I asked the wife if we could "make out" a little today...she obliged and I think she thought I mean I wanted sex. I had to reinforce with her a little that when she asks me to lock up, its up to her. I'm still going to hit on you (I said), but where it goes is up to you. After that she seemed more determined that "ok this isn't going too far then" ... I think that when we treat the device like D/S...she takes it like she is in control...now that we are into "real life" mode she kind of feels obligated to make sure I'm getting what I want if possible. Its all ok, just learning and adjusting. We've been hitting on each other, being close, talking, kissing etc around the clock and hopefully she is enjoying that. We went a few months of nothing and thats when she reintroduced the cage. -wec...
I think that cuddling and "making out" are some of my favorite things to do when my partner is locked up. We do this frequently throughout the day actually and I usually take it to mild frustration for him. It is lovely knowing that I have such an effect on him.
I want this so bad. The affection, intimacy, the infatuation. All that with out the pressure to actually have penetration sex.