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    #1 HippyMinx, Nov 21, 2021
    Hey
    I'm new to this, I'm a KH and my husband has been locked up for 2 day.. and counting... The mansion has been great reading for me, but I thought I'd ask for any tips.... my husband trusts me and I want to gain my own confidence as I really enjoy dominating him as I'm quite submissive naturally.
     
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    #2 maid julie, Nov 21, 2021
    Welcome there are a lot of nice people here and great ideas. I would getting hold of Luck who owns the site and getting verified
    Remember that it’s what you want it to be but do not forget your husband. Make sure that some how he knows every day that you know that he is secure. Have fun
    maid julie.
     
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    #3 subrick, Nov 21, 2021
    Welcome!

    I'm sure you'll be able to learn all sorts of things from the Keyholders and those of us who are locked up. Feel free to browse the various forums and ask questions.

    You should also understand that there are all sort of related "kinks" for many of us in chastity such as cross-dressing, bondage, cuckolding, female-led-relationship, etc. It might help if you think of this place like a buffet....you take what you like and leave the rest! :) As you develop your own interests, as does your husband, you'll probably find yourself having "favorite" areas on Chastity Mansion.

    Again, Welcome!!!

    ~subrick
     
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    #4 jemima, Nov 21, 2021
    hello @HippyMinx and welcome to here and i hope You like it here as well.
     
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    #5 sissy veronique, Nov 21, 2021
    Hello and welcome HippyMinx to Chastity Mansion.
     
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    #6 latexbound, Nov 21, 2021
    Welcome!
     
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    #7 Devoted Hubby, Nov 21, 2021
    Hello & welcome @HippyMinx & hubby, we known a couple of naturally submissive females over the years, that have moved to the Dark-Side successfully ;).
     
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    #8 TheLockedMaid, Nov 21, 2021
    Hiya, I'm new here as well but on the other side.

    Firstly your hubby is lucky!

    There's some really good advice above. Some suggestions I'd make from long experience, don't unlock when you first promise to, letting them know you really are in charge.

    Test their boundaries, long term you'll probably do it anyway so get them in a pair of panties ASAP, right now, tonight, tomorrow. Find any reason and see if it sticks. You'll like it,promise!

    Personal hygiene, shaving etc is good to set boundaries around.

    Have fun exploring anal, you'll want a strap on so order one now.

    You have the chance to have anything you want, use it.

    Enjoy xxxxxxxxxx
     
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    #9 Xileh, Nov 21, 2021
    Welcome!

    Probably the first thing you might decide on; is chastity just for play, or is he submissive and you will be using chastity and domination a full time practice?

    Both are fine, but your path forward and questions here will greatly benefit by knowing the answer, or at least considering it.

    You are a very special woman to be interested and open enough to research the topic and join this community. You will encounter many very knowledgeable and fine people here.
     
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    #10 madams-sissysub, Nov 21, 2021
    Hi there and welcome to the mansion!
     
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    #11 MissyB, Nov 21, 2021
    Welcome to our community. I hope you find it helpful and entertaining.
     
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    #12 Mistress Tea, Nov 22, 2021
    Welcome. I am a fairly new KH too. This is a great group to learn and get ideas from. Enjoy.
     
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    #13 Nicoftime, Nov 22, 2021
    Welcome!

    Despite I’m sure very well meaning advice, being a keyholder doesn’t come with any baggage. You can do it any way that feels right.

    My kh came here, joined, and was bombarded with “suggestions” and she decided this wasn’t the place for her. So don’t let any “suggestions” scare you away.

    Enjoy your stay, and I’m looking forward to hearing about your new adventure!
     
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    #14 LesterBallard, Nov 22, 2021
    Hello and welcome. You're best getting suggestions from our female members, so it would be an idea to get verified. That way you can ask for information in the female-only forum. Contact @L-u-c-y if you want to do that. Good luck.
     
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    #15 iome343, Nov 22, 2021
    Welcome, I'm sure you'll fit right in here.

    Personally I agree with @Nicoftime : there is no right and wrong recipe, only your/your way.

    Use the suggestions or ideas to experiment with what fits you best (and the degree to which the same idea fits you).
    And then allow yourself to make wrong choices and the opportunity to try and experiment and change your way.
     
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    #16 Bullitt, Nov 23, 2021
    Hello Hippy Minx. I just recently joined and the info here has been great for me and my Wife(KH) to explore our male chastity journey as she is very vanilla and has gained confidence taking on the dominant role

    Subrick was spot on about the site and I definitely agree with Maid Julie.l about letting your husband know you haven’t forgotten he’s secure. Just a little pat or squeeze of my cage before I leave for work or when I get home reminds me she is in control.
     
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    #17 DonnaSue, Nov 23, 2021
    Welcome to CM! Always remember that, as a KH, you are in charge. DOn't let any subs on here fill your head with their personal favorite things.That would be "topping from the bottom"/ Do as you want. You are the boss, Ma'am!
     
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    #18 The decorator, Nov 25, 2021
    Hi welcome to the wonderful world of the mansion my wife is quite submissive but is loving having control for maybe the first time in her life and I want her to discover a new side to herself send me a message and I’ll pass it on to my wife maybe you girls could swap note?
     
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    #19 TheLockedMaid, Nov 27, 2021
    Wow look @HippyMinx new avatar....absolutely gorgeous xx
     
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    #20 HippyMinx, Dec 1, 2021
    Got to keep that key safe!
     
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    #21 HippyMinx, Dec 2, 2021
    Thanks yeah def need to get verified, it's a lot of responsibility and power! I'm not natural to this but I'm working on it
     
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    #22 HippyMinx, Dec 2, 2021
    Yeah is your wife on here? It's hard making decisions on it... it doesn't come naturally but I'm working on it!
     
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    #23 The decorator, Dec 2, 2021
    No she’s not but maybe you girls could have a chat would you like me to ask her?
     
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    #24 The decorator, Dec 2, 2021
    Hi again if you’d like to ask me my perspective on being a locked hubby then I’d be happy to chat with you I will ask my wife if she would like to chat with you too we may learn from each other let’s hope so! X
     
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    #25 Secret Pantie Boy, Dec 8, 2021
    Hi HippyMinx
    Uour situation sounds lkke many where the male wants to be dominated. Goid luck with your quedt and I hope uou are successful and can inspire other womrn to find their true pkafe in society.
     
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