I'm making a punishment jar. I need punishment ideas! Every type of punishment you can think of physical and mental. Please and thank you.
You do know there are two sections on this site that deal with exactly this right? Scroll down and click on humiliation or pain and punishment.
Discipline and punishment are essential to the FLR. Sometimes a stern lecture by your KH can be very effective to show who's in charge. She can question you about why she is HoH or have you repeat back to her tasks or commands she might tell you. All the while, using "ma'am" when referring to your dominant partner. Language can be an incredible turn on. You could combine pegging or paddling with strict language and questioning : Who’s the boss of this ass?" You are, Alpha. "What’s my role!?! " Breadwinner, decision maker, dominant partner, HoH. "What’s your role?" Subservient househusband. Love toy. "Who wears the pants?" You do, totally. "How do you address me?" Ma'am. “What if you don’t like one of my decisions?” I say, yes ma’am! "Do you want to be roughed-up tonight?" Yes, every night. "What’s my name?" Alpha. "What’s your name?" beta. "Are you my wife?" Yes, I am your obedient wife. "Who’s in charge?"You are, ma'am.
That can be such a strong technique psychologically to make someone speak out loud what they may already be thinking, or to repeat and affirm what has been acknowledged before, it reinforces and increases the level of belief or acceptance. Religion uses it and the "call and response" in gospel music and preaching makes a strong emotional connection to the message, almost like brainwashing. One of the hottest times I've had in a BDSM session used that; standing in front of the group, naked after several hours replying to prompts like who I am and what I am and need, made a very deep impact on me.
My KH is currently punishing me for a misdemeanour yesterday - so far this has included me sleeping on the floor and being denied any touching of her whatsoever. Despite my attempts to make amends this morning, she merely flicked me hard on the scrotum before sending me away. Not sure how long the first two punishments will last for, or other ideas she’ll be implementing during today.