIV, but when I do its always after She has orgasmed by masterbation. My Wife/KH's preferred way to orgasm is sucking on my uncaged penis while I watch her masterbate. I'm not allowed to cum in her mouth and most of the time I am put back into my cage without relief.

 

My wife wants and likes PIV, sometimes several times a week. Because I loose interest to be intimage or have PIV after orgasm/ejaculation, she allows me to edge several times during PIV, and I get actual release maybe once every two weeks. I am on honor system, no touching or masturbation.

Very rarely, especially if I am in chastity device, she will ask me to satisfy her orally and with chin dildo.

 

Yes usually the same as OP. But she usually will allow me to cum and I'm free till the next morning.

 

I'm kept caged at all times. If I'm unlocked I'm given a ruin. Every 2-3 unlocks she gives me an actual orgasm, usually through PIV but sometimes with a hand job.

Getting oral from her is just not gonna happen unless she uses it to humiliate me, which she has done. Like 'I'll do this for a boyfriend but not for you dear husband, here's just a lick to remind you what you gave up for me (smile) (looks into my eyes) you stupid boy you should have been careful what you wished for'

So far in January I've gotten 3 ruins and 2 full orgasms. The last ruin was so frustrating she didn't realize I'd ejaculated at first. She was particular thrilled with that one. She nailed it just right.

However there's been some extra curricular activity that's gotten her very wound up lately. In other words, I've been spoiled this month.

 

Yes we have done that a few times now. Not easy to get the cage back on lol

 

About 2-3 times a week we’ll have piv and after she orgasms she’ll tell me that’s enough. If it’s Friday or Saturday night, I’m allowed to sleep without the cage and lock up the next morning of course.
She’s been cutting down my orgasms each of the last four months to single digits, and she’s said her goal is 1 orgasm every two weeks and maybe 1 a month whenever she decides to change it up.

 

Oh yes. Twice last week. It’s a bit tricky to sleep afterward.

Sometimes, she just wants me to come. It makes her feel desired, although that’s not a problem in my mind.

 

We do this as well as a treat - learning not to release when enjoying PIV has been an important part of our journey

 

How do you release yourself but not orgasm?

 

Anyone else have similar arraignments?[/QUOTE]

When my KH experienced (for the first time) how I treated her while locked up, her sex drive increased dramatically. We agreed to a one month trial period. After that we would decide if we wanted to continue. She was too nice to make me wait for more than a few days so she drew a card. The first two were low numbers but the third was a 10. Before she let me cum on the 10th day she said, "After the 4th or 5th day the way you have been treating me is amazing, and it just got better and better. I love it! We are going to continue this and you will not be allowed to cum in any less than 5 days from now on." What amazed me was: she went from wanting sex about once every 4 or 5 days to wanting it almost every day and at times in the middle of the night. The process was always the same. Warm her up with oral, then PIV until she had a couple O's then back to oral to give her a grand finale. I could then do PIV until I got close, then ask permission. From the start she made me wait 2 weeks and not long after that it was once a month.

 

No such rules here, I’m not allowed piv anymore.

 

For most of our long marriage I was only allowed to put my penis in her after she was already pleasured by my tongue, fingers, and her huge dildo. Then she stopped allowing that except on very rare occasions, and then she finally decided a few years ago that I will never have PIV sex again.

The idea of putting it inside her but not being allowed to cum is fascinating to me. I don't think it could possibly work though, because so many times I have cum before I even put it inside or as I was pushing in.

 

I wish I had the exact same arrangement. She loves PIV and gets off from it. I’ll admit I love it too, but I want nothing more than to be occasionally denied an orgasm while having PIV. She always demands that a cum, but I really wish she’d deny me from time to time.

 

My KH, use to demand I cum with PIV, but then hated my lows. So now I'm always denied, its better that way, she always knows best.

 

Back in the day when PIV was allowed, ah so long ago!
Rule was oral orgasms for her first, then after PIV as many oral orgasms as she wanted.
Refusing the latter caused months of Chastity Denial for me.

Now it's only the latter for me. PIV hasn't happened in years. But the rule still is that anything released by me is consumed by me.
This year new rule is that I only can orgasm while locked in Chastity. Only happened once so far this year. New Years Eve I was blind folded and rolled one 6 sided dice. Mistress noted the number and that's the only number of orgasms I'm allowed for the year. I have no idea if it was 1 or 6. Once their used, no more till next year.

 

I’m really hoping to get to this point. But she makes the rules.

 

As this has gone on, I really haven't been suffering quite so much from the lows. We had great sex last night, and I'm already through the low spot. It used to last a few days.