2nd attempt at Permanent Chastity

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    Our first attempt lasted only about 6 months about 3 years ago.
    My Lady is definitely Vanilla in the bedroom although she has learnt a few things from me since we've been together.
    32 years with her first man who by all accounts had a very high sex drive which passed to her. I knew him as well a good bloke and from what I saw they loved each other ( never thought I would end up with her). Cancer took him unfortunately.
    Our first foray into chastity came at a bad time for her due too stress at work a job change that didn't go well ( we won the court case a couple of weeks ago) and chastity and the lifestyle didn't work out.
    Chastity was always on my mind and the cage was always with me in my bag or on while away at work. Always looking at various websites and finding the Mansion.
    After ordering my new HT v4 and trying out the various rings and deciding on the Nub as against the Nano I put the keys on her bedside table on Saturday morning ( she had late shift at work and didn't get in till about 1 o'clock I gave her an hour's massage and then we went to sleep with me in my cage) She didn't click on what they were for at first until I told her after she asked what they were for.
    This WE I did the cooking and helped her around the house ( even getting the Xmas decorations out, she loves that sort of thing I don't) Last night she asked if I was sure I wanted it because her idea is Give and Take and can't get it into her head that I am getting something from getting nothing. So she said " I'll have to get into the idea " .
    Hopefully it'll work out this time.
    Also had a light bulb go on in my head last night. Realized that chastity and my ED go together. First tried chastity with a jealous GF in an attempt to calm her down while I was away at work. Not finding a cage that I could wear permanent and not being able too get him up as I wanted started around the same time.
    Last night after My Lady said OK we'll give it another go Little Willy wanted to get hard.
    Will send My Lady a link I found here to try to give her some help as a Keyholder as she has forgotten most of what she learnt on our first attempt..
    Will keep updating here as too how it is going.
     
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    Good luck. Do you need to look at permanent chastity? That's a tall ask, whereas long term chastity, with agreed timescales, makes it much more likely you won't fail.

    Hope it works out for you both.
     
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    It's good that she's willing to go along with it, at some point she will either take the lead or not. However, since she seems to have a lot of desire for sex, you should already be aware that it will end in a cuckold scenario.

    Because she will not give up the drive just because you want to be locked in the cage.

    Nevertheless, I wish you both good luck on this path.
     
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    First night away with no key to ipen cage if l wanted too. I thought it was going to be harder but slept like a baby with no wake up due to attempted hard on. Just a great feeling of love for My Lady for giving it another try.
    Spare key l have got with me but secured so I can only use it in emergencey.
     
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    Heat shrink tubing for cables. Without cutting it impossible to get it of
     
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    Why push permanent to start? Why not you just stay locked unless she want you out?
     
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    She can let me out for her pleasure if she wants. It's entirely up to her
     
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    Got woke up by the morning wood for the first time this week that I couldn't get rid off by just willing it away. Excited about seeing My Lady and wondering whether l get a release for more than a clean up and shave.
    One part of me wants more than clean up and shave and another wants just that and to serve My Lady as she deserves.
     
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    Try some numbing creme/spray under a condom. Very fun and intimate experience yet you won't orgasm! The joy of orgasm is such a short and fleeting pleasure yet the intimacy is so much greater.
     
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    That's all upto My Lady. It's her choice.
     
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    Phew...I have no worries about being cuckolded then.
     
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    10 days without being let out not even for a clean and shave. Let out for that last night and had a hard on nearly all night. No playing with it either, so no coming. Back in the cage now though.
     
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    13 days with only 10 minutes for clean-up and shave out of cage. Never been locked for so long and horny as fuck.
    The next good thing is my GF is reading the link "Secret too a happy marriage" and seems to be learning from it. Hope it goes as well as I hope.
     
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    Last night I gave My Lady an hour long massage and was then allowed to give her oral for another hour when she stopped me and said that's enough "I can't take anymore".
    Then My Lady told me too lie down an my back and started to kiss me all over rubbing her Pussy over my locked up dick at the same time. After less than 10 minutes I started leaking come that's when I said you have just given me a ruined orgasm. My Lady then smiled and said "That's enough for you then" gave me a kiss and said " Let's go for a smoke" We went outside for a smoke with me still trying to get hard in my cage.
    That is the first time she has managed a ruined orgasm on me. On our first try at Chastity she tried a few times but it never worked.
    My Lady is definitely getting into this now.
    God do I love her.
     
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    Tried using the HT v4 Nano with largest ring. Doesn't work. Both balls pulled between cage and ring. The Nub und large ring work no problem but not the Nano that will have to go with the next ring size down.
     
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    Happy New Year.

    So it's been over a month now caged and no come or orgasm for me. Only been out for a good wash and shave once a week and I love it.
    Yesterday I was washing and shaving my dick and was so sensitive I nearly ejaculated from that. God I am so horny now.
    I hope I get to come soon or at least empty my balls.

    Last week when the cage slipped of I used the spare key to change back to the Nub. It was tempting to play with myself but managed not to thank God.
     
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    Thanks for sharing,
     
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    Been a while since I've updated SORRY.
    Last weekend full PIV sex Didn't get too come inside My Lady as she had me tied to the bed with her on top. She tried giving me a ruined orgasm but unfortunately (or not ) she didn't stop soon enough and pushed me over the edge. BLISS l wasn't really sorry for that even though she was a bit disappointed that it didn't work. I said better luck next time.
    After she freed me she said no need to put the cage on now do it in the morning so had the benefit of sleeping free. Felt a bit strange.
    Now back in chastity and hoping that next time it is just as hot when I get out off my HT again .
     
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    Isn't that just the best feeling, when it feels more normal to be caged than not?
     
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    Congratulations
     
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    Get home on Friday to find My Lady has trapped a nerve in her back, So it was a case of give here a massage to try and relieve the pain. Did help a bit so I gave her a nice long clit massage with 3 orgasms. Didn't help her back due too her arching her back and trembling legs but she said it was worth it. Me I just got the joy off pleasing her rest off weekend uneventful due to her bad back. Hopefully next weekend will be better.
     
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    Last weekend My Lady was feeling better with her back so I decided to give her something special.
    After we both showered she put on a sexy red Negligee and we went into the bedroom. Normally I would start kissing her and stroking her through the Negligee. But this time I decided to surprise her and put a mask over her eyes and then started to stroke her all over. I then gently pushed her onto the bed and using the bed ties tied her up arms and legs spread so it was she who was helpless and couldn't do anything.
    I then got a makeup brush and started to gently stroke her all over with it. I then got a small vibrator out and started on her small breasts with the vibrator and gently round her now erect nipples. After that I started going lower towards her Venus with the small vibrator and gently worked around her inner and outer lips slowly arousing her even more but being careful not to let her orgasm too fast. I wanted to give her a nice long time.
    When I saw she was close too orgasm I stopped using the vibrator and started kissing her and gently bitting her nipples through the Negligee. After she had come down from the edge of orgasm I brought out the magic wand and started using that to bring her to orgasm and having got the Lady Satisfier ready alternated between that and the magic wand keeping her on a constant orgasm.
    Me all the time locked up in my cage was dripping precum after about 5 minutes of tying her too the bed and more than leaking precum I didn't get just the pleasure of making sure My Lady had a great orgasm.
    Later she couldn't say how many times she came or whether it was just one long orgasm with higher and lower intensity. It made no difference too me because I was happy knowing My Lady had had a good time.
     
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    Sounds wonderful, for both of you.
     
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    It is. Being the "Dom" and not being able to come is definitely a mind twist.
     
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