The WIFE(KH) and i decided that i would be locked until my doctors appointment at the end of January, that means Christmas and New years parties while locked. i guess it is time to start practicing the chastity hug.You know the hug, the one where you keep a foot or more distance between your hips and theirs while you hug, or when caught by surprise and you turn sideways and hug? Start practicing. Happy holidays everyone.
I hadn't considered it seasonal before, but the hips back, then lean inward to give a slightly awkward `chastity hug' does get used more often this time of year! Nice observation, and happy holidays
LOL OMG, yes! being caged most of the time has taught me how to hug without them feeling some steel! Too funny, never really thought about that too much. Maybe I should watch for our side hugers out there and check out their packages!! They might be packing some steel too!
The thing is, when you get so used to wearing it that you forget that you have it on, it can surprise you more than it ever surprises anyone else if you make unintentional contact.
Generally being quite a bit taller then most of the people i hug, I have to bend down to their height so naturally my hips go backwards. Lucky me i guess lol. But I've also mastered the christian side hug just in case.
Just keep a set of keys (obviously not including "that" key) in your pocket, and if anyone notices, you have a perfectly innocent explanation.
I was always one who naturally did a side hug, long before chastity. Chastity enforced that practice even more and holiday parties were never a problem for accidental discovery. Several years ago, one of the younger ladies in the office was working late on a project with me and we were basically the only ones in the office. As we were just clearing things up, I told her to go home for the evening and she left. A few minutes later she was back at my office door in tears, she had a flat tire. I grabbed my jacket and told her not to worry, I’d either change her tire or drop her off at home and pick her up in the morning. we went outside and her spare was good, so not only did I change her tire but showed her how to do the task. I told her to meet me at the tire shop down the street in the morning so she could leave her car to get the tire fixed and put back on the car. the next thing I know she jump on me and gave me this big hug and a kiss on the cheek when she felt my steel cage poking her stomach. She asked what it was and when I explained she kind of didn’t believe me. I told her she could talk to my wife but please don’t tell anyone. The next morning I picked her up and thru the day our conversations were strictly business and like nothing happened. imagine my surprise when I came back from an errand on Saturday and she was sitting in my living room with my wife. The next thing my wife has me drop my pants and has the young girl touching, probing and asking questions. A few weeks later she transferred out of my department for a new position and we only passed each other in the hallway. She never brought it up nor say anything to anyone. a year later her and her new fiancé are in my living room and she has home drop his pants. He is now caged and she is in control. She thanked my wife for all the tips and gave me another hug and a kiss on the cheek for showing her a new lifestyle. she was never part of our social circle and left the company for a big promotion shortly after that day. I know she got married but have lost contact with her but when she use to pass me would always smile and give me a wink.
This was a story arc on a Curb Your Enthusiasm episode. Larry had to explain to a close hugger to keep the pelivses seperate. It was really funny.
I had a similar situation when the grandkids were here and my 3 yr old grandson climbed up on my lap!
well i didnt do any hugging over the holiday....socially distancing.....but i have pre covid and done proper hugs and kisses with ladies, i thought if they do feel my cage they might say something, but i never had any comments