What numbing cream would you recommend for guys who just cant stop being hard before going in cage ?

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    I tried frozen peas but still never works
     
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    Put the cage on while your in a cold shower . Or have your K/H give it a few good swats with a fly swatter . Thev flyswatter or belt will bruise your cock a bit if it hits hard enough , but The bruises soon go away..
     
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    Numbing cream won’t stop your erection. The erection is coming from your mental state of arousal.

    The easiest solution is to masturbate first, and then cage yourself. Obviously, that solution may or may not fit into your chastity perspective.

    You might also trying “surprising yourself”. That is, get your device ready, and maybe even get the base ring on. Then go do a task or chore that requires your focus. When that ends, immediately get to your device and get the cage on before you are fully erect.
     
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    I will give these ideas a try thank you so much
     
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    Sit waist deep in cold water for 20 mins.
     
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    You can't achieve that with numbing cream. To prevent the swelling or to become flabby again, cold helps.

    So cold water and good.

    You can use the numbing cream if you want to annoy the sub, for example. Masturbate for 5 minutes - do not cum - lock up again. Goes wonderfully with numbing cream.
     
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    Cold bath or shower, or just using a wash cloth that's been dipped in cold water.
    Both cold and wet have different effects that will help.
    The cold makes your blood divert away from your extremities, penis included.
    The wet makes you to want to possibly urinate, which requires you to be flaccid.

    Another thing to do while doing that is to think of something not sexy...
    When you're cold, wet and have everything in position ready to go, start thinking about work, or try doing a long division in your head, eg: "243 / 17 = ?".

    When I started out I had the same problem of excitement, and both of the above helped.
    The good news is that the more you do it, the easier it gets.
     
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    Put on the cage and push down hard until it clicks into place. Oil if needed. Or squeeze the life out of it. Don't know what all the fuss is about! ;)
     
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    I would doubt if numbing cream would do the trick, however in order to answer the question I would recommend Stud 100. Contains 9.6% Lidocaine and can be obtained in the UK from Express Chemist for £6.60. Completely ignore the instructions and spray lots. You won't feel a thing, but its kinda like (actually its exactly the same) as the stuff the dentist uses.
     
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    I think most folks have not really put a generous glob of lidocaine on their penis. It is enormously difficult to get hard IF you put it on well beforehand. THAT's the key. Slather it on, wait half an hour.....THEN try to put your cage on.

    4% is the legal over the counter concentration allowed in the USA. I can only imagine how "dead" you'd be with the 9.6%.
     
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    It's technically not over the counter, you have to convince the online pharmacist that you have premature ejaculation and they will dispense. Limp, yep.
     
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    Once anesthetized, I tried my hardest to stroke myself to an orgasm. I couldn't do it.
     
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    Lady C took our main powered vibrator and managed to make me orgasm after about 15 minutes. It was strange as I knew I had ejaculated but didn't actual feel a lot of the usual sensations.
     
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    Oh yes. Let's count "numbing cream" as one of my kinks.
     
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    I agree!
     
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    Instillagel (5% lidocaine gel) very definately stops me getting hard if applied before any stimulation (ie. Putting the cage on).

    It's usually used for catheterisation and I've found that inserting about 50% into the urethra and spreading the rest over the surface of the penis works very well. After around 10 minutes I have literally no feeling at all in my penis (and I do mean no feeling - I've had needles stuck in while blindfolded and didn't believe it until I saw them!).

    Oddly, just spreading it over the surface doesn't seem to produce the same level of numbing for me but everyone is different.

    Similarly, if I'm aroused first then have a cock ring & the gel applied I stay hard but get completely numb. You do need to be careful doing that - the numbness blocks the usual warning signals so be careful with the ring and watch the blood circulation...

    The effect usually lasts around 45 minutes, peakkng between 15 & 30 minutes after application then fading.

    Also, never be tempted to mix viagra (or similar) and lidocaine, bad reactions are possible and nothing ruins a night of fun like a visit to a&e!
     
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    Thank you i will give this a go
     
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    Walk around for a few minutes, without thinking about the cage or any other sexy thoughts.

    Putting the cage on gets easier with practice, I can get the ring and cage on in under 30 seconds.
     
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    You do not want to put on numbing cream before installing a cage. You don’t want to ignore pinches or pain. The sensation of confinement is part of the experience.
     
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    I have found that having the cage put in place by Mistress provides more reason to be erect than if I simply put it on myself. For that reason, Mistress always has me put the cage on - to the point of inserting the lock and then She comes in and clicks it shut. She normally gives me a reassuring tug - to reassure Her that it is firmly in place and to reassure me that there is no escape. I have used a bag of frozen veggies, on occasion, but only when I self install the cage. Nothing seems to work when She is manipulating my body parts!
     
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    for some men i think it best to put the ring on first and then just leave that bit on and do other thingys. Then after a bit just put the cage on quick before it grow big.
     
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