Many of you here know my story. Briefly, my wife and I stumbled upon male chastity and keyholding a little over 5 years ago, when we were searching for something to revive our intimacy, which had dwindled to almost nothing after 6 kids and 35 years of marriage. I went thru several cages (as most of us do) until I found the Evotion Bijou. Paired with a frenum piercing, it has turned out to be the perfect cage for me. (us) It's very comfortable and very secure at the same time. Then, just over 3 years ago, we settled into a pattern of unlocking once a week for cleaning/inspection, which lasts about 10 minutes, before re-locking. Without really intending to, we'd fallen into the equivalent of permanent chastity. We both love it, and have no plan to change anything until one of us dies. I haven't had a penile-stimulated orgasm (but a number of anal/pegging "orgasms") since then, or even an unlocked erection. Which leads to the next episode in our story: recently, my beautiful wife/KH was looking online and found a piece about "permanent chastity" here: https://malechastitylifestyle.net/the-reality-of-permanent-chastity/ After reading it, she decided that it would be fun to make our KH/chastity relationship official, ie, to create some kind of documentation or ceremony. So, two nights ago, we did it! We (she) declared from that moment forward, I would not be released from my cage ever again, except for my weekly cleaning or a medical emergency. In preparation for this, I had taken off my cage for my regular cleaning, and she held onto it while reading this declaration. (which she wrote and printed on paper in a very elaborate mediaeval-appearing script): "Upon signing this document, Dr MBogo agrees to be in permanent chastity, with NO unlocking, with the exception of circumstances stated below. I (my wife/KH) will hold the key and will have complete control of our sex lives. This affidavit constitutes a formal contract, and will remain in force until I (the Keyholder) or Dr MBogo dies. If either party willingly and knowingly violates this agreement without consent of the other, it will be considered null and void." (Can you tell she's an attorney? LOL) We both signed the document, and then darkened the lights in our bedroom. I was instructed to light candles which surrounded us a small circle. She then had me put my cage in it's proper place, minus the lock. She took out a Bible (yes, she was really into this) and had me swear with my hand on it that I would remain locked for life, sand obey all her orders, so help me God. She then put the lock/key into the appropriate slot, turned the key, and removed it with an evil (but highly erotic) chuckle. Her next instructions: "You will now pour Super Glue into the locking mechanism," which I did without hesitation or complaint. (don't worry-we already have the solvent for Superglue and had tried it out before locking me). I was then instructed to join her in bed and service her as long as she desired-which ended up being quite a while! This little "ceremony" turned out to be so much fun! Obviously it was largely symbolic (we've already used the solvent and successfully unlocked and re-locked the cage) but it did serve to reinforce our relationship and acknowledge that we have matching intentions regarding chastity, which we had not really stated in the open to anyone, not even each other. I would encourage anyone contemplating indefinite("permanent") chastity to do something like this. It's a very satisfying and highly enjoyable step forward in this lifestyle.
Sounds very promising and erotic. I think when i retire i may do something similar to this, will be much easier to do when i dont have to work
Agreed-i wouldn't have done it even 10 years ago. Now, my professional duties have lightened considerably, and I am likely to retire completely in another year or two. I could see going even deeper after that-maybe part or full time feminization? We've talked about it, and she's done my makeup a couple ofttimes at home just for fun.
Congratulations We did a formal ceremony a few years back with her femdom group. It was erotic, having another woman read the agreement and then us reciting our vows. We both signed the agreement. The 10 ladies present clapped as I kneeled and kissed my Goddess/wife’s hand and thank her for taking complete control over me sexually for life. After 3 years, my wife has never wavered from keeping me permanently locked. But has now moved me to almost permanent orgasm denial as well.
Congrats on your new chapter in this thing called life. I hope your journey is successful and look forward to hearing about it
Interesting read in that article. Seems odd as I clicked on some other articles on the side an the site won't take me to those, only the one you shared.