Contracts

As a submissive, I enjoy receiving impact play from my Dominant. The paddle is the worst, and though I've never used a safe word, she's had me close a couple of times. The pain is right up there and I will be jumping around and yelping cause my ass is on FIRE. It always sounds sexy before, and it is after, but during...NOPE.

She has a whip, but she's very tentative with it and so I don't get it much. Though it literally makes her drip wielding it.

As they say BE CAREFUL WHAT YOU WISH FOR lol

 

There is always a lot of contract talk amongst chastity enthusiasts. Are most of you lawyers or judges?

 

My wife and I have a detailed contract. It doesn’t actually mention chastity directly, but she has said that masturbation is disrespectful to her, and that I am not allowed to cum without her permission.

What does have are some detailed relationship rules that make it into an FLR.

In particular, her decision is final on any topic, and my contributions are with her invitation and permission only.

I’m also not allowed to negotiate, and I have to satisfy her that I fully understand what she wants and what her point of view is before I’m allowed to share my side or my input.

Our agreement also includes that I will accept verbal or any other kind of correction from her without defending myself, and that she must be satisfied that I fully understand why I am being corrected and what I must do differently in future before I will be given a chance to explain myself.

There is a lot more detail to it. We negotiated it together over quite a long period of time, and then it became the basis of our marriage vows when we got married. There is no safeword and and I’m not allowed to talk about the agreement without asking for her explicit permission. Changes to the rules are possible with mutual agreement, but she gets to decide what is considered and when.

In practice our dynamic doesn’t involve a lot of ceremony, and the rules aren’t necessarily obvious to other people, but she holds me to them strictly. Mostly they matter when she is unhappy with something or there is a potential conflict.

 

We used to do a contract with dates and terms.

But now she just locks and enslaves me when she wants and we have time to play.

Once enslaved there are no terms. She is the mistress and I am the slave. I stay locked until she doesn't want to play anymore.

 

We don't have a contract. I've brought up the idea to my wife, and she looked at me with a puzzled look.
"What? Why would we need to sign anything? There is nothing for us to negotiate. You are my servant, and you do what I want you to do, so whatever a contract were to say, would be overridden by what I want. I do what I want, so whatever a contract were to say, would be overridden by what I want. Now, if you want to keep and update a list of my instructions that's fine, but I am not going to be limited by a contract."

 

Keeper.

 

This is a very good contract. May have to have partner borrow it.

 

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I like this. Although I usually use it backwards from what a lot of people here might use it. If I decide to unlock him because I'm climbing the walls, I'm going to do it even if the "contract" says something like "wife isn't bound to unlock chastity boy when she says she will". Right. Wife can unlock chastity boy BEFORE she says she will. This is all about ME. I don't care if I told him he's in chastity for the next month, if I want him tomorrow, the cage's coming off.

 

My Wife is the same way, chastity is 100% for HER, not me. I get no say in whether I'm locked or unlocked. She keeps me locked continuously until She wants to play. When she is done with me I am immediately locked again. I might get less than an hour to 2 hours out of my device in a whole month.

Let's just say other parts of my body spend a whole lot more time in her than my penis does.

 

"She may punish me for bad behaviour or just because." I love it!!!

 

We used to have a contract and TBH with 20-20 hindsight it was toping from the bottom. So now we have 2 rules: 1 Lady C makes the rules; 2 if in doubt, rule one applies.

And I've had these thrown in my face a lot more than anything that was in a contract. I do have list of expectations which she's happy with. i.e. I get out when I fly and for those work visits where I wouldn't get on site with a cage, or for hospital procedures, and of course I expect one or more orgasms from time to time.

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Change the name, and those are my rules as well. Keeps things simple.

 

I saw, probably on another thred here someone that said that all those contracts are too complicated and that only one line was really necessary and honestly, I found it so simple that it was brilliant :

1. She decides.

And then, there might be an appendix with specific rules to be enforced if needed.

Why so many lines about The hausband cannot touch himself, cannot orgasm without permission, cannot ask for, must obey, and so on. All those seem obvious from the start anyway, and are all easily enforced by rule 1. She decides. First time the hausband asks for release, she answers "Never ask again" problem solved and rule enforced. She want to let him cum, she says so. She want's him to do the chores, she orders. She want's to supervise hygiene, she does.

To me, the most important part would be maybe about underlini g the attitude, and right before the signatures ther would be something like:
"i swear that I will always act in good will and with love and care towards my SO."

 

Contracts a super-hot to write and they’re a lot of fun. We have one and it gets referred to very rarely, although I guess it set some ground rules.

Ultimately, there’s only one rule - completely submit to her wishes and make sure she’s always happy.

 

I failed to read all the contracts in this on this topic. Many seem to me to have been written only by men.

There are some good details in the contracts on this post, but I don’t think they are as comprehensive as mine.
I wrote a contract with my second husband for the first time.
There is no original contract here, ( I intentionally changed many details, so that it would not be the same with my original.) but it is a copy that I wrote from my memory for the purposes of my story that I posted here on the forum. In order not to transcribe or copy, the contract can be found here:

https://www.chastitymansion.com/forums/index.php?threads/mssmiriam.42288/page-3
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Maybe someone will like it. You can throw out or revise the contract and use it for your own needs. I would only like you to let me know.