I'm not sure how the site is holding up (CM), but thought I'd stop in. After like a 2+ year hiatus my wife got the idea to lock me up a few weeks ago around my birthday....and...we've kept at it. So far she seems way more in tune with how it improves my attitude and attentiveness. Without a lot of detail...I think it helps that our marriage is in a really solid spot and she can be more comfortable trying out new things. We've made love a couple of times since she asked me to lock up and its been absolutely mind-blowing for both of us. She's really been wanting more / better sex....so...here it is! She's been very specific locking me back up either right after sex or the next day. I'm trying to be my best for her with both my attitude and working out (she likes big arms) and I hope she sticks with it. Wish me luck. me