The bible made me submissive

don't discuss the bible unless you have actually read it.
If being chaste helps or causes me to love my wife better then I'm all in! I still have to figure out why she is not

 

you are right in many of the things you say.

Especially as I don’t usually agree with you but this time I mostly do.

It always surprises me with anyone that chooses to live there life in public but you say it helps you both so good luck.

I don’t do religion’s ,gods or any other such things in any shape or form but agree we all must choose our ways individually and as long as others respect our individual choices and don’t try to change and influence in those ways all is good.

Especially as those that follow in all kinds of religions have the worst track record for doing so it’s nice to see no one trying to convert another so far at least anyway.

 

It's important to be respectful online or in person.

For a website like this, if you don't like cuckolding or pegging, move on and keep your distaste to yourself. You don't need to post about how stupid or disgusting you may think it is.

Likewise, if for some reason you don't like religion or some specific religious denomination, do yourself a favor and keep that opinion to yourself. We don't need to see you point out that you don't like something. You aren't changing anyones opinion on the topic, but likely changing their opinion about you.

Thank you OP, for sharing your story. And many thanks to Lucy for being an outstanding moderator. She's light handed when she needs to and heavy when she needs to. I am so impressed at the community she has here.

 

very well said!

 

As I pointed out before, there is no other site like this one. It is a unique treasure. Irony here. I hope I am not hi-jacking his thread.

 

Look...even though you indicated you didn't want to get into a debate about religion, you then proceeded to write a voluminous letter discussing religion ad nauseum. You opened the door so you shouldn't be surprised by some of the responses and it kind of feels like you're surreptitiously using this forum to "preach". People on this site just want to share experiences relating to chastity. We don't need to hear about your chaste experience wrapped in a Halo. It's not helpful. So, if this is what you want to post, then expect some flack.

 

What the OP wrote is extremely helpful! I've think very much the same way as he does, and am disappointed that laketyme and others cant keep to themselves and allow a discussion to happen without them barging through the "door" and "surreptitiously" derailing the tread, casting judgment (voluminous), declaring worth ("its not helpful") and deciding what chastity can and cannot be related to.

Laketyme and like minded folks, Christians are welcome here to!

 

Proud to be chaste, thank you for sharing your story it feels good to not feel alone.

My Christian faith is the only thing that led me into the Chastity world. After 4 years it has been a slow journey toward finding a long term functioning device. After difficulties since my teenage years however even the few short term lock ups have made marriage, sexual purity/ submission to my wife and the resulting confidence some of the best feelings I can think of.

 

That's a great answer. I find anything that my Mistress gets turned on by, turns me on by default. She might just walk past me looking at porn, or a shop, or here and see something and say "ooh! That's really hot! I'd like to try one of those out on you" and within 30 minutes we are ordering more stuff online!

 

Proud to be chaste, has your wife taken to putting you in chastity? Could you talk a bit about her take on all this? I'd love to be a fly on the wall as you lead a bible study on this topic! I wonder if more men or women would attend?

 

Thank you and your husband for sharing all this! He, you and I seem to to be thinking alike, I have come to think of my sex drive as a gift God gave to my wife for HER enjoyment and for years I have been taking matters into my own hands, sometimes just because I didnt want the work of pleasing her, or she had made me mad so I was.... anyway. The more I think about masturbation, my marriage, and Gods view of it the more I think I need to stop, use the energy to pursue my wife, and find my satisfaction in her pleasure. I to think its romantic, I want so much to give her the gift of my chastity (the changes it makes to a man are a long list!), but it has not clicked with her she seems indifferent. I will admit that I find the idea of submitting my sex life to her to be totally intoxicating, God gives good desires!

What got you on board with locking him up?

 

Maybe a better way to phrase the question is what was your aha! moment?

 

Not baptized, never attended a church service. But! We studied Genesis when covering creation mythology. Love the story. It seemed dumb until we really looked into it. A tree. An apple. Yadda ya.

It really reveals or puts a grasp on what we understand as serving a purpose. If something does not serve as it was created for, we look at it as bad/evil. A chair missing a leg. We can't sit on it, we'll fall, it's a bad chair, it's evil!

So believe in God or not, in the story, at least, as he is the creator, created man to love God. But can you appreciate someone constructed to love you if they do not have a choice? No. That is why in the story he gave man free will. I created you, I gave you a choice. I will test you. Do not eat from this tree.

And well we all know the rest. The Bible mentioning chastity-of course they didn't mean a holy trainer v4 or whatever number they're on now. But one poster mentioned pleasures of the flesh. This is where I think chastity may actually be at odds with the Bible, a device on you is kind of a pleasure of the flesh.

But if you're not religious, there is nothing to worry about. And books are great, just because you read them doesn't mean you believe everything. Thanks for sharing your story. Keep reading and do what you feel is right.

 

Male chastity gives the wife a choice!

 

Well on topic of submission it's similar. In the story, love is only appreciated when submission is given with free will. Chastity is submission but kind of a sacrifice of free will once it's on. Which is cool. It's that first giving over that's really special. Kind of what I was driving at. I can see what the OP means by submission in the bible. While it is about submission to the God figure, in this case you're worshipping a person. Which is against Bible. But I'm not religious. It's. I get it. It's cool. Like it.

 

Say WHAT!? Being in a chastity cage, even the most secure device possible does not mean a man is worshiping his keyholder! I get the connection, but I think its the wrong perspective. I know male chastity can be many colors, but what the OP is talking about (OP, please correct me if I'm wrong) is a man sacrificing his insatiable momentary pleasure for his wifes long term well being. God is very clear that a man is to love his wife like Christ loved the church, if Christ surrendered Himself to murderers than I'll gladly surrender my sex drive to my amazing wife.

 

I think you're misunderstanding me completely.
I'm not a worshipper or practicer of the faith.
But in that ideology, marriage is for man and woman to become in Union as one entity. Not my ideology, just in that faith. In that faith, would your dedication to her be as meaningful because you wear a device that keeps you from orgasming without her? Or would it mean more that you have the choice but don't do it? Again. Not my faith. But! I think it's pretty solid. Do as you will. Distraction from the point. The Bible is about submission but not wearing chastity for your wife. Who cares? Live your life lol these aren't my beliefs just from what we've studied.

 

Chaste in a biblical sense is a different meaning. Now we have devices which is not what it meant. I mean lol I don't really care. But! Here's what's crazy. Some people do.

I stumbled upon some kind of Christian Chastity forum a little while ago and whatever sect they were, they were discussing cb6000's as perfect solutions. Not only that! They wanted to order them and lock up their son in high school. I can't make this up.

My point is that to lock up and submit to someone, free will duh but! You're placing them on a pedestal (false idol) and admitting you are not equal.

That's what hops back to the first point. Chastity wearing is not justified by the Bible. Chastity as a spiritual practice is, if not married.

Regardless, again I don't really care, I'm not Christian. but there is a difference. lol have fun with it!

 

Awesome. Well it's like, I can study Harry Potter but doesn't mean I want to be a wizard. It's interesting to see where people come from.

Regardless-the topic of bible, Genesis, and submission interested me. Then there's this. “Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Saviour."

Yikes.

I don't know it just seemed like a peculiar topic. I wasn't really sure that those stories could really encourage what is going on here.

It kind of makes sense, kind of doesn't. But if it works for you it works.