Female led relationships in public

We are not in a true FLR like most here. I tend to be a little shy and non-confrontational so if a situation arises when we are out somewhere she handles it. She deals with confrontation often in her job and does it well. Most times the proprietor just quietly deals with her and she usually wins. Once in a while there will be someone that will look at me like I am "pussy whipped." Not a big deal. I know our strengths and weaknesses.

 

My madam acts the same in public as in private, and she shows she is in charge. She always refers to me as slave, sub, or cuck ect, She always walks in front and I follow, I carry her purse and or the shopping basket. When we are shopping just for her, such as cosmetics, clothes ect, when we get to the checkout madam will take the items out the basket, (just to double check there all ok) and put them on the counter, and will ether say pay up cuck, or pay slave, or just click her fingers at me, and walk off leaving me to pack the items and pay.
The one time she clicked her fingers and walked off at the clarins counter after selecting some expensive face cream, the girl serving could just about hold in her snigger.

 

Sounds liker there are more than a few in this situation.

 

For the most part, we are in a 50-50 relationship dealing with all of our daily activities. She only becomes dominant when we are going to play or when one of her GFs come over for private fun. We throw or attend an occasional party with our friend and many of them are for the ladies pleasure. In those occasions, all the ladies are dominant.

 

A while back when visiting Mistress on my holiday, we ended up going to a very nice restaurant near the town were Mistress lives for dinner.

We'd had a bit of a tough day and Mistress, I could tell was a bit annoyed at me - I hadn't showed her sufficient attention during the day and it turns out she was a bit put out.

we'd just ordered the main course when Mistress handed me something silky in my hands - it was a pair of her panties - she said " you know what to do " ,and I want picture proof in 5 minute's. Well suffice to say I went to the gents and put those panties on ina flash - I was already in my chastity device - the whole event was thrilling yet embarrassing, especially having to send Mistress a photo of me wearing the very tight high leg briefs. Our flr is very discreet but equally Mistress never lets me forget who's boss .

 

Subtle moves like the one she did with you are always the best.

 

My Wife is usually in charge of situations like this. I stand on the background look half angry and half bored. The mood we give of is "Deal with me or you will have to deal with my Husband"

It our version of Good Cop / Bad Cop.

 

Some simple public things we do are as follows. Open my car door, pull out my chair, open doors as I enter or leave, carry my bags, put on and take off my shoes, I order for him, I let my girlfriends boss him around and so on and so on. Those are just some basics. I also make him wear something that shows it publicly like a t-shirt or jewelry that says what type of relationship we’re in. I also wear jewelry like an anklet or necklace.

 

Okay, I know I'm being pedantic, but there IS no "Greek letter Æ". Which letter do you mean?

 

Please tell me his name is Matt ...

Please please please oh the universe needs this to be balanced!

 

Unfortunately not.

 

... because "Welcome Matt" would have been awesome!!!

Oh well, one can wish ...

 

I think you are right Madame, a FLR should be displayed in public too but always being inside the legal and morality boundaries

 

I would take care of you and do everything for you Mistress

 

Oh those keys again

 

Love you mistress

 

Woow

 

My partner takes great pleasure in public, especially when ordering food in making sure the attendant knows who is in charge.

Once she picked up a wooden spoon in ikea and started spanking me really hard while I tried to flee, there were at least 3 women who turned and giggled at me, when she said "get back here". My face went red.

We work in the same DIY store and she makes me carry her purchases (usually plants) out with her to her car in the middle of my shift, no one argues with her.

The list could go on.

 

Would not work that way for us. Maybe for that we are still too much into traditional gender roles. And no - neither of us would have it any other way.

If you take this hotel example: Were my wife on her own or really upset about it she would take care of it herself in short order, but usually beeing together I would be the one making sure everything runs smooth.

In general seeing us in public you might not realize that we are in a FLR. Yes, I usually woul open the doors for her or pull out her chair, but most people call that just old fashined...^^
She does not boss me around or orders for me at a restaurant (ok, actually she did once..^^). Something like this might be complicated due to our jobs, but it is not our way anyway - even beeing alone.

Looking closer you might see something through though. Would we be at a party f.e. and she would like to go home I would never object to her asking me about it or let her go home alone unless she would have indicated herself that I should stay somewhat longer. My friends are used to those things by now, but I am always paying dearly for it with a lot of good natured jokes at my expense.^^
But I am completely fine with that. It is how we are and that is fine. Yet we do not see reason to give a name to this child and therefore (maybe) create problems....