Rules.... what's your favourite ground rule?

Interestingly I have only made one unprompted request of my Mistress when i first met her. That she take total control of me. She has done exactly that during my ongoing training. Some might say be careful what you wish for because it might not be what you expect. I quite often face the unexpected, but i have never been happier. She who owns me makes all the rules. I obey or else.

 

I think ejaculation is not possible chastity...

 

It's absolutely possible.

 

I certainly have been made to ejaculate in chastity on a fairly regular basis

 

U bet, your mileage may vary, it all depends on how deep you want to wade into the pool

 

Speaking of vibes, I forgot to mention, most of our sexual intimacy involves me caressing her as she uses the doxy wand. She finishes herself and I put the toy back in the drawer. Not so much a routine, as much as it’s a normal activity of our sex life.

 

One of our core steps in our journey was panty play, and it was one of the first things my wife latched onto as a tangible way to seize authority and illustrate my place in our home. One of our steps along the way was that she discovered how much I like wearing panties, so she decreed that I could only wear panties (then only for some playtimes) if I was also caged. Over time, they went together more and more…lockups lengthened and became more frequent, until she declared that she liked the dynamic they created, and wanted my cage and panties to be full-time.
So still today, my favorite daily rule is that cage must always go with panties.

 

I just saw on another thread, if you allow your sub to cum in or on you they should lick it up. I'm sure everyone else on here will agree just how humiliating and demeaning that is, and you don't have to move a muscle,unless you want to sit on his face and really enforce it.

 

LockedTower's idea of having him propose rules is a great one. You of course can accept or dismiss, or modify, any you wish, but by having him do that, you'll get ideas of what really turns him on, and how far he may want to go.

As for us, our real rules are simple: "She has final say about when or if the cage comes off, and when or if I get to orgasm. I have no say at all in either, and she may keep me locked as long as she wishes."

But we did write a few out (some I suggested a la LockedTower's idea) mostly to let her feel comfortable with what she could do, but some because it's hot to spell it out sometimes.

1 - I am required to be locked in the cage 24/7 unless she has specifically unlocked me for some reason
2 - I am required to immediately lock back up afterwards unless she specifically says otherwise
3 - I am not allowed to orgasm without her permission and must warn her if I am getting close.
4 - I am not allowed to ask or hint at being unlocked. She will decide if that needs to happen. (If there's some medical or hygiene issue, I tell her about it and she decides).
5 - I must submit to any teasing or torture that she wishes to inflict on me.
6 - Teasing and ball torture are how she rewards me when she thinks I deserve it. Orgasms are for when she thinks she would like me to do that.
7 - I am not allowed any pubic hair.
8 - I must strip naked immediately if she commands it (rarely happens, we have kids in the house).
9 - I am not allowed to refuse any sexual demands she makes.

 

My wife's wand is her go to toy too, she seems to have dispensed with my cock now and just likes my thumb in her pussy and me sucking her nipples whilst she orgasms with her wand, my pleasure when i'm allowed id tongueing her ass, which i do loveto do, makes me feel very humiliated and submissive.

 

It sounds like you have a sissy on your hands, loves the frills, hates how humiliating they are but gets totally turned on by it all, time to add more! Can we see photos please?