Hello everyone. Just doing a brief introductory post. I’m kind of a newbie when it comes to chastity. At least as far as long term locking is concerned. I’ve done some self locking but I’ve come to realize that without an actual key holder I’m prone to caving in prematurely and releasing myself when I really rather wouldn’t be. Because of this I’ve kind of stopped the self locking stuff until I can find such a person. Very interested in getting back into the swing of things though. My goal is really less of one about the topic as a fetish but rather mostly about improving myself in various ways, though of course it is a balance lol. I do find the loss of control intriguing, if not terrifying.
Welcome to the group, I can relate to the issue of self locking, it can be very easy to stop when ever you like. The real issue for myself is to remember why I want to be locked and convince myself that there is a goal to achieve and releasing myself is a fail. So far I’m 29 days into a goal of staying locked until the new year. I have removed the cage three times for a clean and shave, but then it’s back on. I hope you find help in our group, it’s quite amazing
Yeah man, it's tough. And I always feel really awful about it after the fact, like I've let myself down. I need to somehow channel up some much needed discipline. Knowing me though I'd still end up caving, at SOME point. I guess perseverance is key here? Again though, I think in my case a key holder or even key holding service is what I really yearn for/maybe even legitimately need. Man keeps cheating himself, strip him of his ability to cheat right?. I guess that might be considered an easy way out on some level, but I've always been the kind of person who needs strict structure. It's also like, jumping into the deep end of the pool without those little floaty things. Perhaps not the best idea, but sink or swim, right. I feel as though I'm the kind of person who unless forced to adapt, will never advance. So yeah. in any case, thanks for the feedback, it's much appreciated. And 29 days? That's awesome dude! Keep it up! Hit those milestones! Hopefully one day I'll be able to as well.
Hi and welcome, lots of great information here, and hope you find what your looking for. Self locking takes commitment, before October I was an addicted chronic masturbator edger, i was determined to accomplish Locktober, which besides removing for cleaning I did, and now cant see it any other way, self locked for 87 days, set your mind to it, you will love it
It might be a good idea for any self-locker who lacks discipline to buy a kitchen safe locking container, which you can set for up to 10 days at a time. Unless, of course, 10 days is not enough. https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00E9J3MLM/