I am Joel1961 from Austin. I like being in chastity, and I want frequent tease and dental, but I want to be allowed to cum around 3 times a month. I am able and happy to give my KH numerous orgasms. I am not interested in being humiliated though I wouldn’t mind the occasional hard paddling. Also walking on a nude beach wearing my cage accompanied by my KH would be exciting.
Welcome @Joel1961 and thanks for the introduction. Sounds like you need to have a chat with your keyholding girlfriend? I’m sure others here have discussed the nude beach situation so have a search using the excellent Search facility. Enjoy the site and maybe suggest your KH join too?
You have this all wrong. Stop focusing on what you want. Focus on what she wants. Your only want should be to give her pleasure. From there you will get more than you ever desire.
Hello and welcome to Chastity Mansion. It's always about your KH/Owner never you, you need to remember that.
Woah! Stop right there! If you really want "chastity, and tease and denial" then you need to change your mindset about "being allowed to cum", otherwise you'll just end up being unsatisfied with both being denied, and with being allowed to cum, as each nullifies the effect of the other. If you want to let your keyholder be in control, then that's what you have to do. Let her be in control. It's difficult to get your head around to start with, but "being allowed to cum" is not the same as "having more sex". Ever since my wife increased her control of how infrequently I orgasm, we've had much more sex, more often, not less. Don't be afraid to let her make the decisions, you'll both discover pleasures you never knew existed.