Emergency keys, and why I don’t have one

my keyholder wears the keys to my cage on a necklace. No emergency key are available when we are apart. If it’s a real emergency, the lock can be cut off.

 

That leads me to hot things your keyholder has said

 

I have a spare sealed in an envelope. I used it once while out of town when I partially popped out of the base ring due to some extreme work contortions. I had to use it to remove and reinstall. It had a nice note from her in the envelope.

 

That's only half a story... What did it say?

 

Well, that’s between me and my mistress

 

Scary situation, but strangely erotic

 

Was it not possible to source replacement keys?

 

I am a believer in an emergency key. But it would have to be kept in a way that it is obvious it was accessed. As someone said above, emergency preparedness is unnecessary until you have an emergency. Personally, I don't need my teenagers knowing I am in a cage. Or some kind of issue that requires me to pass through a metal detector, need an MRI, etc etc.

The laminator is a pretty good option. The way we have done it is fold the key into some paper and duct tape it. No way I can get that out without ripping all the paper so she would know, and I better have a very good reason why I opened it. I think we will re-do it shortly though and use the cover of a magazine or newspaper or something with a date on it. The duct tape will rip that to shreds and there is not way I can replicate it because I won't have access to a newspaper from months or years ago. That could be done in conjunction with the laminator as long as it is done so the paper would rip if the key were accessed.

 

There is no emergency requiring the removal of a tube only (non-ball trap) PA chastity device that requires the speed of removal necessitating a key. Therefore no emergency key needed or allowed. No ER in the country is incapable of efficiently cutting of your titanium wedding ring or your PA pin.

 

I think the key was on the limit of thickness that the laminator could handle.

 

Also, if you have an emergency key, in an actual emergency, you are likely to be incapacitated, or else overly focussed on it.

 

We kept an emergency key for our first few cages.
Our new cage has no emergency key available to me.
Up until now never even noticed we didn't bother with one until seeing this post.
I guess neither one of us considered it necessary anymore.
I suppose there is no real reason to have one.

 

> My Mistress has always said that chastity is not about pain.

I agree, but I'm enough of a pain slut that I don't freak out when I get some. I've only been locked 24/7 (or nearly so) for six days, so last night I had three of the most gloriously painful erection attempts. This morning the back of the scrotum is tender but I will treat it with vaseline and consider it a bit of a sacrifice for my wife/mistress.

 

I just rediscovered this thread after an "interesting" experience the past few days that got me questioning if I should carry an emergency key.

I was away on vacation this week... and ended up in the ER with extreme lower back pain and nausea. Turned out I had my first kidney stone.

We were 200 miles from home with my adult kids. Thankfully they stayed out of the ER so just my wife was in the ER with me. They took urine, blood and made me take a CT scan...

I never mentioned the chastity device and only found the attached mention of it it in the scan report.

The tech who did the scan was male. The Dr who read the scan and wrote the report was female as was the PA, the ER doctor and the RN. None of them, thankfully mentioned or referred to the device. I dont known if anyone other than the one who read the scan and wrote the report even noticed or cared about it.

But the whole experience does leave me second guessing myself about traveling again without the means to remove the device.

See attached snipped from the CT scan..

 

I'm locked in a PA device that will not come off without seriously mangling my penis. I never travel by air, so no need for it to come off. Wife has both keys, which I haven't seen since September.

 

Thanks for sharing this! I thought metal was supposed to cause practical problems during CT scans?

 

Wife had me throw away all extra keys she has only key no emergency keys what so ever

 

It's a definite blocker for MRIs, not for CT scans as long as the metal doesn't obscure the area of the body they are interested in.

 

I can add is that in no way was there at all any sexual arousal at the thought of being discovered during any of it. The pain was just too great.

It's only after the fact, now, that thoughts of whether or not they were even aware and if so what they thought about it, me, my wife amd our relationship, come into play.

At the time my only thought regarding it was just that I can't remove it, I need treatment, and if they ask I'll just downplay it, but HOPED that the subject didn't come up - in part because, before being diagnosed, I had a fear that what I had might be a kidney or UT infection that the device somehow contributed to. If that turned out to be true then I wouldn't have been able to avoid the conversation and it might mean and end to chastity. So I might be one of the first people to be glad to have (just) a kidney stone! (It Beats cancer too but I didn't go there in my thoughts at the ER)

 

I hold my partner's key on a necklace and the spare/emergency on my keyring. There are other emergency keys in the nightstand but we've not needed them.

 

Ah right. That makes sense.

 

She keeps a spare in her desk in her office. We've been at this for several years and I've never need it. I travel quite a bit now and am always locked (resin cage for air travel).

 

This is the main reason I carry an emergency key in a plastic tube with security seal securing the key.

I could only imagine the extra stress you wearing your beloved device may have caused you during your kidney stone event.

I would not like to complicate treatment in a genuine ER situation & make medical staff’s job harder than it needs to be.

I love the idea of not having an emergency key & these days actually rarely have it with me as it’s in my real wallet which I don’t carry with me very often thanks to Apple wallet. However, I don’t want to go too far down the rabbit hole from reality & contribute to an avoidable personal medical situation.

For the record I wear a Rigid Chastity Halfshell with PA security that can’t fall off & is very comfortable 24/7 with 2 weekly check & cleans under supervision from my Wife/KH. Love the lifestyle, living the dream. Good luck to all.

 

I have gone a long time without an emergency key and never thought much about it. With travel now, and age I started thinking of the "what if". Being in a stainless and titanium device, it doesn't come off without the key.

This got me thinking, and with a 3d printer sitting right next to me, I printed a "For Emergency Only" slim keyholder. Pausing the print in the middle and placing the key inside and continuing the print, resulting in the only way someone could get to the key is breaking the print open thus destroying it.

My wife signed the back of it (my suggestion) just to show I didn't print a new box. She is happy to know when I go out of town, I can slip it in my pocket or bag just in case. I have never had a key but, it makes her feel better that we have a fall back if there is a situation. I did this more for her than myself, figuring hospitals have seen worse.lol But, 3d printers make anything possible.