New Domme Journey

Thanks for the encouragement and advice. Our relationship still feels new and is fairly young at just over a year. We keep growing as individuals and as a couple. Looking forward to the journey.

 

Hopefully she will keep being amazing as you both continue. Each journey is unique and goes at its own pace. I'm so glad my partner is patient, encouraging, loving and supportive so that any bumps or slow downs are worked through with love and understanding.

 

My partner and I have taken another step in our journey this week - combined our households into one. He is currently not in a device but we are still practicing chastity. He has been on the honor system since last Sunday and will continue until this evening. The move has taken most of our energy and time. We are looking forward to time together this weekend.

The best part of the move is finally being together on a regular basis.

 

Thank you

 

I'm not good at being "cruel" either. I tend towards being a gentle, affectionate domme. But I do enjoy being in control and have always leaned that way.

For us the chastity is only a part of the kink. But I like it because of the control. I am learning and growing in the other areas of kink that we are playing in also but the chastity is the main part at the moment.

 

Joining households has been a good but tiring experience. We've still got plenty to do but I am enjoying waking up each morning together. We haven't had much time for play this past week but are looking forward to some time soon.

My partner has been out of his cage for almost a week but still practicing chastity. I have enjoyed a bit of tease and denial a few mornings. It is better than before. Love him leaving the bedroom and having an election that he can do nothing about while he gets ready to go to work.

 

I am being very selfish and loving the new living arrangements. Everyone is still adjusting and it isn't easy, but I love having everyone in one place.

Besides the basics I really enjoy having mornings and evenings with my partner/sub. More play time, more tease time and plenty of denial. Plus attention and adoration.

We are trying to get into a regular routine with tasks and expectations. Still a work in progress. Work schedules, kids, holiday stuff are all mixing in too. Good thing we have been able to keep communicating through it all.

 

My partner/ sub has been out of chastity since our play session Friday night. Keeping to our previous schedule/ routine has not been easy.

I am hopeful that this week will bring us to a routine close to "normal" after the combined houses. We are still adjusting to being together every day. We both love it but kids, pets and jobs are not as adjustable.

I will be getting back to giving tasks, challenges and being sure he is locked, teased and denied regularly. More opportunities to grow together.

 

Had a lovely play session last night. I am still happily feeling the effects this morning. We are getting back to a routine which is great.

It is not an easy transition for any of us and some days are less than fantastic, like this morning. But knowing that we are working on the situation helps. So does knowing how loved and fulfilled each of us feels.

 

This week has been filled with ups and downs. It is not always easy getting families to mesh together. But we are working on it.

There was plenty of teasing and denial this week and especially during the weekend. I am getting more in the groove of the denial portion. I love PIV and usually have subby out of his cage often. But we have been trying new ways to satisfy me. I love exploring.

 

I'm glad you and your hubby are enjoying reading about our journey. It has definitely been hectic and a bit exhausting combining families and houses. I'm thankful that we are both in it for the long haul and deal with everything with that in mind.

That sounds lovely and I may try that very soon. I love the idea of being so intimate and calm. Could use some of that at the moment.

 

The holidays have been busy but we've also enjoyed some quiet time as a family. My partner and I have also enjoyed some play time. Not easy to do with very little alone time.

Last night was our most recent play time and we thoroughly enjoyed it, or at least I did. Had some fun with restraints and teasing then PIV till I was satisfied. Subby has been out of his cage due to some irritated skin, which is healed now. We will be trying a different cage this weekend. But I'm getting as much enjoyment as I want from PIV until then.