Go outside in chastity?

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    #1 DutchGuy, Nov 1, 2021
    Hi all,

    since I am very new to this, I just have my first chastity device for 3 days, I am doubting to do my grocery shopping wearing my chastity cage. Then I saw the option of Emlalock and thought, why not let others decide. So the deal is when the timer stays above 4 hours (yes very short for the most of you) I will have to go shopping with my chastity cage on.

    please help me decide.


    https://www.emlalock.com/#/f/ri4m1y5vlw
     
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    #2 corsac, Nov 1, 2021
    Added 30. You can do it! It gets easier with time but enjoy the rush of the first time!
     
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    #3 DutchGuy, Nov 1, 2021
    Thanks
     
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    #4 Gcar1951, Nov 1, 2021
    Added 30
     
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    #5 DutchGuy, Nov 1, 2021
    Thanks!
     
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    #6 MissyB, Nov 1, 2021
    Although i love Emlalock, it is silly to not just go. You need to get used to being in your cage most of the time, if not always. No one will know you are locked up and soon, you'll feel naked without it, well almost naked. Good luck and enjoy.
     
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    #7 DutchGuy, Nov 1, 2021
    Thank you. I just need some push, but looking at the counter right now I will have to go with. (Unless a few people will reduce my time)
     
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    #8 DutchGuy, Nov 1, 2021
    Someone is endangering the point of no return. Then I have to grow some balls (pun intended) to go without obligations.

    please help

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    #9 jemima, Nov 1, 2021
    hello @DutchGuy and welcome to here and i hope you like it here as well and i have just gived you another 30 mins and tho thats not very long i spose it cos you new so that ok. going out in a cage is something that you has to get use to cos if you dont then it not gonna be on very long is it really.
     
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    #10 DutchGuy, Nov 1, 2021
    Thank you very much! Indeed it is because I am new to this.

    My longest time so far is 4 hours. The max of this session is 8 hours, so that would already double the time. And thanks to you and others here the time is now 6,5 hours. So going out is save I think, but perhaps a second milestone.
     
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    #11 Andy80, Nov 1, 2021
    I like that as you're new to chastity, you've sensibly (in my view) gone for amounts of time in minutes and hours. There is no shame talking of hours at the start of the chastity journey. Do what ever feels comfortable and enjoyable for you.

    Each to their own, but personally I think anyone brand new to being locked up, and going from a standing start to asking for day after day to be added (until it's well over a month) - well, they are tougher than me!

    Good luck with your increasing milestones - chastity is an amazing journey but one to be savoured (with all its ups and downs) and not rushed.
     
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    #12 DutchGuy, Nov 1, 2021
    Thanks all for voting, I went to the grocery store with my chastity cage and it was a wonderful feeling, a mix of afraid being caught, bravery and a nice tension.

    actually the nice tension this day followed the graph of the time to be spent in chastity (you can still add time (hint) )

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    #13 DutchGuy, Nov 1, 2021
    I found the Emlalock a little addictive, and therefor increased the maximum duration to 1 day. Do I also have to sleep with my chastity device? Please vote
     
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    #14 King Hippo, Nov 1, 2021
    It is good to start slow with all this, but just go about your normal day wearing it. You will eventually be fine... just don't wear anything that shows a ridiculous bulge, lol.
     
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    #15 DutchGuy, Nov 1, 2021
    No speedo’s are out of question, lol
     
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    #16 King Hippo, Nov 1, 2021
    Honestly, a swim brief might be a good solution for underwear. But I mean tighter pants like skinny jeans can be a little rough to wear if you have a larger device.
     
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    #17 DutchGuy, Nov 1, 2021
    Indeed, that’s why I wear a tight boxershort in normal jeans.
     
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    #18 Locked in love, Nov 2, 2021
    The first few times I went public wearing a cage, I was certain the whole world would stare at my crotch. Turns out, no-one looks and if they did there isn't much to see and it quickly becomes normal.
     
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    #19 DutchGuy, Nov 2, 2021
    Now sleeping with it. I did not know I had erections this often during the night. Now every time I wake-up from it. Not feeling particularly pleasant.
     
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    #20 Charles3451, Nov 2, 2021
    I have very kindly added 30 mins to your time via Emlalock.
     
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    #21 DutchGuy, Nov 2, 2021
    Thank you very much.
     
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    #22 MikeLocked, Nov 2, 2021
    With just over an hour left on your chastity timer, I thought you would appreciate another 30 minutes. Enjoy!
     
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    #25 Ron33, Nov 2, 2021
    I started locking up when my wife went to work and I stayed home during the week. i would lock up before she left for the day and take it off at night. I went to town, shopped etc. I was sure someone would notice a small bump, but I don't think they did. I got used to pretty quick and strangely, felt naked if I didn't have it own. We even went to the beach once and I wore under my bathing suit.
     
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